Creating my own sexual culture (Caution 18+)

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Many people have views on sexuality; I want to reveal my most personal and most controversial idea yet. I’d imagine this idea could remove me from obtaining any career position, but being I’m more-than-likely not going to get a position in my field and that I think people rarely read my blog, I’ll just blog about it anyways. Afterall my personal philosophy is to explore and to state the truths I believe in. This idea was built over time off the beliefs of an online friend of mine. We have collaborated in the past and I have made my own culture building off his ideas and the ideas and values I thought were interesting and I found personal to me. I put my own spin on his idea and he told me he didn't mind. The topic is the creation of your own sexual culture. If I had to create my own sexual culture what would it be? Would it be the Hollywood style swinger life which embraces the taboo or would it be conservative meant only for the privacy in one’s bedroom?

I personally believe in the traditional and that anything sexual should be in the privacy of one’s bedroom where marital love is between one man and one woman. I believe in family and to have family as a strong pillar in one’s life. I believe sex is the special unity that helps bond marriages. Now, if I could influence culture and turn a sexual idea into reality, it would be the idea I’m about to reveal to you here. Before I proceed, my idea is that of “all or nothing” when it comes to sexuality. If by some crazy, insane, and one in an infinite chance that this became a mainstream culture, this would become my practice for sexuality. However, as it stands my values remain with the traditional sexual values and practices admired by religion and conservative western culture. In addition, sexuality for me is also of relatively little importance. Nevertheless, what I’m about to reveal is the idea of creating my own sexual culture. A sexual culture that utilizes ethics (To learn more about my vision of ethics, please seek and read more of my blog). Anyone is free to take from it whatever they like. If you want to use it in anyway be sure to reference the original source (which is here). Overall, these are my beliefs on my own vision of sexuality and the creation of my own sexual culture.

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My Sexual Culture
By S.J.



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Table of Contents:

Introduction
Ethics
Fundamentals of Sexualism
Sexual Culture and Customs
Sex Methods
Entertainment
Society
Friendships
Relationships
Family
Child Development
The Future
Terms
Absurd Ideas Considered







Introduction

History with formulating this culture

My vision for a sexual culture has taken shape in the process of many years. It started with my childhood in Brazil where nudity wasn't too much of a big deal. Nudity was everywhere and it was something you got used to. It was in magazine stands, inside movie houses, late night TV shows, and where we swam in rural popular lake areas, there would be people taking showers and washing their swimwear. At town pools, everyone was naked in the changing rooms. At Brazilian beaches topless people would walk freely. As a child I grew up seeing this as something some adults do. I believed everyone lived the way they wanted. The more I grew older, the more my mother became more religious and the less exposed I was to these materials. As a child I never knew why adults were so over protective about these things. My idea was everyone is human, everyone had similar or different body features. I didn't get more exposed to this content until later high school and it got me in trouble. I searched for it on school computers and got two weeks of detention. The treatment from the school was extremely harsh and it did leave some scars when I talked to others about it. I felt the subject of nudity was forbidden but the magnitude of the punishment made no sense to me. Something so natural was associated with something of tremendous consequence. It was a subject there was nobody to talk to about it. I had no clue how to interact with girls and the subject of females was very mute in my life. Porn was a new thing in my life and I found myself waiting two whole hours for one single image to appear on my computer in secret over a dial-up connection. My junior year was when I learned about sex education and learned a lot of things that was otherwise was a mystery to me. I never full mentally comprehended or digest the material of what was actually occurring hormonal wise until my senior year of high school. Learning about sexuality and life was a slow and abrupt incremental sequence. It wasn't until college when I started having friends with girls. The internet became more fast and I was infatuated by internet girls and digital art. Since I was forever traumatized by the actions of my school experiences, I never revealed my erotic fantasies in my thoughts to nobody. A long time went by before I could open up about myself and my fantasies. It was my lady friends who helped me understand and reveal this side of myself. With time, I overcame the traumas of my past and began exploring myself and what I believed and what I thought was moral in my own honest views outside of any institution or social construct. I came up with sexual rules to express my beliefs. Over time they have evolved into what it is today.

What are my beliefs and is the world ready for this kind of culture?

I strongly believe the world is not ready for this kind of culture and if I were to expose it, it would be an reiteration of the traumatizing event I experienced in my past. Therefore, it's something I only share with my close friends. Nowadays I am more carefree or relaxed sharing it more openly, but I don't think anyone would understand the logic and reasoning behind my sexual culture. Moreover, I don't believe the world is ready to learn and understand this or any sexual culture because of a willingness to want to understand it due to its sexual nature and the influence on their of views of it which extends a lifetime. I ultimate believe they refuse to believe in it because it questions a deeper value in themselves and people commonly do not want to explore or expose value in themselves due to the hypocrisies and objectivities they might uncover. Moreover, in the eyes of an average society, sex is a taboo. It's something kept in secret perhaps due to generations for religious influence or the negative effects on culture it's causes. The typical behavior is virtue signaling to be seen as a protector of societal values. It's also because of this social behavior where sexuality is seen as taboo, many taboos have emerged resulting in perceived sexual promiscuity. I think because most of average society lacks a desire to be intellectual and question beliefs and systems and would rather follow others for the sake of fitting in and acceptance, sexuality and anything relating to it will forever remain a taboo only to be exploited in secret, private, or opportunistically. When individuals are young, they are influenced by their parents, their environment, and culture. If these influencers demonstrate sex as a taboo, then they will carry this conditioning and values throughout their life until something else influences their behavior to change. Another reason why I think the world is not ready for sexual culture is because it lacks understanding of what sexuality is. To the average person it's an intimate activity between individuals under the influence of hormones or emotions. I think it is a lot more than that. I believe sexuality is a way of life because there is so much things the average person doesn't see nor understand. From social interaction, intimate bonds, procreation, families, and the hidden communities surrounding it. I believe there is a lot to be explored in sexuality that can benefit society. In addition, children at a young adult age often lack the discipline and understanding of sexuality resulting in individuals impregnating others and getting into legal trouble. There is no ethics or sexual disciplines. Commonly individuals see it as an addiction or a game of lustful desires and jump from one partner to another without care or restraint. It could be that they feel it is their right. It could be that they are wrapped up in themselves or selfish interests that they feel they can do no wrong. Maybe they believe this is the average culture or what freedom means to them. Some individuals will say it's immoral due to religious views. They will explain Sodom and Gomora and why it offends God in the Old Testament. Because they fear God's punishments, they will not participate in any immoral behaviors. To my understanding, the religious view funnels down to the belief in God and a fear of his wrath. I believe God finds lust and sexual immoral behaviors due to the lack of control society has over it. I think God understands that sexuality along with other evils that are enabled with social decay only gets worst until there is only chaos. I also agree with this logic. Chaos needs to be prevented at all costs. I also believe society can improve itself. I believe it can improve itself thought certain values. I believe it can and has to improve itself if it were to be the optimal and the best version of society it can be, especially if we are to create more communities, colonies, and civilization in space and become an interstellar civilization. As a scientific thinker, I believe in science. I also believe in the possibility of a God. However, I believe it shouldn't be a God we should fear. I believe it should be a God we respect and works alongside. I believe God is an entity that eliminates fear and not one that utilizes it for control. I believe fear is a terrible solution for improving a society. I believe members in a society should be well educated and improve themselves to the best they can which also naturally improves society. I also have two beliefs relating to God. I believe in the possibility that a God as a force or energy that lives potential interdimensionally around us and another belief where God is physical being as depicted in the Enuma-Elish in the times of the Sumerian and Akkaidian mythology. If God is a interdimensional divine force or entity then he gives us the knowledge to improve and overcome. Overcoming sexuality I believe is just another human-obstacle. If the Gods depicted in the Enuma-Elish are accurate, which is depicted before the old testament God Yawah, then human sexuality is a normal way of life as long as reproduction does not lead to overpopulation and eventually chaos. On the subject of God, I don't believe humans can become Gods despite how much wealth, uniqueness, or desire they have. I believe people are people and should live functionally in a community around each other. Furthermore, I understand how religion plays a huge part in modern day morality and social behaviors. I understand individuals in western culture follow cultural customs and traditions based on Judaic-Christian values. Nevertheless, my philosophy on sexuality is the involvement, evolution, and influence of my beliefs and experiences. In conclusion, it’s my belief based on the evidence that society is not ready for it because of its current cultural norms, views, and compatibility with current modern culture.

Why do I believe in a sexual culture?

With a topic as taboo as sexuality, why would I believe in a sexual culture to begin with? Is it a desire for selfish lustful intent? Is it to create an irrational culture that follows crazy ideological philosophies? Is it to have control over a group of people? I believe in this sexual culture because I believe sexuality and nudity can liberate a society and improve it. I believe creating a new sexual culture and vision can improve interaction with people, create meaningful relationships, build families, and can be used to teach values that can be used to improve individuals which improve society. I also believe sexuality is a subject that is not fully understood and is misunderstood, can be mysterious, and is the topic that has a lot to learn, explore, and improve. I believe learning about sexuality can improve the quality of life, improve marriage, and create a more intimate, opened, warm, united, and close society. Moreover, I believe that humans should have the full human experience in the limited time they have in life. I believe sexuality and nudity plays a huge role in being human, developing oneself, and influencing society. I believe sexuality helps in human development in mental maturity and obtaining an understanding of becoming a completed, optimal, and improved version of oneself. I believe all people should be balanced with a variety of experiences. I believe sexual experiences can unite people and make an authentic and closer society. I believe arousal is a natural emotion and an important part of life and human interaction.

What if it leads to negative outcomes?

It's always possible that it could lead to negative consequences as time evolves and society changes. If the values of this culture are not preserved, it could lead to serious socio-results. Because I believe it's incompatible with current modern culture, I believe modern society is not ready for a sexual culture. If it were to exist, member of the sexual culture would have to be very loyal to its rules, values, practices, and culture. They would have to develop a personal loyalty to the culture and create a lifestyle they are naturally bound to. It's also uncertain it would stand the test of time and generational evolution so I believe the best way to make this culture would be to create and turn it into a small community. In this community everyone would have to demonstrate or provide a personal sense of responsibility and connection to the culture. It would be up to every individual to preserve the culture. I want to think if this culture was fundamentally rooted in its personal values, members can preserve the culture and use it to improve their community. If it gets beg enough and stands the test of evolution and time, I think it can be used to improve society. Therefore, it would be up to society to keep the culture from evolving and having negative outcomes and consequences.

What is the purpose of sexualism?

The primary purpose is to liberate society, improve society, and human interaction. The secondary purpose is to improve oneself through personalized values which influences an improved and more liberating community or society.

Where should sexualist reside?

Sexualists should live among the average individuals in society as long as they do not bother anyone with their culture. This might require them to add window tint on their home windows or an utilize of an elevated fence. I would prefer a community of sexualists so they are free to express and practice the sexualist culture freely and openly as part of the sexualist lifestyle.

How can sexualism be implemented?

Sexualism uses a collective set of values, rules, and cultural practices. However, before these values, rules, and cultural practices can be taught, members in a sexualist community or society must first learn about the culture and its ethics. It's ethics requires for each member to improve themselves. It's not until after member learns ethics and improve themselves to become the best versions of themselves can they participate in the sexualist culture.

Ethics

What are the ethical values taught?

There are two types of ethics values. There are principle values and regular values. Principle value are values that are placed with higher priority in the culture. These values are:

Principle values:

Goodwill, Logic, Harmony, Respect, Intellectuality, Improvement, Balance, Consent, Tolerance, Rationality, Strategy, Honesty, Consideration, Compassion, and Emotional intelligence.

Principle and standard values with reasons and definitions:

•Promotion of goodwill towards yourself and goodwill towards others.
•Social harmony (having a harmony in natural social dynamics and common practice of interaction and behaviors where violence is seen as an immediate extreme.)
•Logic (Using accurate and truthful information. Practicing common sense. Ability to use deduction, correlation, and reasoning of information and actions)
•Righteousness (Doing what is right and standing for principles)
•Respect (A key component to building a society that is functional and civilized)
•Kindness (A behavior that demonstrates goodwill to oneself and others)
•Intellectuality (being intelligent, curious, backed up by accurate and trusted sources, being a self-learner, and being a self-oriented critical thinker. Questioning the world around you and asking the right questions.)
•Tolerance (Overlooking the fallacies, ignorances, and arrogances of others. Coping harmoniously-neglecting narratives and actions one disagrees with.)
•Rationality (The state of maintaining rationality and composure under any circumstance. The ability to be civilized, self-criticizing of owns behaviors especially under conflict and danger. Ability to self-moderate and analyze extreme thoughts and ideologies.)
•Compassion (An ability to show empathy and caring of others. An interest to help others. A desire of showing goodwill to others and to support others to overcome obstacles.)
•Strategy (Finding ways to improve or influence desired results and outcomes. Finding ways to take the high ground and have desired winning scenarios. Having realistic and accurate plans to achieve a goal. Having testable scenarios to use in a plan. Examining the pros and cons of a situation and its short and long term effects.)
•Harmony (An important component for functionality and social order and progress.)
•Honesty (all honesty can be defined using language methods and considerate terms. Being okay with not knowing everything. Knowing when to listen and learn. Being okay with and correcting yourself when you are wrong. Revealing things about yourself to people you trust and not take advantage of you. Honesty is the key to improvement and winning strategy.)
•Consideration (being self-aware of one's action and behaviors around others. Being aware of how others might see or criticize you.)
•Goodwill (A key component of ethics to improve the state of oneself and society and build a socio-behavior to improve the lives of each other. Establishing security to protect individuals and allow society to flourish. Having goodwill for oneself and goodwill for others.)
•Philosophic (Understanding the world around you. Understanding it through the eyes of the world and understanding it with your own interpretation and observation. Learning of your own philosophy and improving it over time).
•Questioning (question everything. Learn about everything. Question to learn, improve, and teach others. Question to obtain truthful, meaningful, and valuable accurate information. Also remember, accurate information correlates with other accurate information which allows you to piece together information you know so you can learn things on your own by just thinking about them and refining your knowledge.)
•Peaceful (A state of harmony in society where people can live life without fear)
•Caring (Having a desire to help, support, and improve the quality of life of others)
•Sharing (Life is best when it can be shared with others. People are social creatures and should cooperate and teach each other.)
•Selfless (demonstrating humility, being at peace with the exposure of one's weaknesses and vulnerabilities, and giving all of yourself to improve the quality of life of others)
•Multi-perspective (thinking about a subject or topic through a variety of angles, mindsets, ways of thinking (creative or logical) and perspectives.)
•Knowledgeable (Having expert knowledge or a variety of knowledge about everything and the ability to apply it in real-world situations. The ability to have the knowledge and apply it to daily life.)
•Critical Thinking (Thinking for oneself without any reliance on resources or guides. Using and correlating information you already knew to understand things on your own. The ability to ask the right questions to further one's knowledge and have a deeper understanding.)
•Dedication (Being stubborn to give up and working hard or overworking hard to achieve a goal or outcome)
•Experienced (Accumulating a variety of experiences for a fulfilling and resource-filled life. Learning about things through experience which can help one improve or teach things. It's good to be an expert at something where others can come to you for advice and help.)
•Skillful (developing yourself with a verity of skills to be used as tools whenever you need them. Developing skills to make yourself more valuable.)
•Determined (persistency and dedication to achieve a goal or outcome. Stubborn to give up and carry a desire to try harder continuously when you believe in something. Perhaps the ability to try something one hundred time or more to achieve something.)
•Perseverant (Maintaining an active role in an action for change or achieving an interest or outcome.)
•Reasoning (Utilizing logic, critical thinking, observation, deduction to come to an accurate conclusion. Figuring out why something failed or did not work as intended.)
•Purity (Being simple and humble. Preserving the innocents of youthful minds.)
•Organized (The ability to having plans that are realistic, functional, and achievable. The ability to develop a way or path of clear understanding. To be very neat with the ability to find items which allows you to work more effectively. The ability to utilize kaizen and organizational disciplines. The ability to set plans with deadlines.)
•Patience (Developing a sense of self-awareness where one understand there are things they cannot control in life and therefore need to let them play out. Developing a tolerance for others. Having the self-discipline to wait and display self-control.)
•Prepared (The ability to be prepared and a few steps ahead through any given circumstance)
•Understanding (the ability to learn and correlate mental data to build an understanding of the world around oneself. To learn as much as possible to have a useful tool belt of accurate information)
•Happy (Being satisfied with what one has. Finding appreciation in the small things. Having a pursuit of what they think will make one happy and bring fulfillment and meaning in one's life.)
•Joyful (Enjoying the time that bring delight. Expressing oneself in a satisfied, appreciative, and enlightened state. A state in which to help others also feel good.)
•Structured (Having others understand the format of things so that they can learn and know what to expect)
•Emotion Controlling (Having emotional intelligence and self-awareness of one's behavior and finding ways to recognize and keep the peace and functionality)
•Uplifting (Being there for others when they need someone, talking or just listening to others who are in an emotional state)
•Self-vulnerable and Insecurity Accepting (understanding oneself and others are not perfect and that everyone is human and subject to human-error. It's accepting oneself as imperfect. It's accepting ones faults. It's realizing one's insecurities and overcoming them. Allowing yourself to be vulnerable to make yourself stronger and build stronger friendships).
•Acceptance of oneself and one's faults (Accepting yourself for who you are, your problems, and your interests)
•Self-transforming (building yourself and improving yourself so that you can become the best version of yourself. It's finding ways to improve yourself or asking yourself difficult questions to learn more about yourself. After you learn more about yourself, you can then develop yourself by finding ways to improve yourself and your life. Relying on yourself for development and change).
•Simplifying (This is making accurate understandings with simple to understand terms so that others can learn. It's learning to live with less clutter. It's learning to live without unnecessary items or hording unneeded objects).
•Civil (maintaining a state of civility. Maintaining civility and rationality when your environment is completely chaotic. Remaining calm, collected, and focused while others may be trying to instigate, promote fear, and behave irrationally.)
•Heart-warming (developing a side of you that produces a warm or romantic feeling with others)
•Appreciation (Just like Buddha's idea that one should appreciate what one has and not be sad for when it disappears because one has achieved value with the item. Its appreciating friends and family in the present while they are still around and alive because one day they might to be around. Its appreciating objects you have and appreciating the objects you used to have that brought you so much value. It's appreciating your heritage, despite how tragic or controversial, and appreciating yourself and your growth and your memories).
•Solutionizer (finding ways to make things better, fix things, or find solutions. In a relationship, it's finding ways to work, make sacrifices, compromises, deals, and solutions so everyone can be happy)
•Motivational (motivating yourself or help motivating others to achieve success, improve, challenge, and build value).
•Inspirational (building yourself, growing yourself worth, demonstrating your achievements, skills, refined talents, and capabilities to inspire others.)
•Prosperous (Desiring yourself and others to succeed. Inspiring others towards a greater vision of greatness, happiness, wealth, peace, and freedom. Helping others build wealth. Having the vision that people can do so much more and perhaps travel the universe)
•Generosity (Being kind and helping others. Perhaps setting a good example or helping others as a representation of one's heritage, culture, and personal values. Being a proper host. Wanting the best for others out of personal desire.)
•Contentment (being satisfied and appreciating things. Being satisfied with an item and not showing remorse when it is damaged or broken.)
•Altruistic (Showing a disinterest in oneself and instead have more concern for others. Being unselfish and selfless.)
•Charismatic (a collection of personal experiences and achievements needed to build ones confidence and image where a person can be the best version of themselves)
•Necessary loyalty (Being loyal and understanding when loyalty breaks to personal principles)
•Lenient (Allowing yourself to not be quick to result to harsh and dramatic behaviors or consequence. Allow others to make mistakes and learn.)
•Moral-discipline (developing self-discipline for unforeseen circumstances. Learning and questioning everything about yourself to develop your own moral framework. Learn about the world and question if it's for you or what you think is right and why)
•Hopeful (having the behavior of allowing yourself to have faith and hope things will improve. Knowing that one can take baby steps to help something or influence something to improve.)
•Piety (allowing yourself to question your own beliefs and why. Developing a person religious value and not one brought by force or culture. Being at peace with the existence of God or no existence of God and still desiring a good life for yourself and others)
•Chastity (although questionable depending on your own moral frameworks, some may desire to live a life of celibacy which should be respected)
•Merciful (allowing yourself to have a sense of tolerance or ability to allow yourself to forgive others, especially when it comes to insignificant things)
•Serenity (accepting of things; having zen; enjoying and finding enlightenment in the silence or harmony of things)
•Kind-hearted (Showing or proving to others you have an authentic desire for good and to do great things for others)
•Embracive (allowing yourself to be open to others, embrace life as it comes. Hold no contempt or grudges towards others. Allow yourself to be a friend).
•Encouraging (encouraging others to be the best versions of themselves. Encouraging others to improve and not give up. Helping others in different ways or using different strategies. For example, helping a lazy person who is too lazy to work on their car so you work on their car for them as a method to get them to work on the car after you ask them questions repeatedly. Helping others who have a fear of change or are scared to do something alone.)
•Self-reflection (taking a step back from life and seeing how much you have changed, grown, and accomplished. Looking inwards at your won imperfections and coming up with a plan on how to improve and change for the better)
•Self-motivation (Finding ways to motivate yourself. An example can be by rewarding yourself when you accomplish things. Making a plan with deadlines. Finding what strategies work for you in getting things done. Self-motivating yourself by watching others who can help inspire you.)
•Loving (being a kind and loving person to yourself and others. [love: Storge, Philia, Eros, Agape].)
•Supporting (supportive of others and their plans. Even if their plans do not work out, you can still understand and support them and their next set of ideas)
•Apologetic (Apologizing when the circumstance demands for it or to be polite)
•Philanthropic (promoting good, peace, goodwill, and wellness of others. Helping others anyway you can when you can afford to do so.)
•Self-conscious (self-regulating, self-knowing, self-aware of one's behavior and the behavior seen through the perspectives of others. Always being aware of one's surroundings. Always being aware of how others think. Being aware of the reactions of others if one performs and action.)
•Preserving (preserving what's good and functional. Preserving what is maxifully improved to the top of its performance and quality).
•Resilient (persistent, courageous, and maintaining the determination to continue for improvement or better quality of outcomes).
•Concerned (always questioning the security, quality, and improvement capabilities in things and occurrences. Always listening to others and checking the integrity of things and occurrences. Always thinking about situations and ways things could be subject to error or negative results)
•Sensitivity (Knowing when to be sensitive and what behaviors or measures to take to produce a good or decent outcome. Understanding the sensitive behaviors of another and reacting with acceptance and empathy. Recognizing the body language and micro-expressions of another and reacting sensibly to them.)
•Gentleness (knowing when to be gentle and caring)
•Propriety (Knowing when one is wrong and considering the suggestions and thoughts of another to self-improve, consider, or learn.)
•Simplicity (the state of making things more clear and comprehensible to understand by the masses. •Having the ability to live life more simple and not relying on technology and modern conveniences)
•Modest (behaving in a way that shows humility and goodwill to others)
•Mettle (the ability to cope with difficult situations and the realities of life. Developing a resilience to hardship and hard situations. Showing goodwill to others despite personal conflict and intense emotions. Not taking your anger on others who do not deserve it. )
•Filial Piety (showing respect, consideration, goodwill, and support to one's parents, offsprings, siblings, cousins, and whole family. Cherishing your family. Guiding, teaching, questioning you children to be very smart. Providing positive family values and traditions. Providing a variety of positive learning experiences for one's offspring.
•Beauty (being presentable when out in public and dressing one's best to show others one has a heightened value of how they see themselves and present/represent themselves in society)
•Pleasant (showing one is authentically pleasant, friendly, and considerate one is to be around.)
•Amiable (Showing one is friendly, likable, and desires goodwill and friendship to others.)
•Open heartedness (allowing oneself to be open to others, empathetic,)
•Harmonious relationship (a balanced relationship where both mutual parties get along well and provide their efforts to make a fair, balanced, reasonable, and functional relationship.)
•Self-honesty (being honest with oneself. being honest about one's interests, goals, state, emotions, flaws, and anything else that comes to mind. The more one is accurate and honest with oneself, the more they will learn from themselves.)
•Liberty/Freedom promoting (Promoting freedom, liberty, and the ability to live life freely with risk and responsibility)
•Frugal (at times to get ahead one has to live by making sacrifices so that one can build the opportunity to be better off in the future)
•Servitude (Having a sense of service to others to build community, preserve harmony, and improve society)
•Resourcefulness (finding ways to utilize resources or finding an optimal way to get ahead or to accomplish a goal).
•Promoting goodness/goodwill (using yourself as an example to show goodwill and righteous behavior to others so that they can learn from you)
•Promoting truth (being an example of telling objective truths and standing up for truth in a rational, civilized way. Challenging untruthful logics with objective logic, reasoning, and mind-opening questions. Questioning others about their truths making the untruthful individuals an example to open the eyes and question the logics and thoughts of others.)
•Tranquility (embracing the silence of an environment. Finding the calmness within oneself. Having time to sulk and get lost in one's own thoughts.)
•Sacred (appreciating and upholding the virtues and values one finds sacred)
•Loyalty to spouse (Maintaining loyalty to one's family and spouse. Having effective communication that builds, compromise, unity, stability, and functionality in one's marriage)
•Humanism (having a respect and appreciation for human-kind. Having a desire to improve human life. Discovering the value that every life is precious and that all individuals can learn or have the vision to create a better quality of life for each other. Having the understanding that humans are social creatures and require the help of each other. It's disproving the false idea that humans are inherently evil and that with quality education and personal virtues to improve, people can improve and help create better quality for life.)
•Self-cultivation (developing skills through personal motivation and desires. Exploring, learning, and utilizing one's strengths, weaknesses, and talents.)
•Yielding (having caution over one's decisions and behaviors. Not caving into peer pressure by others due to identifying the motives of others.)
•Knowledge and wisdom seeking (having a hunger to know more. Having the curiosity to learn about as much as possible. To gain wisdoms from obtaining the critical information you needs to question and improve yourself. Seeking the wisdoms and intelligence of the past to understand the present and improve the future. Questioning yourself to realize you have all the answers already within.
•Noble (having a sense of doing what is right and to show one's goodwill and consideration for others.)
•Curiosity for truth (developing a desire to learn about the truth by exploring all information and topics, controversial or conventional, and to use time, questioning, deduction, and reasoning to get rid of information that are false or propaganda. Never being married to information as truths manifest themselves as they correlate with other accurate truths.)
•Respect for ancestry (respecting one's ancestry and origins whether controversial or tragic. It's a respect for one's history, challenges, and hardships of the past which allowed you to live in the present.)
•Heritage Cherishing (respecting one's heritage and family origins. Learning about one's past as it helps give meaning and purpose to one's existence in life.)
•Geniality (Having a quality of person, being authentic, being true to your own emotions, showing you are a friend to others, and behaving in a way that shows who you are inside.)
•Wrong admitting (taking the responsibility to point out when you are wrong and learning from others who are correct. Having a desire to not be ignorant, arrogant, or display toxic pride.)
•Acceptance (accepting yourself as you are and accepting others as they are. Nobody is perfect and everyone desires to be happy.)
•Judgmentless (Never judging others. Never judging a book by its cover. Accept people as they are with their flaws and insecurities)
•Benevolence (learning to do the right things and being an example for others so that society develops a behavior to learn and do the right thing. The contribution of improving oneself and developing positive values so that one can be used as an example for others which improve society.)
•Moral (have a sense of ethics and morals that reflect righteous and integral personal values)
•Education (Having a desire to teach, learn, and help others. Understanding how education is one of the pillars of society that constantly has to find ways to improve. Having a personal motivation and desire to keep learning.)
•Law abiding (understanding the importance and reason of law and obeying the law. There is also the desire to improve law to improve the functionality of law and systems for a better future. There is an understanding when civil disobedience is needed when the law is subverted for other interests)
•Justice (Seeking fair and balanced justice for those who break the law)
•Cultured (having a sense of understanding culture and popular cultural references which can unite and help communicate with people.)
•Forgiving (knowing when and why to forgive and to end grudges and remove opportunity for conflicts)
•Friendly (Being cooperative, talkable, approachable, and friendly to others.)
•Truthful (being truthful and accurate in communication. It's understandable to use white lies to get out of circumstances as a means of strategy, but it's always a good practice to tell the truth and say it in different ways according to severity and importance)
•Sincere (Showing your authentic self to others and demonstrating deep sentimental qualities and expressions that are honest and integral to who you are and what you believe.)
•Dignity (showing that you have self-worth and you are willing to standup for yourself, your principles, and what you believe in.)
•Humility (depending on the person, humility is a good practice that shows others you are well mannered, show you are selfless, and has a desire of goodwill to others.)
•Motivating (inspiring others to be creative, improve themselves, and accomplish things. Developing the ability to get organized and get things done and build your tower of achievements)
•Courteous (Being generous, polite, and selfless to others)
•Positive attitude (adopting a can do attitude and always looking for ways things can get done.)
•Fortitude (Showing mental strength and despite how difficult or savvier a situation is, you can maintain composure, clarity, and an ability to overcome.)
•Culture Producing (A desire t to build culture and value with ideas, visions, stories, and interests that unite people. Creating ideas that can impact society and influence improvement and positive changes.)
•Instructive (The ability to teach others utilizing structure and methods to cater to both logical mindsets and creative mindsets. The ability to recognize the different ways people learn, comprehend information, and digest information and the ability to teach within these differences.)
•Constructive (The ability to build upon a narrative or a structure. One can teach and instruct without the use of conflict through the use of language, tone/expression, metaphor, and body language. One can build the motivations and inspiration of another to inspire others to do great things.)
•Defender of good and truth (Having a defense for standing up for what's logical, truth with evidence and what promotes what's good, shows goodwill, prosperity, harmony, and righteousness.)
•Sincere (being honest and integral of own self)
•Harmless (Every person has the ability to inflict harm, but out of civility and goodwill we repress those behaviors and use it only when it is needed.)
•Helping (providing support and aid whenever possible)
•Polite (etiquettes that show to others one has a goodwill, is well mannered, and has respect for others)
•Gratitude (Being grateful for what you have.)
•Collaborative (working with others to achieve greater success.)
•Satisfaction (Having the ability to be satisfied with one's achievements and having the ability to reflect on one's achievements and appreciate or admire what they have done.)
•Sportsmanship (having the ability to cheer, support, and help others. Indulging in heated friendly competition with others)
•Deliberate (The ability to think very fast and come up with useful solutions)
•Courageous (Showing no fear when faced with challenges or dangerous obstacles)
•Efficient (optimizing skillsets and workflows to arrive and maintain peak performance)
•Effective (Utilizing useful methods to accomplish a task. Using optimized methods to achieve a task in less amount of time. Work smart to achieve more in less time.)
•Positive (being positive about things or not being negative or critical about things all the time.)
•Careful (being mindful and careful when a situation demands for it. Never letting yourself get careless)
•Temperance (Having control of one's emotions. Having control of one's anger. Being honest with themselves in discovering what is it that makes them angry and what plans can they take to overcome their issue.)
•Moderation (learning about oneself and having self-awareness to control or limit their actions.)
•Innocence (respecting and protecting innocence)
•Clarity (using logic and effective communication with structure to make sure people comprehend and understand your logic and conveying ideas)
•Prudence (being cautious and taking things that could be of danger and harm of oneself very seriously. Knowing when to take risk and when not to. Being aware of potential threats and dangers and methods to protect or mitigate when a danger or disaster occurs.)
•Faith (Having a belief that things can improve or change. Having faith in a higher power to help make change and prove quality of life.)
•Hope (having faith and a desire to hold on to values that can help a person get through tough times in their life)
•Trust (Having the ability to have others trust you and you to trust others. Exposing your weaknesses and vulnerabilities to others where they can accept you for who you are and you can grow in friendship.)
•Assuring (Making sure or having a strong statement or behalf of one's actions and beliefs.)
•Integrity (demonstrating great qualities for others to learn from. Proving yourself to others that you are well rooted in ethics and stand for principles.)
•Intelligence (Accumulating accurate information that can be used as a tool for daily life, teaching others, and making the best decisions with intended outcomes.)
•Perceptual (Being aware of others, one's surroundings, and of one's actions in the eyes of another. Deducting information and behavior to make fair or integral assessments and conclusions.)
•Confident (the characteristic of knowing yourself and building yourself from your achievements)
•Competent (Never remaining ignorant about things and doing one's best to achieve the best results possible.)
•Reciprocity (Giving back to others who give something to you.)
•Affectionate (Showing intimate behaviors to the people you care about)
•Nonmaterialistic (developing a side to oneself that they can live without materialistic possessions. A person who carries the idea that all materialistic possessions are an addition and convenience to one's life. A person who is able to sacrifice comfort and modern conveniences when needed.)
•Self-aware (Being aware of one's actions, thoughts, and behaviors needed to improve one's life and the life of others. Comprehending one's environment and the world they live in to make good decisions.)
•Sympathetic (having or showing sympathy to those who deserve it)
•Thoughtful (being considerate of oneself and others. Acting out of convenience. Demonstrating qualities that help others)
•Culture understanding (knowing and understanding different cultures and different mindset and ways of thinking.)
•Cordial (being warm, accepting, open, and kind to others so that society feels warming and loving)
•Candid (Being straight forward and honest when needed).
•Hygienic (developing hygienic practices that helps one's health and is considerate to everyone a person is surrounded by)
•Sacrifice (work smart or work hard to build a better future)
•Humane (showing compassion and benevolence. Being considerate of the reaction and emotions of others)
•Valuable (building personal value and cherishing value in items that brought you satisfaction)
•Dependable (being trust worthy that others can depend on you.)
•Accountable (Being accountable for your own actions and admitting when you were wrong or are to blame.)
•Hard-working (Working hard when it's needed or working smart to do more in less time)
•Concise (Providing clear communication with minimal words. Brief but comprehensive. Utilizing the use of metaphors and other communication methods to accurately explain an idea or thought)
•Responsible (Taking responsibility for your life, behaviors, and actions. Taking responsibility to complete a task and getting things done in a timely manner)
•Reasonable (Aiming high and lowing to a reasonable agreement.)
•Fair (Having a balance of punishment and reward. Providing with reasonability over the magnitude of one's action and consequences.)
•Just (behaving according to what is moral, fair, and with a sense of justice.)
•Unbiased (Being unbiased to understand others and to obtain the maximum amount of information for one's informational utility)
•Impartial (Treating rivals and adversaries with respect, as mutuals, and fairly.)
•Diplomatic (Formulating compromises, ways to keep the peace and harmony, and ways to have a win-win situation where everyone can agree, have a level of satisfaction, and get along with each other.)
•Life Balancing (Balancing all aspects of life and maintaining balance with good decisions and methods)
•Child-Caring (Seeing family as a priority and providing with all the needed lessons and instructions to help one's child develop mentally and physically so that they can grow to be a good example for others. Learning the best ways to take care of a child without resulting to irrational or extreme correctional behavior. Teaching your child to question, think critically, and be curious of everything. Having your child understand more of the world around them and setting good and positive examples. Having your child understand how and why thinks work the way they do and the reasons why it is the way it is.)
•Cooperative (Having a sense of servitude for others to maintain friendliness, stability, or community)
•Rewarding (Rewarding oneself when things work out well. Looking back at one's achievements and the methods it took to get there.)
•Disciplined (Self-awareness and personal effort to ensure you are organized and can deliver making ideas a reality and keeping to plans to achieve a goal)
•Virtuous (Be an example of good in society as an internal integral personal desire.)
•Charity (Helping and giving when one can afford to)
•Amicable (being friendly without serious disagreements. Not taking things personally and working with others who present a challenge.)
•Quiet-minded (developing the skill to have clear thoughts. To think about nothing. Having the ability to be at peace in silence. Having the skill to getting lost in one's thoughts and reflecting within oneself.)
•Neighborly (Getting along well, maintaining the harmony, working to find solutions, and getting to know your neighbors on a deeper level. Respecting your neighbor and respecting each other's time)
•Reconciling (restoring friendly relations. Finding ways to make up for any conflicts. Recognizing where you went wrong and apologizing and backing an apology with a good deed or gift.)
•Obliged (Showing gratitude or appreciation. Being a person of their word and sticking to a course of action.)
•Indulgent (Being overly generous with others or lenient on behalf of consequences)
•Adorable (to inspire people to be affectionate and lovable. To develop a sense of comfort, delight, and charm)
•Bounteous (Being bountiful and generously helping others or giving to others)
•Self-improvement (working on oneself to be the best version of themselves and to build on their values. To have great value in society due to skills, intelligence, and talents. Having the principle to always find ways to question and improve yourself where you can)
•Consequence-awareness (Understanding the consequences of one's actions or long-term actions)
•One step ahead (being one or few steps ahead of every situation)
•Financial strategy (having functional methods in which to build and maintain wealth. Such as buying high yielding dividend producing stocks that can reinvest in itself and compound over time. Coming up with a business strategy and plan to produce income and grow)
•Financial intelligence (Knowing where to spend money, where and what to invest, and how to save)
•Personal accountability (being accountable for one's decisions, behaviors, and actions)
•Mental maturity (maturing oneself and their thoughts, behaviors, intelligence, values, and views)
•Informational curiosity (positive curiosity to learn a little bit about everything and how to do things for the sake of knowing to increase valueability)
•Win-win (win-win situations with others. Producing outcomes that benefits all parties. A strategy in which helps everyone get ahead.)
•Fairness (having things fair and balanced)
•Principle (standing for things beyond money, politics, and personal desires...etc. Standing up for what you believe in. Standing up for what you believe in even if it's wrong because it's an opportunity to examine, discover, and learn).
•Nonaggression (never resulting to hostility when a situation doesn't demand it. Maintaining an example of harmony and peace. Having a devotion to civility and rationality)
•Diligence (maintaining caution, persistence, and consistent work effort.)
•Determination (difficult to give up, not easy to give up, or never to give up)
•Non-victimhood (realizing hardships of others compared to oneself and overcoming victimhood to achieve success)
•No entitlement (Nobody is entitled to anything and to move on if something does not work; it's accepting the world in the present and not taking anything back that doesn't belong to you.)
•Consolation (hearing someone out and listing to their problems despite how repetitive)
•Altruism (sacrificing one's luxuries for others and to help everyone get ahead)
•Info-gathering (collecting accurate information from a variety of sources, controversial or conventional, and making a logical decision and assessments based on the collection of information and personal critical thinking questions, rationalization, and reasoning perspectives)Experience-gathering (collecting experiences for personal growth and understanding)
•Creativity (I think people who are too logical should have a little bit of creativity and people who are too creative should think a little bit logically. I think it's fair to say some people with too much creativity tend to be more emotional thinkers. Creativity is important for survival in the wild. Creativity is important for keeping your relationships fresh and exciting.)
•Authenticity (being authentic in one's behaviors and accurate communication. To remove oneself from an inauthentic plastic crowd. Developing ones authentic self and gaining an understanding of one's authentic behavior, thoughts, interests, and emotions. The world may have a narrative about how one should be but it's best to be one's authentic self as this develops one's real behavior and personality.)
•Self-optimization (improving yourself and refining yourself to be more fast. Faster at thinking, faster skills, fast toolsets to speed your production)
•Sexy (It's good to have a sexy side. Having a sexy side is important for attracting partners for a relationship.)
•Convenience (Having multi-purpose utilities in an item. Performing actions or tasks because it helps others and keeps the peace.)
•Confidence (authentic confidence built by personal achievement and personal improvement)
•Authentic image (being your authentic self. Having interest in things because you authentically have interest in them instead of because everyone else likes it. Being yourself and not a blind follower.)
•Friendliness (allowing yourself to be open, warm, and friendly to others. Developing the skill to talk to everyone and being open to be everyone's friend.)
•Contradiction (allowing yourself to question others in a rational way to get them to consider different problems, fallacies, views, and critical reasoning. Remember it's the way you say things that determines how others will listen. Standing up for controversial ideas, views, and beliefs so that others can see things differently. If they are truly bad ideas, it's an opportunity to learn.)
•Community building (Operating under the idea that community builds unity. Community helps a group grow and build value. Communities establish a life-long social relationships where you grow and share with others. A community that helps each other, grows with each other, and can help build wealth and value with each other)
•Aware (always be on the lookout for things that do not seem right. Things that are questionable, untrusting, or inconsistent. People that do not seem right who might be psychopathic or sociopathic.)
•Trustworthy (Being trusted by others to produce resolutions, solutions, and complete tasks)
•Empathetic (Having compassion for others. Understanding others from their own perspective. Being in the shows of another and understanding the views, thoughts, and reasons.)
•Sexual-discipline (Understanding one's sexual interests and developing a strong personal sexual discipline when aroused or around the seemingly indecent behaviors of others. Developing a personal tolerance for sexual behavior. Performing stimulation practices to remove or release oneself of their sexual arousal to return to a normal state of mind. Having an understanding of oneself and one's own sexual values and establishing strong boundaries of what one will allow themselves to do sexually and what is absolutely forbidden.)
•Sexual intelligence (Understanding sexual psychology, gender differences, human nature, sexual-adult cultures, and your own personal sexual beliefs, philosophy, interests, and values. Comprehending the importance of consent, mutual respect, and consideration of others in an aroused state or sexually charged environment. Having non-excessive masturbating habits. Understanding pornography is a false reality and a fantasy. One can have a balanced dose of pornography but is aware they should be actively seeking relationships with others in real life because it produces much more value and experiences.)
•Clean (maintaining a clean environment. Not littering and picking up after oneself)
•Grouping (doing things in groups because things can often be more enjoyable in groups)
•Responsibility (being responsible for yourself and your actions. being responsible for what you have to do)
•Treatment of others (treat others how you would like to be treated)
•Advantage awareness (being aware of the interests, desires agendas, and intention of others, and not one can abuse those intentions)
•Overachievement (over delivering expectations, pushing yourself above and beyond, providing over expected service, work, effort, and achievement)
•Exposure (exposing corruption, threats, and blackmails with undeniable evidence. Building strong cases again evils)
•Taking action (taking initiative and doing what needs to be done)
•Nutritionalist (Eating healthy. Trying to eat organic when possible. Not consuming too much salty, sugar, or artificial products. Having a balance of foods and eating a variety of healthy foods for nutrients the body needs.)
•Circulation (stretching your body in the morning to have good circulation in the body)
•Self-care (Going outside whenever possible or once in a while. Not doing drugs or allowing harmful or potentially addictive substances in the body. Not drinking excessively. Preserving the brain by not allowing for mind-altering substances which could affect the development of one's brain, specifically the frontal lobe.)
•Beta-wave-activity-state (Studying and using sleep as a storage method. Thinking about things before bed. Partially waking up and thinking about things in bed while relaxed to improve critical thinking capabilities.)
•Balance (Not having too much of something. Knowing a little bit about everything. Knowing how to do a little bit about everything activity wise. Understanding Yin and Yang where there is a little bit of good in evil and a little bit of evil in good while maintaining balance. Having a balance of entertainment such as games, internet, music, and films.)
•Broad-minded - expanding the limits of your imagination, mental capabilities, and experiencing a variety of different things. Traveling and visiting new cultures and seeing different ways in which people think and communicate.
•Fearlessness (being courageous. Having or expressing your own controversial opinion against the masses. Placing duty in front of emotions and terror. Facing one's fears or terrifying challenges. Acting on behalf of conditioning and training to perform a duty for improved future outcomes and success. Taking on necessary risk for greater reward.)
•Leadership (depending on the person, finding ways to improve oneself through their behaviors, communication, way of thinking, and performance to take on dependable and trusting leadership positions where others rely on you and learn from you as you set yourself as an example.)
•Deescalator (a person who minimizes risk of harm. A person who minimizes, mitigates, deescalate, and dissolves conflicts. A person who finds reasonability, logic, and functional solutions to prevent or lessen conflict. )
•Comedian (a person who uses humor as a tool to release tension and pressure. A person who makes light of a situation. A person who enlightens the mood when reasonable. A person who builds unity using humor. A person who exposes fallacies using comedy to remove the severity and seriousness or a narrative. )
•Emotional intelligence (realizing one's emotional state and considering their behavior around others. A person who knows when to walk away or find a positive ways to release steam (anger). A person who deflects, remains calm, is ignorant to negative projections or behaviors of others. A person who does not give in to the desire emotional outcome of others. A person who vents, let out steam, talks it out, to return to a normal state of mind. Understanding the emotional consequences of one's thoughts and actions. Being self-aware of an emotional response of behavior.)
•Non-personal aptitude (A person who does not taking anything personal from others. A person secure in emotional aptitude and reads or foresees the intentions of others. A person who adapts and overcomes the unnecessary, perhaps unintentional, or cruel behaviors of others.)
•Association (Finding positive and inspiring role models. Surrounding oneself with positive individuals with similar interests that can help you develop into a good role model. Surrounding yourself with successful people and perhaps joining something that's much greater than oneself.)
•Self-worth (Finding your own purpose in life by creating your own purpose. Discovering talents, finding ways to make yourself useful, productive, and inspirational to others. Finding ways you can contribute yourself to greater things. Building value for yourself. Discovering and realizing the importance, uniqueness, and relevance in yourself and understanding that there will never be another person in history or existence like yourself and only you can create and to certain things that others could never do. If you don't do something, it will never had existed which could influence, help, or inspire others.)
•Cooperation (learning to exhibit positive team-ship behaviors and to work as a unit to achieve a goal or task.)
•Spontaneous (having the flexibility to be spontaneous and surprise others with good intentions. Having a spontaneous behaviors to excite partners, friends, and family.)
•Collective-independent (Collective when around others and independent when alone.)
•Initialization (Being polite when you meet someone for the first time to show goodwill to others and being yourself after and getting to learn more about you.)
•Non-worldly (A person capable of removing the perspective or influences of culture and the world and to examine subjects and systems in its rawest and logical forms or formulating their own independent perspectives. A person who can retract from worldly-desires and focus on things more simple or things that have less relevancy to culture and worldly values.)
•Independent (having the ability to rely on yourself to overcome obstacles. Believing in yourself.)
•Conscious (Being self-aware with one's ability to utilize personal observation, deduction and reasoning, critical thinking, and personal assessment.)
•Thorough (The ability to obtain as much information and perspectives as possible. The ability to overachieve. The ability to view from as many angles and mindsets as possible. The ability to perform one's best. The ability to complete a task to the highest quality and standard.)
•Fitness (Being active and maintaining good physical health and performance)
•Non-tribalist (Not being part of any irrational or violent mob, cult, or tribe and always working to build cohesion, unity, safety, security, and improve the lives of others.)
•Unifying (Unifying people through common interests, beliefs, values, and narratives.)
•Reactive intelligent (knowing there is a time and place for everything. Know the right time and place to react with a behavior or action. Understanding that all individuals are dangerous but it's up to ourselves to moderate, control, and be responsible of our behaviors and actions)
•Rapport (a groups understanding of each other. A groups understanding of each other’s feelings, ideas, values, and communication.)
•Non-projecting (Not projecting your anger or annoyances on others.)
•Living in the present (Living in the world of today and not what happened many years ago outside of your complete knowledge, current world understanding, and control)
•Listening (listening not to reply but to listen to understand)
•Stoicism (Living in the objective world. Enduring hardships as a way of normal life. Enduring hardships without complaint (or brief complaint to rant and release build emotions). Practicing virtues is an important necessity to self-development.)
•Non-elitist (Nobody is better than someone else. Some IQs might be lower or higher than others. Some statuses, relevances, importance might be higher than others in society. However, everyone is human. Everyone should be respected. Everyone has a story. Everyone has a role to play in society that needs to be discovered. Everyone wants to live a happy and meaningful life.)
•Non-authoritarianist (the idea that it's viewed as irrational to have absolute power over another. It's irrational to believe that people need a ruler. It's the idea that people can manage themselves through democratic and organizational methods. It's the idea that people can live with responsibility and risk. It's the idea that people play a role to improve the lives of each other by working and cooperating with each other. It's the idea that proven leaderships can be transferred according to situation and requirements.)
•Consent (The ability to respect others, be considerate, see through the eye of another, and have the approval to touch or physically interact with another.)
•Security (Being aware of the flaws and vulnerabilities of your situation. Being aware and building up a defense. Being aware, pre-planning, and mentally prepared of undesired outcomes and circumstances. Being aware too much security leads to authoritarianism. Understanding peace through strength and ethical principles.)
•Preprepared (pre-planning, the state of being one step ahead, and having a plan in advance before an event ever happens. It's the strategy of also being mentally prepared and organized before an event takes place. The state of having steps or sequences already in place to influence directions and outcomes.)
•Mindfulness - Being open and considerate of others.
•Free speech – The freedom to discuss, express, or talk openly about anything.
•Free-to-gather – The freedom to gather in large groups.
•Real-world-comprehending - understanding how the real world works outside of illusions, delusions, propaganda, and fantasy (perceptual fantasy and self-made fantasy). After learning all these values and qualities, an individual has to self-reflect and practice them. These are values they have to master before joining and becoming part of the sexualist culture. However, after one demonstrates the practical use of a lot of these values, qualities, and understands the reason for having these qualities, they are allowed to participate in the sexualist culture and taught the next set of rules and cultural norms of the sexual culture.







Fundamentals of Sexualism

Philosophical Reason

As mentioned previously, the reason behind sexualism is because I believe this culture can create a society that can be more liberating, close, and embrace a lifestyle that allows for nudity and sexuality that enables individuals to obtain more human experiences and explore what it means to be human. I believe sexuality can be used to improve the quality of life and improve society as it incorporates values that improves its members. Simply summarized, it is a lifestyle ideology or philosophy that incorporates nudity, ethical sexuality, and values to live an improved, intimate, and more liberating lifestyle. Simply put, it's an ideology for individuals who enjoy lewd and casual nsfw adult culture. It allows members to choose what sexual experiences and values they are comfortable with. It allows individuals who embrace the full human experience and personal developmental potential.

I believe Sexualism is so much more then about sexuality. It's about living a greater and more intelligent lifestyle with an intimate and trusting community. It's about intellectuality, ethics, goodwill to others and of oneself. It's about intelligence, critical thinking, questioning everything out of curiosity and having a greater understanding. Its about growing wealth and living well, being your authentic self, improving yourself to be the best you can be, and living a fulfilling, free, and liberating lifestyle. It’s about learning about yourself and your interests. It’s about learning about others. It’s about living a lifestyle with more freedoms and liberties.

This cultures helps to establish a new cultural type of individual called a sexualist and their lifestyle and culture called sexualism. These are individuals whose lifestyle incorporates sexuality and nudism as a normal and casual way of life. It's a community that has sexual ethics and practices sexuality socially and safely.

History of Sexual Cultures

Sexuality is part of human nature. It's been around since the development of man through evolution, God's creation, or deity-mutation as depicted in the Sumerian tablets of creation.

In the bible nudity comes from when God created Adam. He created him naked and from his rib he created Eve. Eve was seduced by the snake and ate of the forbidden fruit of knowledge to which she introduced to Adam. Adam ate of the forbidden fruit and realized they were naked. God discovered they ate of the forbidden fruit of knowledge and he banished them from the Garden of Eden. In science the development of man derived from South Africa and migrated upwards into the middle east to escape the change in climate and to find new food sources. From the evolution of many more ape species, many species of humanoid apes bred with each other eventually leading to the creation of the homosapien. By being exposed to new elements and sources of food, they learned to adapt, migrate, and live in caves until they grew in their intelligence to be aware of predators and dangers in order to survive. In the Enuma-Elish in the Sumerian mythology, Anu creates the solar system by puncturing a star and taming the waters of gravity. The created it to harvest it for resources. When they came to mind for gold for their interstellar vessel Nibiru, they stopped to mine for gold on mars then Earth. Ia first arrived on Earth and established Eridu. Lower level gods mined and eventually disliked mining so they influenced Ia to create a creature that could mine for them. Ia created Adapa and other protohumans by mutating the genetics of wild Neanderthals with a voluntary slayed deity. Adapa became a prince and other homosapien humans mined for gold. The first civilization rapidly grew in numbers and lost control to which led to chaos and the establishment of laws and the first civilization. Over the process of many thousands of years, Ia loses his position on earth and gets demoted into the sea and Enlil is given Ia's position by Anu. Humans grow into many different cities and the gods decide to leave. Enili orders to flood the Earth by melting the globe's ice caps. Ia now renamed as Enki, warms Utnapishtim and orders him to build a coracle or arc which saves him and a few other humans. Enlil becomes very angry but then agrees with Enki and blesses Utnopishtim and the other humans to grow and multiply claiming the world as their new home.

The history of sexuality has mostly been for the procreation. Individuals used to live longer but then regressed to living very short lives. Prior to Jewish law that was established by the tribe of Moses and Hammurabi's (Hammurapi) law, sex, prostitution, and sexuality depended on the cultures you were surrounded by. Kings kept lists to keep track of nobility. After Jewish laws and the laws of Hammurabi, family affairs began to have established regulations. It was predominantly a patriaricle society with males having more sexual freedoms. For a very long time, the patriaricle society was very predominant with having more sexual leniency than females. It wasn't until early roman period with the worship of Gaal and Bocchus when sexuality started to become an underground cultural phenomenon. Due to the mainstream views of society and political systems, sexual cultures remained an underground phenomenon. Prostitution was the only exception for any form of sexual culture.

A major account in the bible is the story of Sodom and Gomora. God goes to a family to warn them he will destroy a city. The farmer pleads with God and asks to spare the city if he finds people who are good. They discuss the amount of people required to save the city and God agrees. Eventually he sends two angels and they enter the city. Unfortunately, they find the city in an immoral state and God decides to destroy it with fire and brimstone. When warned not to look at Gods wrath, one of the wives looks back at the destruction and turns into a pillar of salt.

More accounts with sexuality took place during the times of the Greeks and Romans. Much like the wealthy individuals today who of many share a culture of open sexuality and partying, the Greeks also had this same behavior. Wealthy, aristocratic, and individuals of high status and nobility used to indulge themselves in sexuality. Parties would sometimes have orgies as members would become intoxicated by wines and beers. The Romans would also indulge themselves in similar activities while conducting festivities at their homes. In Pompeii, underground worshipers of Bocchus would conduct various cult-like rituals where sexual practices, rituals, traditions, and promiscuity would be performed among cult members and their families.

It wasn't until the later renaissance era in France when swinging and partner sharing started to become a more widespread phenomenon among those of wealth. Prior to this, noble and wealthy men had concubines and public escort mistresses. A fun fact is that the reason the French used to wear black dots on their noses was to let other know of any sexually contracted diseases.

The next cultural revolution was in the 1960s with the hippies in the United States claim in sexual freedom where swinging and open sexuality was normalized as part of liberal culture.

In the 1980s an Indian God-man named Rajneesh moved to the US and founded the Rajneeshpuram culture in Wasco, Oregon. Due to their sexuality-free lifestyle, the United States government shut their movement, organization, and way of life down forcing the God-man to return to India.

In the late 1980s a cultural and artistic even occurred in San Francisco. The event grew and eventually moved out to the desert and was renamed The Burning man. This allowed artists and individual to create a liberating experience where they could allow an artistic culture to appear a certain period once a year. This culture also allows for nudity and sexual experiences.

Also in the 1980s cultism started to rise. Lucifarian and Satanic ideologies started to become mainstream with a rise of occult toys, entertainment, and cultural influences including rebel culture. Lucifarian and satanic culture uses an ideology of enabling any values, rituals, and behaviors that offend or are the inversion of the Roman Catholic Traditions. This includes orgies, naked rituals, and symbolic sexual activities.

Sexual Culture and Customs

Community Basics

A community or group of sexualists are called a ménage. A ménage behaves as if a family. It behaves as an intimate family, an emulation of brothers and sisters, or intimate group of individuals despite their sexual culture or cultural values. They behave in a way where they care, consider, and respect each other. They also do not judge each other, accept each other for who they are despite how annoying or childish, care about each other, and preserve the harmony through rationality, reason, emotional intelligence, discipline, logic, and the shared desire to improve themselves.

Members of the sexualist community are called Surins. Surins are members of ménages who are part of the sexualist community. Another loose term for sexualist are lewdys. Lewdies are another name referring to individuals who enjoy lewd behaviors and culture.

Members in this community see what some believe to be awkward moments as moments in which to accept the awkwardness and silence and to think or reflect. Silence can be as if a pause from being social or a zen moment sometimes. They are times you simply appreciate sharing another's company. There are moments where sexualists hang out and say nothing until they feel compelled or interested in having a conversation. The behavioral dynamics are very relaxed and flexible. Furthermore, despite how sexual one might be, all members have a balance and respect each other outside of sexual activities and their sexual interests and behaviors.

There is a saying that sexualists are collective when they are together and individualist when they are alone. When they are together, they behave in a collective, even if they are not doing anything significant aside from sharing the same space. When they are individualistic, they operate like any ordinary average individual with personal goals and activities. An important thing to note when they are in a collective is that they enjoy doing things together in groups. They will invite each other to do things. Even if it's cooking, exercising, napping, or bathing. They enjoy the company of others. Because they invite others to do things, there is a huge emphasis on trust and ethics. The culture expects members in this culture to have mastered ethics and to demonstrate a significant level of ethics.

There is a saying that when you meet another sexualist for the first time, you demonstrate the highest amount of ethics and goodwill before you can let loose and be your authentic self. Members have to demonstrate goodwill for themselves and for others before they can get to learn more about each other and get more comfortable with each other.

The community follows various cultural values such as: Nudism, Sexuality, Gender Cohesion, and Community and Lifestyle values.

Cultural Values:

Nudism

Nudism is an important and casual part of this lifestyle ideology. Those who believe in this ideology believe that nudity should be a normal and a casual part of daily life. Individuals who also believe in this culture believe nudity can allow for more, honest, close, and intimate relationships.

In this culture, nudity is so common and casual that anyone can walk around naked and nobody will care. It's encouraged to be mindful and considerate of others. The culture encourages group fitness and personal hygiene. There is emphasis on presentation so people would always look good when in the nude or partially nude. For this people are encouraged to work out, eat right, and put significant effort into grooming themselves and to look athletically pleasing. The culture encourages males to groom and be hairless to look appealing to others when in the nude. It's believed that males are likely to be more physically interactive with other males when other males are completely hairless. The culture also encourages to be naked in environments that are suitable for nudity like around water recreational areas or places where it makes logical sense.

Other nudist traditions typically include sexualists sleeping naked. They like to sleep naked around multiple partners and in mixed groups. Because of the sexualist culture, sexualists have a behavior that males and females see each other the same despite their mental, physical, physiological, and behavioral differences, because of this they take showers together and casually practice or perform activities where they are in the nude with each other like skinny dipping or tanning for example.

When it comes to the nudist side of this culture, body fluids can be a big issue. Because of this members are encouraged to bring towels if they are going to be in the nude. If there is no towel then they can sit on their clothes. In addition, if a person is naked and sees precum, it's polite to tell them they are secreting fluids. This should tell them to utilize a towel, wipe themselves, and disinfect their area of any leaked bodily fluids. Seeing fluids should not be disturbing or something to be ashamed of as its part of human nature. If a person plans on being in the nude, they should always be prepared ahead of time.

Nudity in this culture can include being fully nude or being partially nude.

The nudity aspect of this culture also includes clothing. The use of riske fashion is clothing that also shows nudity. They can be sheer, laced, or transparent clothes that shows explicit areas of the body. This form of clothing can also be considered casual attire. It's clothes are meant to make an individual feel sexy, get attention, or feel comfortable. There are different kind of clothes associated with nudity in this culture. These are a few ideas I could think of. Linkinis are an example of riske fashion. They are lingerie bikinis and one pieces. They are a version of bikinis that reveal a lot more. Lin-wear is another example of riske fashion. They are regular clothes also mixed with lingerie. Some clothes even adventures in to the explicit with attire that contains built in adult device or toys. Bloomies are another riske fashion of panties that are meant to be worn standalone just like shorts. It's also a casual or comfortable trend where lady's can wear simply panties and a shirt or top around sexualists and it's considered a casual attire. When sexualists see each other wearing revealing clothing, they shouldn't consider anything of it. For sexualists revealing clothes is normal. Anyone can wear what they like or what they feel like wearing. If it arouses an individual then they can relieve themselves in private for the sake of getting back to a normal state of mind. When guys wear a speedo or when females wear revealing clothes, they should feel that it's alright for individuals to look. They shouldn't feel ashamed. An ethic for the culture is for others not to stare as they should also be considerate. I think it should be a positive thing for another to look and have interest in one's body. It should be a compliment if another gets aroused by looking. I think it should be encouraged for others to look, compliment, and admire another's body. When one encounters a person with revealing clothes or becomes aroused, members should continue to treat each other with respect, consideration, and continue as usual while disregarding any relevance on revealing and arousing clothes and apparel of others. Revealing clothes will always be treated as if wearing respectable clothes, this demonstrates sexual discipline.

Sexualist males commonly wear loose clothes, jeans, or speedos because it's aesthetically pleasing to females. The reason for loose clothes and speedos is that males are secure enough to allow themselves to show off their erections. Female sexualists are okay with seeing male erections and should be encouraged to look. Males take pride in their penis sizes and looks.

Sexualists are very body conscious. They like to look good, appealing, and pleasant to others. They will commonly invite others to work out and exercise with them. They also desire a healthy body and encourage others to eat healthy and obtain the nutrition their body needs. The eating habits for the culture is to not eat too much sugar or salt and to eat a variety of foods to get the minerals and vitamins a body needs. Commonly they encourage to eat randomly thoughtout the day so the body doesn’t get into a routine to store fat. When members eat well, they can help achieve an appealing look whenever in the nude.

Overall, nudity does not bother sexualists and sexualists can respect others while they are in the nude or wearing revealing clothes. They have tolerance over any unappealing bodies. They encourage others to eat healthy, workout, and maintain a level of fitness.

Sexuality

Sexuality is one of the most major subjects in this culture. Sexualists are okay with sex and enjoy being around sex and sexual culture. They consider sexuality a natural part of life and part of the human experience. Despite its sexual culture, this culture has many ethics involved in sexuality and three primary sexual principles. These principles are: Consent, respect, and consideration.

Consent it the most major of these three principles. Consent is asking for permission to perform an action. It is the basic fundamentals of a healthy sexual culture. It is believed that a person should only let things happen to them if they permit it, otherwise another is taking advantage of another which is considered wrong. Even if one is involved in BDSM culture, a level of consent is essential in order to perform dramatic interest. A person should only allow what they are interested or are willing to try or experiment with. All interests should be respected. This leads us to respect.

The next principle is respect. As stated earlier, respect is very important even if another likes to be demeaned, demoralized, and degraded. Respect is what makes partners have a balance of one’s sexual interests and their casual and normal daily personality. It’s with respect where you can learn to have sexual fun with another while also having them be an acquaintance, a best friend, or life partner.

The final sexual principle is consideration. This is always acting in good faith, goodwill, and trust to others. Considering others always put yourself in their shoes regardless if you are a guy or a girl. This helps the community care and trust each other. It creates a safe environment where sexual activity can occur and where people keep each other healthy and protected from undesired consequences.

Although sexuality can be perceived as wild and immoral by individuals who are not familiar with sexual culture, there are ethics and values associated with it. The reason it has a bunch of sexual values and ethics is to establish a limit into what the culture believes is immoral and leading to negative sexual consequences.

Before we explore the depths of the ethics about this sexual culture, we have to first discuss the sexuality types in this culture.

There are two types of sexualists in sexualism. There are Hedonist sexualists and Conservative sexualists.

Hedonists: Hedonists sexualists are sexualists that engage in sex and intercourse for fun and recreation. Among the community they are considered the most active in sexual activity. They also commonly practice sexual activities casually, openly, whenever they feel stimulated, opportunistically, and commonly uncaring of any voyeurs (people watching). Common Hedonist sexualists types are Swingers and Bachelor Swingers. Swingers are individuals who swap sexual partners in a marriage or in an open relationships. Bachelor Swingers are swingers who are single. Hedonist sexualists also have another type within it called Traditionalist sexualists. Traditional are in reference to traditional sexuality which are the sexual practices found in average modern culture. These are individuals who have their own personal narratives for engaging in relationships or having sex. They might jump from one partner to another in search of a narrative that brings them fulfillment. Furthermore, Hedonists and traditionalists both are sexually active. Hedonist sexualists steer away from modern cultural views of sexuality and carry a belief of limitless, open, and free sexuality where sex is meant to be enjoyed casually as a normal part of life. However and despite how sexually active, they all care about their partners. Hedonist and Traditionalist sexualists do what they can to comfort, make friends, protect, and care for the health of the partners they are sexually engaged with. They do their part to prevent pregnancies, take care of their hygiene, and take extra measures to be safe from all sexually transmitted diseases. Both are unashamed of their sexual behaviors and continue to be friends with partners they have sex with. They use sex as a way to deepen their friendship. Hedonist sexuality in this culture is sex without expectations and removed from any attachment as it’s only meant to be for fun and recreation.

Conservative: Conservative sexualists are sexualists who enjoy more passive or soft sexuality. They might practice sexuality less often or only when the feelings for another is undeniably very strong. They also use sex to strengthen their friendships with others and to learn about others and their sexual interests. Just like Hedonists, they also care about their partners and do what they can to protect from undesired pregnancies, and protect themselves from sexually transmitted diseases. Moreover, sex is still considered to be a casual activity. However, unlike Hedonist sexualists conservative sexuality is more about building strong friendships and allowing friendships to evolve into meaningful authentic relationships and long-lasting functional families. A common practice Conservative sexualists practice is virginism. Virginism is the practice to enjoy sexual activity while preserving one’s virginity. Members who practice viginism are called virginists. Virginists love to be around adult culture and sexual activity but not participating in it in regards to intercourse. Virginists enjoy sex but without the intercourse. Their methods of sex involve outercourse, grinding, dry humping, foreplay, masturbating, licking, touching, oral and sometimes anal pleasure. They commonly use toys and devices for sexual pleasure. Sometimes they will find alternative methods to obtain pleasure such as roleplaying and methods involving entertainment and technology. There can be many reasons why an individual might want to be a virginist. They might think the interaction or exchange of bodily fluids is gross, desire sexual activity but don’t desire to be taken advantage of sexually; or might have a desire for sexual culture or interaction but not to be hurt by other individuals. A common ideology for virginists is to enjoy sexuality but reserve themselves before establishing a variety of friendships which later transitions into a relationships with a partner they develop an intimate bond with that grows into choosing a life partner to which they give their virginity to. Virginists essentially enjoy sex with as many individuals as they like making a variety of friends. From getting to know these friends, they choose a person they enjoy being with and is the most compatible with their interests and grow a bond with them. If it develops into a great relationship then they can move on to dating the individual. Depending if one is Monogomous or Polyamorous, they can choose one individual to date or multiple partners to date. If they date multiple partners, it’s the culture that other partners are also compatible with each other. It’s also okay if an individual breaks their personal goal to remain a virgin. It’s a choice they have to decide. Furthermore, the nature of a Conservative sexualists is making friends from all walks of life and to grow and develop meaningful bonds and relationships which enables the casual use of safe and comfortable sexual activities.

Sexualism has a few strict rules:

1. No sex with children. Children need to be protected. Children need their innocence preserved. Parents should hide all sexuality from children.
2. No sex with family. Step family is questionable. This culture protects and promotes family values.
3. No sex with others in a relationship unless allowed and given consent by all partners in a relationship.
4. Utilize respect, consent, and consideration for all sexual engagements.
5. Members are expected to be well-grounded in the culture’s principle ethics with a personal desire to improve themselves. Members should also do their best to moderate themselves and maintain the harmony among members.

Now that we have the Types of sexualists out of the way, we can now explore the ethics of the sexualist culture.

Ethics

There are various smaller ethical values, information, and positions related to sexuality involved in this sexual culture. The reason for these sexual values is to ensure the culture has a set of related values to help the culture be sustainable and grow. It also allows members to be aware of the cultures position on sexual related topics. It also provides highlights on specific topics.

Bellow I will list the various micro ethics bellow:

A large value about sexualism is that it encourages individuals to learn about themselves, their interests, and what they want to consent to or experiment with. Personal development and personal improvement is a huge value of this culture. I encourages individuals to grow themselves and their intellectual abilities to a huge extent. This include sexuality. Sexuality wise it encourage individuals to set hard limits and extents on their sexual interests. These are values an individual will not surpass because of some reason. Others can learn about these values and also help others achieve sexual satisfaction while under the conditions of their own sexual limitations. It’s up to one to agree to explore other sexual options and explore what they might like or are willing to experiment with.

Trans individuals are welcome in this culture. They are just like every other individual. In this culture, it’s up to others if they are comfortable enough to interact and engage with others sexually. In this culture everyone is commonly referred by their biological gender. Trans individuals can be referred to trans males or trans female. The culture is not forced to adhere to individual narratives, cultural narratives, or political narratives. The culture desires to be rooted in science and objectivity. If individuals desire to be known by another gender, the culture allows for roleplaying to be part of its culture, therefore if one desires to be seen as another gender, they can do so through roleplay. Overall, the culture promotes harmony, objectivity, and rationality among its members and community.

Preventing pregnancies is a colossal part of this sexual culture. Sexualists want to protect others from undesired pregnancies. Males will use condoms or even double condoms to prevent pregnancies. Males will not use the pull out method or any methods that have too much risk involved. They should do this for the protection of their partner. Females will do their part of prevent pregnancies with contraceptives and other methods. If in the occasion there are not methods to have safe sex, then it’s better to result to sex without intercourse.

This culture is pro-family, desires to create families, and wishes to protect the integrity of families. It encourages members to utilize the culture to find partners other can find similar interests and build meaningful relationships which hopefully makes long-lasting families.

The culture disagrees with abortions. It desires members to create families and encourages to have children. The belief of this culture is that once it has a heartbeat, it is considered a breathing human and desires to keep it alive; therefore, any removal of the embryo must be before there is a heartbeat which is approximately five to six weeks after intercourse. This is also the reason why routine checkups and testing after intercourse is extremely important. It’s understood that periods can also create false-positives; therefore, whenever any test results return as positive, it should be ensured that the answer is absolute.

Some kinks, fetishes, and roleplays can get messy. This community has a shared concern of each other’s wellbeing, safety, hygiene, and property. If any messes were to occur, the community does their part to keep each other safe and easy to clean.

Regarding marriage and sexual culture, in this culture once you’re married the sexual lifestyle doesn’t entirely end. Married couples are still part of the culture and can still participate in sexual activity. If they are swingers they can swap partners or engage in sexual activity and intercourse with other partners. If they are not swingers, their sexual activity should only be limited to their married partner. This means they should only have intercourse with their married partner or partners. This does not stop them from being naked and enjoying other sexual activities that do not involve intercourse. The fundamental principle of marriage is trust in each other and there should also be trust when it comes to sexuality. A common practice should also be that if a monogamous sexual trust or polyamorous sexual trust is broken with absolution and evidence, then it allows the other married partners to also break their sexual promises to their married partners. This means if a sexual trust is broken, then married partners are allowed to become swingers or divorce each other. Overall, the culture encourages members to not break their sexual trust and promises of marriage and instead encourages individuals to share sexual activities and experiences while proving their trust and loyalty to their married partners.

Two behavioral traits to be aware of and to exclude from the culture are sociopaths and psychopaths. Any individual who carries these personality traits should not be part of the sexualist culture. Individuals with these behaviors can result in performing activities that can be harmful or dangerous to members of this community. An obvious trait of such behaviors is masochism where one honestly enjoys harming or seeing the harm done to another person. This culture supports BDSM; however, there should be fine line when an individual exhibits behaviors that goes against the norms, safety, and caring practices of the culture.

The culture encourages BDSM activities, despite how controversial. It encourages individuals to be aware of any BDSM activities and to practices BDSM in an experiences and safe way utilizing a safety keyword to break roleplay.

Roleplaying is a big part of the culture also. Individuals can form identities and be known for those identities. Identities are free to change when one desires. Because of roleplaying, subcultures can exist in this cultures such as sexualist furries, cosplayers, gender identities (optional to utilize pronouns), mythical creatures, and other fantasies. It’s important to note that members are grounded first in objective reality before they roleplay their own narratives.

LGBTQ are welcome in this culture. Everyone is to be friendly, kind to each other, agreeable, respect each other, maintain harmony, and overall promote a culture of goodwill for each other. Sexualist culture thinks it’s great to have a great diversity in sexual preferences. Everyone should respect the sexual preferences of each other. One should ask the sexual preferences of another and get to know new members they are interested in. If one does not have interest in an individual, be honest and tell them. Nothing in this group is taken absolute seriousness and it leaves room to be denied and it’s okay. Everyone should be friendly even if they get denied or rejected. They might change their mind or be open to experiment someday. If a person is denied or rejected continue to be nice to each other because if you’re part of sexualism, you’re part of the family. Maybe be a wingman and help them find a person who might be interested in them.

The three times rule. In this culture there is the three times rule. This rule is about asking a person out three times. If they reject you three times then it’s an absolute rejection and you should find someone else. In this culture, guys and ladies ask each other. There isn’t a culture where ladies wait on the guys to make the first move. Both are seen as mutual and behave as mutuals.

Part of the sexual culture’s ethics is sexual discipline. This allows males to moderate, withdrawal, conserve, or ignore irrational sexual behavior and to produce a culture where they can see something that arouses them, enjoy it visually, but understand they should not interact with what arouses them out of respect and comfort for another. An example can be to imagine themselves as the other person and to imagine their comfort. They are allowed to appreciate the form but they cannot pursue interaction based on sexual desire. They understand they should relieve themselves sexually in private if they become too aroused. Sexual discipline allows other to be tolerated or ignored if they are nude, partially nude, showing sensitive areas of the body, or occupied in sexual activities. It allows for a society that conditions itself to allow for public nudity and public sexuality as a common activity that is normalized and overlooked or ignored by common social behavior.

It’s my belief that if western society adopted a culture of sexual ethics like self-discipline, balance, mental maturity, do more research, and be responsible for their lives and make better decisions, I think nobody would care about porn, adult culture, or adult alternative lifestyles. I also believe people should be mentally mature. I believe part of mental maturity is being honest with yourself, questioning and being honest about one’s own philosophy on sexuality, learning about sexuality, practicing self-discipline, and being responsible for oneself and owns life decisions. People should strive for improvement and make the best life decisions possible.

Some individuals might think sex is gross or that they don't like it because of the mess or bodily fluids. This is okay. Everyone should be comfortable with what they like and what they want. The term "fluidphobe" comes from a person who doesn't like the exchange of fluids. The best method for them is sex without kissing, oral sex, anal sex, or even intercourse-penetration. Instead they should have sexual fun with foreplay, massages, sexual roleplaying, or outercourse. Methods of outercourse can be dry humping, humping one's buttocks, masturbation by another, mutual masturbation, intercourse with a person's legs together...etc. Once this person get aroused they are free to masturbate and help others feel good with what they are comfortable with doing. There should be no pressure and its okay to be nervous. Everyone is to have a great time, build friendships, and have positive experiences. It's also okay to have guilt afterwards because of cultural values, but overtime it because a casual, fun, and fulfilling experience.

If I could envision a culture, I would like adults to share a sexual appreciation with each other where people can be very sexual yet still have respect and overlook another's sexual side. Everyone has a sexual side, even if it’s ignored. It’s something everyone has in common as human. An example can be respecting your co-worker if they have a sexual camming business where you can watch them participating in adult behaviors yet continue to respect them as a normal person. We call this Remediation because you are remediating the average world’s views from the cultures views of accepting sexual activity and adult behaviors as normal practices. It's a culture where adult behavior is not shamed, widely accepted, and considered normal as part of a person's lifestyle and personality. It's a culture where everyone knows and understands that everyone gets aroused and there is an acceptance, respect, and expectation of respect.

It’s a culture that believes people have many emotional angles. Everyone has a horny angle also. People have a cognitive side and a less cognitive side (under the influence of hormones side). It’s believed their horny side is on the less cognitive side. I believe everyone needs to be aware of a person's sexual side and accept them for what their sexual preferences are. In all with the acceptance of all our angles, we make a complete and balanced human soul.

How do you know who's a sexualist? I want to envision they are individuals who are open, carefree, or have an authentic personality, their confidence and charm, and their free-to-be horny attitude. They're not ashamed of being intimate and close with others. They like to touch the skin of others who they feel won't take offense. They like to get really close with others and test others on how intimate they can get. They often don't mind flirting and portraying their sexual energy and sexually-free behaviors. They also talk openly about their sexuality (maybe initially with caution with strangers until they get to know them or maybe seem like they won’t take offense; if a person doesn’t care what others think then they are free to say whatever they want but this could cause others to pull away because of their sensitivities and insecurities). When sexualists start to talk about sexuality, they are comfortable, confident, polite, and perhaps decorous. Often they will prod, temptate, and test their sexual expressions (give and take to see what level of sexual amplitude others are comfortable with) to see if another is or can get comfortable with sexual culture. Sexualists love making others comfortable to express a side of them they might reserve or have never explored before. Moreover, sexualists are polite, consensual, considerate of others, considerate of the reaction of others, respect monogomous relationships, and build sexual tension through touch, energy (mood), proximity, and talk. Sexualists are masters of body language and feeling the reaction of others. They are mental strategists of how to get closer with others. Depending on the perceived interests of a person, they can strategies methods for charm. Primarily they use proximity as a key ingredient. Proximity says a lot about a sexualist's intentions. When they meet strangers they are closer than the normal person. This shows they are an intimate, close, and confident person. When they like the other person, they are a lot more closer than usual and will often flirt and touch others. They will try to match energies when they meet others to get others to immediately like them. They are like a psychic in manipulating the energies and body language to test a reaction in others. If a sexualist is aroused and like another, they try to emanating strong sexual energy (metaphorically speaking). They try to get others to feel the same sexual energy and to see if they also feel the same way. When they match energies, it could lead to closer friendships or steamy situations. When a sexualist meets another sexualist, it should be like meeting a life-long friend. As a group, sexualists are a lewd community where everyone is like a deep, intimate, and close friend. They are free to behave naturally and freely where nudity and sexuality doesn't matter. They are well groomed, hyper-hygienic, and very considerate of how others see them. The idea of gender norms are also thrown out the window as there is no more expectation of how genders should behave. Around others sexualsists, they don't mind being touched, spanked, or treated like an intimate sexual partner as long as you know the other person. In the sexualist culture, people who are desperate for attention, desperate for a love, egotistical, narcissistic, lack mental maturity and consent, show signs of being psychotic and dangerous, are ostracized. Everyone has expectations and values so that sexualists can behave freely without fear, harm, or danger. I think sexualists should stick together. They are like a sexy family free to be their sexy selves and nobody will judge them. They are a group that care about each other, enjoy making each other feel good, and are there for each other when needed. Members let each other be themselves, even if they are having inconsistent moods swings or a nervous breakdown. Everyone is like a girlfriend and boyfriend whenever they want someone to be. All differences are worked out with well thought decisions. Drama is something that is only for people who are still mentally maturing and have a lot to grow and learn to deal with the insecurities, honesties, and flaws within themselves.

I like the idea of Sex-toy briefs. These are underwear for lady and guys with build in sex toy devices that can be used when aroused and needed to relieve one's sexual urges. Finally there are sex-toy brassieres which are bras that have vibrating and pulsating devices to allow females to feel stimulated in daily activities.

Of course in this culture if they become wildly aroused, they should relieve themselves in private. If they feel they have a connection with a partner feeling like they would agree to play sexually with them, then they should ask. In this culture, it’s okay to ask other sexualists for sex. If they turns down the offer, then one respects their rejection and moves on. As stated previously, one should ask more than three times. A female should always be respectful, strong in her position, and choose who she wants to play sexually with.

Individuals who practice this ideology behave in a way that demonstrates ethics. An example is that they want others to feel comfortable, safe, and welcome. Believers in this ideology desire to be a new beacon of love, understanding, and warmth in the world. The ideology is never of force or hostility. There is also a desire to improve the world by improving oneself first.

Sexualists have a strong belief in self-improvement and creating value for themselves and for society. It's also encouraged that they thrive to be high achievers and use achievement as a way to feel good about themselves and to push themselves farther. Sexualists are also selfless, authentic, and problem solvers. They practice being intellectual, critical thinking, and strategies to get the best outcome in any situation. They also have a desire to always learn as much as possible through their own curiosity, and try to improve themselves anyway possible by always doing the right thing and making the best decisions. They also want to treat others with kindness, respect, consideration, and how goodwill towards everyone they meet. There is a desired reputation to be truth worthy because individuals of this ideology are expected to be ethical and to do their best to always do the right thing. They also practice reciprocity and negotiation so that everyone gets an opportunity to get ahead. It's a strong belief that understanding and supporting each other allows each other to get ahead in life because life is short. There is also perhaps a desire that sexualists want to make intimate, long lasting, and genuine-heartfelt friendships with others and will develop themselves to be extremely friendly or develop leadership skills to help themselves and others achieve success and their goals. There is also a desire to develop leadership and mentor roles so that individuals can integrally develop themselves as an individual and be a source for good despite the nature of their ideology. Overall, Sexualists want to improve themselves, increase their intellectual capabilities, and help influence and create a better world for themselves and others.

Females need to instruct guys how they would like them to behave when they are sexually aroused, because often for guys it's only intercourse they are interested. There is a lot more to the joys of being horny and incrementally working towards greater sexual desire and turn-ons. I feel there is a mutual ground where guys and ladies being horny together can be a lot of fun and not always having to lead up to intercourse. It's fun to tease each other, touch each other while teasing (feeling genitals but not leading directly to sex), make sexual fun of each other, and overall have fun being horny and sharing the feeling mutually together. For example, a lady and guy can have mutual fun as they grab their hands and allow them to rub their genitals, females allow guys to take a peek at their nipples while sitting on his erection as he holder her in his arms. I believe horniness can make people be more arouses and more friendly. I also feel it should be okay to say if they're horny (if they are being honest). It should also be okay if it doesn't lead to sex or intercourse. It should be about having fun and being close with friends. Of course as to my sexual philosophy, if one feels too horny and perhaps gets too prelubricated, it could be a good idea to ejaculate to get back to their normal and non-aroused mindset.

I think males can learn a lot from observing lesbian activity on how to improve sexual behavior. The key is to see how females turn other females on and use their observation as a tool, you can find ways to improve your sexual interaction with females.

This culture is a safe, friendly, pleasuring, intimate, gender neutral, mutually pleasuring, and socially activity. It's a culture that keeps harmony, kindness, and consent in mind. It disavows nonconsensual or forced actions. It disagrees with behaviors and activities without consent.

There is sexual discipline. Sexual-discipline is the ability to be extremely aroused and to still think and behave rationally and logically. It's the ability to respect, tolerate, overcome, and still behave professionally when around highly stimulated situations or under extreme arousal. It's an understanding of one's limits that when extremely stimulated with the inability to focus, then one uses masturbation as a tool to relieve the sexual urges and sexual impulses to get ones brain activity back to normal and thinking logically without the further influence of sexual stimulation.

Individuals with perceived mental illnesses are required to be rational, respectful, polite, maintain harmony, have an open mind, be grounded in objectivity and logic, and should display sexually-discipline.

It’s up to individual’s choice to be circumcised or not. The culture encourages circumcision because it lessens the possibility for infections and diseases for oneself or ones partner.

Individuals in this culture are very warm and physical. They enjoy hugging. They are considerate when to interact physically with others by observing body language. If this culture is adopted by Asian cultures, it should influence their behaviors as it allows interaction with members to be more physical with hugs, cuddling, and holding and caressing each other.

In this culture friends help deepen their relationships through sexual interaction. They help uplift each other, care for each other, and treat each other like a close twin. Males and females interact with each other the same way. Females invite male friends to do female things and males invite females to do male things. In this culture gender differences are blurred and both learn to adopt to each other’s interest and values as part of the cultures philosophy of being a collective. They learn to do things others have interest in and adopt to each other’s interest finding ways to gain interest or stay as a companion for others. An example is a guy can go with a female friend and she allows him to choose clothes or a girl goes with a guy friend to watch sports and he helps her learn interesting things about the sport. They might not like their interest but they find serenity or fun in companionship sending time with others. It’s believed the time spent with others builds greater bonds and deeper life-time shared values and memories.

In this culture males and females are accepted to behave as masculine or as feminine as they want. Feminine males and masculine females are respected and accepted in this culture. If a female wants to dress or behave as a male, this is accepted. If a male wants to dress and behave as a female, this is also accepted. The culture desires people to behave as they would alone in their room behaving as their authentic self.

Prior to any sexual activity, the culture encourages to set a sexual mood and atmosphere. Setting a sexual mood and atmosphere allows others to feel comfortable to be aroused and be themselves and express their sexual interest.

The culture prefers males to be completely hairless on their body. The culture calls this grooming. However, it makes the acceptation that if others are okay with it or don’t mind it, then a person doesn’t have to shave their body hair. The purpose of body hair is to make everyone feel comfortable and aesthetically pleasing in the nude to be around each other.

Celebrity sexualists are like any other sexualist. They are respected and treated like anyone else in the culture. They are just as approachable as anyone else and if they consent, they can be open for sexual activities. The only unwritten rule with celebrities is to never expose their activities or sexual activities. All sexual activities with celebrities are to be protected and confidential. If a celebrity doesn’t mind and gives consent for exposure, then it should perhaps be okay. People shouldn’t expose celebrities and their activities out of respect, consent, and consideration. All members care and protect each other from unconsented exposure.

There is a huge respect for individual choice. People are respected for the choices they make in regards to sexual activities with partners. If a person wants to have sex with someone, they should be honest. It’s up to the other partner to choose to engage in sexual behavior. A common phrase is hooking up. Members are always saying they should hook up with others which means to have sex when the urge arises and both party’s consent. It’s also okay to decline sexual offers. Sex is abundant and can happen spontaneous at any time one wants to feel pleasure. The culture encourages members to be honest, kind, and respectful.

Jealousy is a normal human emotion. When people feel jealous, they should be honest. If a person chooses a sexual partner that another likes and gets jealous, they should step away for a bit to relax their emotions. If a person grows attached to someone who has states they are not available for relationships, then their decision should be respected. Having emotional discipline shows personal discipline and restraint.

A group of individuals attracted to a single person is a harem. Harems are accepted in this culture. Sexualists should be with other sexualists they enjoy being around. It can be a sexual harem or a regular harem. A sexualist harem is where followers of an individual don’t mind sexual activities together with other followers with their interest or try alone with their interest. Harems are typically trendy until followers lose interest.

Gender cohesion

Gender cohesion is the when both genders come together to blur gender differences and allow both genders to integrate with each other adopting to each other’s differences and forming a deep mutual harmonious bond. Gender neutrality in this culture is another word for gender cohesion. The culture desires both genders to be similar despite their physical, emotional, behavioral, and mental differences.

Gender Cohesion is where genders can coexist in a way that is profoundly united where they see each other as mutuals, complete equals, and removed from cultural gender expectations and stereotypes. It's the cultures desire that males and females can become extremely close friends to the point where they could see each other with a removal of gender differences. The culture wants to see gender cohesion where there is no distinction to how genders should see each other; how they should behave around each other; or have any need to fulfill any stereotypical archetypes. They do this by overlooking each other's physical and biological differences and seeing each other as part of a single entity. Individually, they prize living a life where each person can be authentic, honest to themselves, and honest to others. They also want to prize life where one can live without any cultural labels or expectations of how they should behave, what their interests should be, and how they should live their lives. They believe that genders can participate in activities that go against gender norms and social expectations where both genders genuinely enjoy each other's company and develop a very close, intimate, and meaningful bond where differences are overlooked and ignored.

In this culture, ladies are considered "gate keepers" to civilization and humanity. The culture believes without them, there would be no humanity. That is why females are greatly respected. As sexual partners, they choose who they want to have as a partner and who to have erotic play-time or sexy-time with. Guys have to respect their decisions. This culture is built upon consent, consideration, and respect. With the culture’s gender-cohesive ideology, guys must put themselves in their shoes and be considerate to how they are treated. Females should also respect males share a mutual appreciation and respect.

In this culture, ladies understand that if they reveal their body figure or intimate features of their body, guys will look. Out of respect and consideration, guys shouldn't stare. The ideology of the culture is both genders have a neutrality to them. There is a balance. When things are not steamy, guys see ladies like as if seeing themselves with a sense that we are all human and want respect. Members also recognize that although genders are different, there are similarities. Members of this culture recognize the gender differences but treat each other with respect and a sense of cohesion, gender-unity, or sense of androgyny.

Gender-unity-and-androgyny is a phrase that is used to describe gender-cohesion or gender-neutrality. This is where both males and females learn and recognize each other differences but treat each other as one ("different but similar", "one and the same"). It is a social bond where there is an androgyny that guys and ladies are the same despite their differences. The culture wants to encourage females to provide a mutual behavior where they treat guys as other ladies as well as being guys. At the same time, the culture encourages guys to provide a mutual behavior to treat ladies as guys even though they are ladies. It's a gender culture that learns to cooperate and behave mutually with each other forming an integrated bond by learning and recognizing their differences. This behavior is new and not native to current modern culture. In order to develop this new culture and mutual behavior, society will first have to learn in detail the differences between each gender and reinvent themselves into a mutual behavioral state where all members can get along and be deeply united. To do this humanity requires ethics. Ethics will allow members to be honest and learn about themselves and show ways they can constantly improve their behavior and learn about how to better behave with others without conflict. Conflicts will always occur but when everyone learns their average differences about gender specific causes, a behavior can be developed and used in a way that minimizes or removes possibility for conflict. I think these behaviors should be taught in institutions. Moreover, this behavior also includes sexual self-discipline. As the saying should go in this culture, if one feels horny they should relieve themselves in the bathroom. If they are a sexualist then they can have their partner or another sexualist help them. Overall, this will create a new mutual gender-cohesive behavior or gender-neutral behavior that will intimately unites all members into a more raw human-based interactive socio-behavior.

In sexualism, it's encouraged that everyone can be friends or intimate friends with each other. This can be known as the sexual-collective. Females sees guys almost like themselves and guys see females almost like themselves despite their mental, biological, and physical differences. By this I mean there is a sense of unity through androgynaiety. Guys are one with the ladies and ladies are one with the guys where the idea of being sexual promiscuity is widely accepted by both (both can be sluts, can be respected for being sluts, and nobody cares). All members want each other to feel good, feel pleasure, be happy, and sexually satisfied. Sexuality is believed to be a form of unity, bond, and friendship. It's a culture in which builds a new vision of interaction, interpersonal communication, social unity, humanism, sexuality, ways of thinking, and human cohesion.

Comparing similarities of genders, females are more similar to males then they think and males are more similar to females then they think. In the female vagina, there is a small penis called the clitoris and on males, the laceration of the penis is a miniature vagina. This is a funny similarity I thought was worth sharing.

I want a culture where genders are equal and neutral despite their biological and physical differences, or sexual desires. Maybe an example of an idea can be guys and ladies sharing a changing room and think nothing of it. Another idea could be both genders sharing a shower with each other and not caring. A more crazier and absurd idea I thought worth considering is to imagine after a long car travel or motorcycle ride, friends that are both guys and ladies pull over to the side of the road and both take a restroom break together while standing up and not caring or thinking anything of it. It’s as if this is completely normal. It would be great to live in a society that's made up of different views and values when it comes to genders or how genders behave. Guys can take on more feminine roles and females can take on more masculine roles or they can keep to their masculine or feminine behaviors. Guys and ladies behave in a way where they meet in the middle and are great companions together whether or not they are in a relationship. The social normal behavior is that everyone gets along in a gender-collective way where genders exist but mean nothing as they find a behavior in which allows both genders to be mutual-comparables to each other. A culture where guys can be masculine, logical, and yet considerate, intelligent or sensitive to female emotional behaviors and where females are feminine yet emotionally intelligent and adaptive to male logical minds or seemingly insensitive or less emotional behaviors. Overall, they adapt a culture, behavior, and mindset that understands each other and adapts to each other's behavior where they can become adaptive mutuals capable of overlooking, understanding, serving, and benefiting from each other as mutual and cohesive companions.

Lifestyle Customs

Sexualism has a variety of lifestyle customs. Here is a list of lifestyle values, information, desired cultural norms, and positions for lifestyle customs.

Sexualists embrace an ideology that sexuality is seen as a normal and casual activity. Sex and adult culture is something seen as a normal part of life despite how lewd or degenerate it seems. They practice nudity and sexuality in consideration of others and according if others are comfortable with it. They practice nudity and sexuality creating a comfortable mood and atmosphere for others to express themselves and their adult interests. The ideology suggests it's a good practice to let others know in advanced what to expect before an adult and nsfw culture is present. Moreover, sexualists see sexuality as something meant to be normal because sexuality is believed to be an instinctive normal human behavior. It is an activity that is mutual where everyone is free to explore themselves sexually. They utilize sexual activities as a way to enable others to be more expressive, intimate, and a way for others to become close to each other. It's a great desire to make very close friends by getting other together to create a deep, intimate, and meaningful friendship bonds. Moreover, sexualists might have the interest to have, engage, or experiment with multiple sexual partners. Individuals in this lifestyle also respect the sexual interests of others and respect if one has or desires multiple sexual partners. For those who are married, it should be encouraged to prediscuss the limitations of sexual activity before engaging in any open and social sexual activities. In addition, it's a belief that there is respect for others to use sexuality as a casual social activity. Furthermore, sexualists also practice sexuality with great respect towards sexuality and a respect for life where they do their best to avoid the risk of unintentionally creating life. Lastly, despite sexualists being sexually open and expressive, all sexual behaviors are dominated by three main principles; these are the principles of consent, respect, and consideration. Consent is the most important part of the sexualists ideology. Consent is what will allow others to feel safe and trust others when wanting or having sex with a partner. Sexualists believe all sexual behaviors must be through consent, respect, and consideration to what their partners are interested in. In conclusion, sexualists love sex, love being around sex, and will practice sex openly and casually.

People can ask "how are you feeling" as a question referring to if you are feeling horny. If you reply with "feeling lewd" then a common saying can be "I also feel lewd, lets..." or "feel free to get comfortable" which means feel free to get naked or feel free to openly masturbate. Sometimes a person can say "Feel free to get comfortable. If you want to ride me, feel free to do so." This means you are free to get naked and masturbate openly and if you want to use my body to pleasure yourself, it's up to you. It can also means it's up to you to make me feel horny so we can play together or I'll mind my own business as you use or play with my body to make yourself feel good.” If they decline, they can tell you "feel free to get comfortable, but I don’t feel horny." Which means you can get naked and openly masturbate but they are going to stay normal. A person can also tell another they feel lewd or horny and can ask another if they can get comfortable. This is asking another for consent to get naked and if they are okay to openly masturbate. If a person is naked or masturbating and other person shows up, a person should warn others or ask if they are okay to be around others who are naked and masturbating. They should also warn the person who is naked or masturbating that another person has arrived.

It would be great if people in mainstream society will identify this culture and respect the culture for what it is despite how controversial or absurd it sounds.

After you become 18, you become a mutual. A mutual means everyone is the same. If you are a sexual-hedonist, it means you can be a sexual partner or companion that is open to sexual engagements for all sexualists above the age of 18. You are part of a mutual community, family, or expected friendship-hood where sex can be spontaneous and random with any partner you choose as long as you have consent and give consent. In the end everyone wants to feel good and help others feel good and sexually satisfied.

Sexualist sexuality doesn't always have to be about intercourse. You can simple enjoy each other’s presence in the nude or while foreplaying, teasing, role-playing or playing around nude with your friends. You can play with them and engage in sexual practices that doesn’t have to involve intercourse meaning the penetration of genitals. We call this light playing, outercourse, or puppy play.

It's normal for ladies to get horny and casually pull or play with their nipples or rub between their legs if they get horny. Guys will recognize a lady who is horny but will tolerate, ignore it, overlook it, disregard it, and won't take advantage of it. A lady is free to behave as she wants, even if she shows very aroused behaviors. Moreover, Guys on the other hand shouldn't feel ashamed of walking around with an election. Election are a part of life. If their penis shows itself through their shorts or a short hole, this is also fine. If a lady desires to touch it, she needs to ask for consent. Guys should tolerate, ignore, overlook, or disregard seeing another penis. In this culture nudity mean very little. If a homosexual individual wants to play with someone penis, they need to ask for consent. If a location is appropriate, and another gives consent then it's okay to masturbate, masturbate another, or to perform sexual behaviors and activates. Others can either leave to not feel aroused or can ignore, overlook, tolerate, or disregard the sexual behavior. Sexualists are okay and behave casually being in the presence of sexual activity. If another person feels horny, they can ask for consent to join. Everything is about consent, respect, and consideration.

In nonformal spaces or gatherings, ladies can relax about having to cross their legs and act like decadent or sophisticated ladies. They are free to be themselves and don't have to care about anyone looking up their skirt, looking into opening in their clothes, or caring if their sensitive body features or genitals were to be exposed. They don't have to worry or feel insecure or embarrassed. Guys will notice and could be aroused but will have respect and tolerate, ignore, overlook, or disregard any exposure due to their sexual discipline, maturity, and consideration. The more they are exposed to it, the more they will build tolerance. If they get uncontrollably horny, then they should relieve themselves in private to get back to a normal frame of mind. If a lady sees a penis or gets aroused after observing a guy’s body features, she should also show respect, ask for consent, and have consideration. Overall and aroused or not, everyone should get along and get used to nudity. Nudity and the exposure of sensitive bits is a casual and normal part of this sexual culture.

Sexualists are considerate. If they are in a place that allows them to be loud or in an orgy, they will moan and be loud. If it's a location that's more respectful or formal, they'll have more quiet sex out of respect and considerations for other in their environment.

The community has a respect for sexuality and voyeurs as it believes ethical sexuality is also part of the balance of life and humanity.

Ways to spend with friends in sexualism:
Here is a list of common sexy ways to spend with friends in sexualism:

1 Nudi-time - causal time without clothes. Be sure to have a towel.
2 Bath time - baths and showers with friends.
3 Nude or semi-nude sleepovers - sleeping over with friends with lingerie, without clothes, or partially with clothes.
4 Sexy nap time - getting naked and comfortable to take a nap together.
5 Sexy hangout, gatherings, or chilling - hanging out comfortably by dressing in lingerie, speedo, partially clothed, or nude. Be sure to bring a towel.
6 Sexy barbeques - casual nude, semi-nude, speedo, or lingerie barbeque.
7 Sexy campfires - hanging outdoors nude or semi-nude with friends.
8 Nude traveling - traveling in the nude, semi-nude, in a speedo, or in casual-daytime lingerie. Be sure to bring a towel.
9 Sexy dance night - Having a night where you invite friends to play music and dance while being in the nude, semi-nude, speedo, or in lingerie.
10 Sexy LAN gaming night - gaming in the nude, semi-nude, lingerie, or speedo. If nude or semi-nude, be sure to bring a towel.
11 Tanning - being outside with friends in the nude or partially nude or with a speedo tanning.
12 Skinny dipping - swimming in the nude or partial nude.
13 Sexy game night - playing games and board games in the nude, semi-nude, lingerie, or speedo. Be sure to bring a towel if nude.
14 Sexy movie night - Watching a movie in the nude, semi-nude, speedo, or lingerie. Be sure to bring a towel if in the nude.
15 Sexy karaoke - karaoke with friends in the nude, semi-nude, speedo, or lingerie. If nude, bring a towel. 16 Drinking night - a night where you drink together with friends. Be sure to bring and use condoms.
17 Sexy art, crafts, and mini projects day - A day where you make art, art projects, crafts, build objects, sculpt, paint, draw, write, read, or build a project together in the nude, semi-nude, or in lingerie.
18 Sexy cooking - Cooking with friends in the nude, semi-nude, lingerie, or speedo.
19 Nude gardening - getting naked or partially naked to work in the garden and outdoors.
20 Sexy homework time - doing homework with friends in the nude, semi-nude, in a speedo, or lingerie. Use a towel if nude.
21 Sexy car wash - wash your vehicles in the nude or semi-nude.
22 Nude hiking or nude walk - walking a private or secluded trail naked or partially naked.
23 Nude boating - being on a boat with friends in the nude or semi-nude. Be sure to bring a towel.
24 Nude fishing - fishing in the nude or semi-nude.
25 Sexy photography - taking private photos in the nude, semi-nude, lingerie, or speedo.
26 Nude outdoor activities - outdoor games, shooting, hunting, and sports in the nude or semi-nude.
27 Sexy chores, organizing, and rearranging - Doing home chores, cleaning, organizing, dusting, vacuuming, or furniture rearranging in the nude or semi-nude.
28 Sexy time - a time you spend with one or more friends in the nude, semi-nude, lingerie, or in a speedo. Be sure to have a towel on hand.
29 Sex party or orgy - Inviting friends for a steamy sex party where they can bring their significant others and have sex with them while everyone also has sex with their partners. If they are swingers they can also swap partners and let people who are single bachelors have sex. Overall, it's a party where people get naked, can be semi-naked, wear lingerie, and wear speedos. It's good to bring condoms, lubricant, toys, equipment, and sexy photo albums. It's a great time to show sexual home videos or favorite p0rn. The sexy mood needs to be set before the sexual activities. Everyone is responsible for their hygiene, health, and cleaning up after themselves. There is a respect for the home, location, or establishment. Everyone is to be considerate, be consensual, and be nice and respectful of each other. Everyone should leave the party sexually satisfied.
30 Roleplaying - friends can be gathered for roleplay scenarios where everyone comes up with ideas for a story and a host and assigns or allows member to be characters and they enact a roleplay reality with its own challenges, dramas, adventures, sexual experiences, and events.
31 BDSM sessions - Everyone gathers for BDSM and roleplay sessions where they get to experience the fetishes they are comfortable with. Members are also allowed to be voyeur and simply watch.

32 Nude massages - Giving full body nude masages with coconut oil, scented oils, and lotions.

I think two major rules for sexualists should be no sexual behaviors around family or families and no conflicts with other already in a relationship. Sexualists need to see if others are okay with open relationships by all parties first (like swinging or open polyamory).

I like to think that females are the gate keepers to humanity. They choose who they want their partners to be and who’s genes will be passed on to the future. Some people believe that's why females are not supposed to be like males and should find quality partners and be married. I believe it's up to the individual to decide how they want to live their lives. I think divers visions of lifestyle and how to live life is healthy. If a person wants to have an active sexual life then this is okay as long as they are educated, can critically think, and are capable of making good decisions.

An edge-party is a group masturbation that involves no intercourse which can includes both genders casually masturbating together. Members can "edge" with their clothes on or off. They can also "edge" hiding themselves using a towel or a blanket. It's where a group enjoys adult entertainment together or enjoys watching others masturbate. It's a mutual group activity that can bring members closer together.

There is a care for health. Sexualists tell guys not masturbate too much because it can affect your body and brain so they emphasize being balanced. It’s understood that masturbation can be harmful to male testosterone and mental abilities.

I believe sexualism is only appropriate in sexualist-safe areas. It should not be shown in public where it's not acceptable/accepted. In average society, it should be kept private in respect to society. It is a culture that is much like the swinging subculture; it’s not for everyone and it should be kept private for one of the reasons that the world is not open or ready for such a culture. If a location says it’s sexualist-safe, then it's okay to engage in sexualist behaviors and activities.

Sexualist desire to improve wealth and be financially intelligent. Part of this culture is learning ways to improve oneself. This also includes learning more about wealth and finding ways to grow wealth such as investing, stocks, and other oportunities. A popular method of wealth growth is dividend stocks.

I like the idea of Sexualist community centers. Sexualist community centers are a sexualist community resort for a variety of recreational activities. I came up with the idea to have a two part resort where on one side people can be clothed and on the other, they can be nude. On the nude side, it's more of the horny side so you are free to ask for consent to play with people. On the clothed side, you can wear lingerie or anything sexy or anything you want. The center is for millennials and gens. Guys are encouraged to bring lady friends. All locations can allow for people to have sex, masturbate, or get naked if they want. The location features a teaching center, a reading and study area, many pools, sports areas, computer area (porn is acceptable). There are bracelets you can buy if you want something. Then you can wear it and someone will talk to you if they can help. There are rules in this place. Respect and Consent comes first. Treat each kindly. Be honest and polite. If you're married, talk about the swinging life first. Here, we are all lewdies. So sex doesn't makes us ashamed or intimidates us. We highly recommend to always groom yourself. We emphasize to use towels and good hygiene. Here we are all lewders and we love sex and pleasure. We respect life and uphold responsibilities to protect ourselves from unintentional births before they happen. Everyone here is equal. We are all friends, family, and colleagues. We see each other as equals. We like to use reciprocity. We like to help each other fulfill desires.

I think sexualists should have adult play rooms in their homes. Rooms used for sexual activities where they can show guests the adult side of their lives. It should be reserved for individuals who are only okay with this material or who are also sexualists and this part of culture is seen as normal. They can show their collection of toys, gadgets, bdsm equipment, imagery, cloths, and other adult related assets. It's a room where other sexualists can get together and play with each other as a recreational or leisure activity. Having this room depends on your partner. I think these rooms are mostly intended for swinger and polyamorous type of individuals.

Ipsihg-group - interpersonal poly singles intimate hedonist group. A group of singles that form a bond who gather together to do activities or hang out. A sexualist replacement family of intimate close friends. These are individuals who you get to know, who prove themselves to the group by being friendly and demonstrating unique integral qualities/values, who follow a series of ethical principle, and help form a strong group bond. It's a polyamorous hedonist sexual group where sex and nudity is casual where everyone shares each other when they feel like. Everyone understand that each member of the group is a free-spirited individual that does what they like with whomever they want. There is a balance of group activities and sexual circumstances. The group also accepts a time for orgies and voyeurs to watch others have fun. It's a group about consent and respect. It's also about balance. There's a time for everything. The group’s goals is to allow people to do activities in groups, relax and cohabitate as a group, and create a family structure that is intimate and carefree. A common tradition of the group is using rubber wrist bands to show what people want to do or feel, such as: cuddle, horny, rest, become active(do something fun), chill, or go solo. An Ipsihg group is different than a ménage because it’s with a group of extremely close members of highly sexual individuals who behave in a large polyamorous relationship.

Sexualist believe they should live in a way that makes them happy, bring fulfillment, and creates value to their life. They want to live a life that allows them to feel free, safe, and happy to live however they desire. They want to live a life that has healthy risks, opportunity, and ways to build up their achievements. They prize a mindset of building wealth through entrepreneurship, personal trade and value, becoming an expert in a field, or through financial investments. Perhaps some sexualists also want to build community where individuals who share similar interests can come together and play an intimate, valuable, and close interpersonal role in each other's lives. Perhaps it should be encouraged to build a community where individuals can be respected for their decisions, never judged, accepted for who they are, and allow them to be their authentic selves. Perhaps some sexualists should be encouraged that life is better when it's shared with others who have similar interests. It should be that sexualists will make others aware of their ideologies in advance so that they know what to expect of them as a friend because sexualists prize honesty. Overall on a personal summery, sexualists want to live the best life possible; therefore, they maintain a life of good personal health, exercise, and productive thinking. They also maintain an approachable appearance, practice good hygiene, and always consider how others think regarding themselves as a source for improvement. These are the pillars of this ideology and the unique sexualists way of life. Sexualists isn't for everyone. It's primarily a young movement that embraces a unique ideology and lifestyle. This ideology is meant for those who share the same or similar ideologies and agree with its lifestyle. Overall, it's believed this ideology will give individuals more freedoms and maybe make more free and intimate community.

Maybe for hospitality, members may also ask if a guest in the sexualist community would like a sexual compliment which involves the opposite gender performing a masturbatory action for or on the guest to make them feel good and comfortable.

This culture considers it perfectly normal and acceptable to masturbate with clothes on or to masturbate while hiding ones activity under a blanket. They have to do their best to keep the environment clean and practice hygiene by washing their hands. A common practice is to masturbate using your boxers so all the precum is collected on the boxers.

There is a huge emphasis on aesthetics and looking good and being comfortable in one’s own body. It’s believed that exercising helps make a person feel good about themselves the more they see results. The culture believes hard workouts produces the greatest results.

In this culture, birthdays aren’t just one day, they last a week ending on the day the person was born. The person having their birthday celebrated gets priority role in things they want to do, places they want to go, places to eat, and people they want to visit. This tradition doesn’t start until the birthday individual is thirteen years old.

There are two types of masturbations: One which is formal and one which is informal. Formal masturbation consists of not touching another and just to masturbating to build a connection, relax, or release sexual tension. This form of masturbation is more for people who are more like a superior or seen with respect. Informal masturbation is more for friends and colleagues where you engage in sexual play, fantasies, and recreation.

Just as sexual narratives are found in red light districts to allure men, the town encourages females to also have their own narratives that arouse ladies in public. Overall, sexual narratives are not tied to just male desire but also balanced with female desires as well as various other sexual types.

Perhaps when asking a person out or if you like them the convention is to ask three times for a person to realize their feelings to another. When rejected then to respectfully understand their mindset cannot be changed and to move on to someone else. I think it’s important that when a person rejects another or does not give them a chance, they should understand that it may be the last time another approached them.

I came up with the term Sexual Dispersion (also known as horniness dispersion). This is when you get super horny in a situation that turns you on dramatically. It’s when you masturbate for a brief period, about one to five minutes, to get the hormonal horny chemical out of the way. You don’t masturbate to ejaculate, you just do it so that you level feeling of being horny stabilizes/ evens out with you own casual behavior. This allows you to be semi-horny, have sexual control, and allows the feeling of being casually naked to be comfortable and carefree. This is a good strategy when you get naked around friends of the opposite gender. This allows you to be comfortable while controlling yourself from being overly horny.

Horny shivers are shivers you get when aroused by others. Horny shivers are normal by members in sexualism. If one has the shivers, they should wear a jacket or cover themselves.

It's partly a masturbation culture, people are encouraged to masturbate if they feel horny. Of course they should always consider others first and only masturbate when in a place appropriate and with everyone else's consent or awareness.

The culture's sexual tradition is that after one ejaculates and orgasms after sex with their married partner or ethically pleasuring a friend, is to keep going until their friend and partner is also sexually satisfied. It's a non-selfish culture and desires everyone to be mutually sexually satisfied.

I think people can masturbate with others and see it as a pleasurable behavior and activity or social activity and not with lustful intention to take advantage of others.

This culture allow people to pleasure each other anytime of the day, but I think it should be common that sexual activity are mostly held in the morning when a person wakes up and at night before bed.

A scenario can be when you are doing something with a friend and she or he gets horny, you can wait someplace and let them masturbate or masturbate with them and when everyone feels their sexual urges go away, everyone resumes life as usual. If it's a person surrounding people of the same gender and the others around them aren't comfortable, they can use a towel to cover their sexual activity. An example is if a guy is surrounding other guys and a person has the urge to masturbate, they should be given a towel and cover their sexual activity. A person should always have in mind to never make a mess and to eventually get back to normal. If it's two people having sexual desires or interest for each other, let them have their oral and touch sexual pleasure. It can be in private between the aroused or somewhere private include others who don't mind to watch. Nonetheless, wait until they are finished and get back to normal to resume life as usual. If they turn you on, tell them what you are going to do before you do it so that others know and you see if they are okay with it. Again intercourse is only for married couples. Overall, this is a culture that prizes nudity and sexuality and allows people to be close, loving, and intimate with each other collectively.

I came up with a term called prosexual. These are individuals or a group who indulge mindlessly in consensual sexual activity. I also came up with the term prosexual parties which is a party where consensual sex, orgies, and many other sexual activities are casually and openly enjoyed.

This is a culture that sees members of the opposite sex as equals despite physiological, psychological/emotional, and biological differences. Sex and nudity is not shameful. There’s is also no gender politics. Also the cultural ideology of females and males having to be a certain way is nonexistent. You do what makes you happy; as long as it is ethical. Ethics is what divides the sexually disciplined and rational from the ones who are mentally ill and sexually irrational. Sexuality and nudity in this culture is simply another part of life. One of the goals, aside from bring society more close together and intimate, is to make sexuality, sex, and nudity a normal and casual part of everyday society. The idea partly behind it is that we are social and sexual animals that love sexuality and to procreate, why be ashamed of it. Humanity should embrace every positive aspect of what makes humanity special, productive, and allow for harmony. Due to the lack of sexual discipline in average mainstream society, ethics has to exist.

If I were to include polyamory in this culture, I would only limit it to 3 parties (rarely even 4) otherwise it can become too complicated. I think 3 or 4 partners is okay.

This culture encourages a members to be fit, athletic, be healthy, and look their best. It wants members to feel good and show off their bodies. It encourages members to develop the disciplines and sacrifices to get their bodies to get in decent shape. The culture recognizes that not all members will be fit and healthy. Some members will be overweight or have different body features. In our culture this is okay. Slightly overweight individuals are also considered delightful and the culture also encourages them to show off their body. However, when an individual becomes obese or morbidly obese then the culture considers their weight a bit unhealthy and encourages to get to a decent weight size. Showing one’s body in this condition is up to the individual expense. When a body fold starts to become dramatic should be an indicator that one should care more about their body. It encourages these individuals to cut their sugar and salt substantially, shorten their food portions, become active, and eat healthier and get the nutrition their body needs. This culture has a moderate emphasis on developing self-discipline, overcoming ones excuses with honesties, become healthy, and looking good or decent. Despite how one’s body looks, the culture does not body shame. It will try and help members improve their looks indirectly such as inviting other members to work out.

I had the idea of Czech-parties. Czech-parties are parties where a group comes together to fulfill each other’s sexual desires and interests. The word Czech party comes from then Czech adult videos organization and their sexual swinging culture. It's to drive out the sexual desires and urges, be an outlet to sexually free and express themselves, and overall allow individuals to feel as sexually liberated as possible. Males and females, depending on who approaches who first, are there to cater to the interests and sexual interests of each other at a party like this. It is an event free of judgment and where people can indulge in all sexual desires under the principle of consent. Everyone who joins the group are mutuals. If a celebrity joins then they are as equal as any other person. The only major rule is that nobody talks publicly about what goes on in these parties unless it's within the culture or with consent. Members can only be invited by having contacts. They also should introduce themselves to the group. The other rules is protection from pregnancies, hygiene, and respect of property. There is also the rule that everyone has to be respectful, ethical, and polite. Everyone is also at least 18 or years old and older with evidence.

I had the crazy idea for a sexual workshop. An intercourse workshop is where people who want to have sex, some for the first time, learn about sex and come together in a full day sexual workshop. You have to sign a waiver or agreement about not discriminating your partner, having everything is confidential, and allowing the coach to perhaps consensually touch one's body in sensitive areas. Classes are made sure there are equal men and woman. Every table has two chairs where they have to have a man and woman to a single table. Ever man and woman are assigned a partner who they sit next with. First they play a game for team building, becoming comfortable, and learning about each other. Then they go to an open area with mats where they strip naked. The teacher uses two assistants to show as an example to the class. They learn about sexuality. Sexual history. How sex is different for both sexes. Then they learn about condoms and sex safety. They talk about their sexual interests. What are their fetishes are and why. Then they learn about the vagina and penis. Then they wrap up all the lecture portion of the course. When they start the workshop, they start by having their partners touch each other. Then they learn to touch, masturbate, and finger each other. They learn foreplay, outercourse, sensation play, and stimulation. They learn to build sexual desire and to make others self-lubricate. Next they learn oral pleasure. They both take turns practicing oral sex. Then a partner puts a condom on their partner and they learn how to do intercourse; starting in the missionary position. From here they learn different sex positions and the most effective ways to maximize pleasure. They learn to take breaks for long sex duration and also learn to switch it up and get creative to keep sex fresh. After learning sex positions, they both talk to their partner while practicing and learning which position they enjoy the most. Then the males are given an assignment to make a female orgasm many times. If they cum, they are to pull out and cum in a condom then take a break and watch others until everyone finishes. They spend a long part of the day practicing their sex techniques with their partner to get the right movements, body positions right, and to improve. Then if they want, through consent, they can also practice with other partners if they are swingers in a group orgy if they'd like. Monogamous individuals can stay with their partners. Ever-so-often they can take a break and drink water. Before half time, guys are tasked to make their partner and others squirt by touching the Gspot. Then it's half time. In half time, they are to mop and disinfect the area. At this time another coach can take over. This is when the monogamistic first section of the course is finished. Next comes the culture and fetish section. Naked partners are gathered together in a group and learn about the different kinds of sexual cultures and fetishes. They learn about bdsm, toys, swingers, and other sexual science and lifestyles. They are given toys and are taught to use the toys. They are taught about the vibrators and the dildo. Then they are taught shibari. They learn to tie up partners very safely. They do this for 40 mins to an hour then move on. Lastly they are taught about anal pleasure. Females use strap-ons to peg males with their consent. Their goal is to reach the male G-spot. After they move through the many toys, they are left alone to their own devices and are taught about the importance of relationships, love, and intimacy for making great marriages and great date experiences. The course closes out with everyone thanking their partners, getting their numbers, and encouraged to call each other to stay in touch and have fun.

Some places could be allowed to accept sexualists. I think a place needs to be declared and initialized first. By declared, I mean everyone knows it’s a sexual-free space or could become a sexual space. By initialized, I mean a space, place, or location needs to get people into the sexy mood first. This can also be done making people aware using signs. To create a steamy atmosphere, this can be done by having two people making out, touching each other, and rubbing each other's bodies. Sexual activity needs to always be consensual. If people around those individuals initializing the activity are okay with the sexual action, then it could turns into a sexual environment. If people don't approve and politely tell them to do it in private then they should look for a private space or those who aren't okay with it should leave. After a while when people show they are okay with it, the initialized individuals can have their sexual fun. Those who are okay with it can watch as a form of entertainment or if people are okay with it, they can pleasure themselves, find a partner to engage sexually, or maybe ask (if they are the type that's okay with it) if not get close and wait to see if one can join on their sexual activity if partners feel comfortable. It’s polite to lock a door depending on the setting. If the setting is open and carefree because it's to be expected then anyone can come into the room. If the setting is more restrictive and more private then locking the door is a good idea and other would have to knock. Overall, I want to think sexuality could be a normal and fun activity in places. Once everyone gets past the normal or reserved mindset and into a more relaxed and more sexuality-open mindset, the environment can be more liberating which can allow for more liberating interactions, steamy behaviors, and interpersonal communication.

I came up with the idea of horny-vibe. This is also known as ero-charged social or an erotic charge environment. This is a sexually charged environment where individuals use sexual discipline to be and stay horny for a long period of time. The goal is to have fun being in the state of horniness and arousal. The idea is that being aroused is where every individual is equal. It's where they should tease and play with each other with the challenge of not engaging in intercourse. The goal is to test and tease one's sexual discipline, and have fun and delight oneself in a sexually charged way. If one reaches a limit in being sexually aroused, they should masturbate and provoke others. The goal is to make others horny anyway possible while also not resulting in intercourse. In addition, perhaps the more society is conditioned with arousal, the greater the step to reaching a sense of social intimacy which can help with social unity (as long as people retain sexual discipline and ethics through a sexual discipline). The goal is to stay horny, enjoy it, and keep the environment sexually charged for others to enjoy.

I came up with a tri-poly Lover. This is a person who likes multiple partners but limits themselves to three. It’s a person who needs to marry a person who is bi and who has them as their only bf or gf and who has another gf or bf as extended lovers or pets. A pet or slave is a BDSM culture individual who has an owner. Partners only allow for individuals within their three-way relationship. A quad-poly lover is a person with the same relationship but with four individuals. Allowing for another person to have an additional extended lover or pet.

This culture encourages the experimentation of sexual ideas. A crazy idea cane be like my idea of intercourse dances. An intercourse dance is a set of movements revolving the female and male conducting intercourse and penetrating their genitals with music. The music follows their sexual movements and positions as a form of entertainment while the main focus is the movement of their genitals penetrating and going with a beat. Ultimately it's a form of sexual entertainment while watching a couple have sex. Another form of intercourse dance is an actual dance with genitals exposed and dancing while at the same time briefly penetrating with the music. The challenge is for the male to stay hard as they dance so he can penetrate his partner. The goal of the partner is to keep them hard.

I came up with an idea form nude olympics. This is a series of sports and challenges, often mixed by gender while in the nude. Another form of Olympics can be sexual olympics which is a variety of challenges or sports while engaging in intercourse or sexual activities.

Many have experienced something called horny-shivers. Horny shivers are shivers that are brought by arousal or stimulation. If one feels horny shivers, a good idea can be to wear something warm.

I want sexuality to have a side that can be something of decadence and have a sense of elegance. I want it as a tool to build long lasting friendships and a way to extend the culture to more sophisticated audiences. I want people to set their own personal boundaries to what kind of sexual activities they allow and are willing to experiment with (for example: intercourse, outercourse, roleplay, foreplay, or more personal self-involved intimate activities). I want sexuality as a device to eliminate gender barriers and create a sense of humanity where we are a single human race; we are a single human species. I want sexuality to be something that unites people, unites strangers, and brings them together in ways never seen before. I want sexuality to be something that makes people comfortable and friendly to each other where we are not afraid to interact with new people and strangers participating in the culture. I want sexuality as something that allows others to express themselves freely and authentically. It's something that allows others to want to know more about others out of curiosity and to have others feel comfortable and welcome. I want a sense of sexuality that has its own culture and is redefined. I want sexuality to be respectful, consenting, and something that opens others to personal experimentation. I want it to be safe. I want it to build trust with others. I want sexuality to be a force that brings people together and builds community. I want members to feel comfortable. I want it to make a whole new community of people who see sexuality different and a normal part of the human experience. I want it to perhaps build an intimate and inseparable society. I want it to be a device to make people happy and make life have more meaning and fulfillment.

Should outercourse, touching, massage, and dry humping be the innocent sexual activity for new members, friends, and acquaintances in the community? Should dry humping be the casual method used for newcomers in the sexual culture? Should dry humping be the way to demonstrate and practice sexual activities by having new comers ease into the culture by casually humping others? Is this a good way to teach new comers about sexual discipline, respect, and consent? I like the idea that I think if a person is not sure what someone is like sexually or what it means to be sexual in general in this community, they should be asked to hump or dry hump them. You can see how well-mannered and sexually disciplined another is and how much you can trust another sexually. Guys should let ladies dry hump them if they get horny. Dry humping is a good method for shy or younger members of the community. Dry humping is part of outercourse sexual activity and should be a casual and common practice in this community. It helps let ladies see how others will sexually react and be comfortable with. Perhaps this can be like a sexual sample or testing method for a lady to get to know another intimately and learn to trust them sexually. Ladies shouldn’t feel shy to ask members to use their leg as a tool to dry hump for pleasure if they feel horny. Random members should feel glad to help ladies they may or may not know feel pleasure. Guys should accept this behavior and let ladies hump their leg or back even if it’s for no reason. Dry humping is a good way for ladies to get used to the sexual side of the culture and overcome their sexual shyness. If the lady consents, guys can help them hump by holding their body or moving their leg in a way that helps her orgasm. Ladies should also be polite and be appreciative if someone helps them achieve pleasure. This culture is considerably polite and appreciated members who are thankful for having others give them pleasure.

Perhaps in a pro-ethical-sexual community or society, perhaps sexual education can be taught through dry humping. Perhaps students can partner up with other students of the opposite gender and taught sexual education, training, and ethics by dry humping.

In a pro-ethical-sexual society, could dry humping and outercourse be a polite and safe method to handle sexual interaction without cheating or engaging in practices that are sensitive to relationships? Perhaps dry-humping can be normalized and be a social condition which enables safe sexual interaction which brings people together yet relieves the sexual desire of arousal from males.

Maybe just like gender neutral bathrooms, they should also allow for sexualist bathrooms and unisex bathrooms. Sexualist bathrooms are restrooms with sexual areas for people to enjoy the sexual companionship of other sexualists for casual sexual fun and excitement. It's a bathroom that allows for fetishes and that offers optional privacy. Moreover, Unisex bathrooms are for individuals who don't mind sharing a restroom with the opposite gender. They are a bathroom with a design and culture that makes genders mutual and providing a feeling of freedom where individuals can use the restroom the way they like. For example, females are free to casually use male urinals if they choose or perhaps the use of bidets are an optional item. There can also be a mix of male urinals and female urinals. It's a restroom where individuals don't mind seeing the genitalia of the opposite gender if exposure was to happen. It also caters to both genders. A major issue with males is the strong smells, therefore stalls are equipped with ventilation and nice scenting perfumes. It's a restroom that tears down social gender barriers and a place where genders treat each other equally and respectfully. One consents to the conditions of unisex bathrooms upon entering it. Overall, it’s up to the users of unisex and sexualist bathrooms to maintain a safe, comfortable, and clean environment.

Everyone in this sexual culture are to not take sex personal; it's for enjoyment and not to be taken too seriously. Everyone part of this culture understand that they will do their part to make sure to have safe sex to prevent pregnancies, maintain hygiene, and care for their sexual partners while also taking care of themselves.

Individuals in this culture can masturbate anytime when it doesn't bother others. They should always consider others and therefore should cover themselves initially when masturbating unless others are okay with it. It might be a good idea to initially rub and touch oneself with ones clothes on. Touching yourself slowly can help set the mood. Setting the mood is important and it's called sexification, sexual ionization, sexual staging, or creating a horny atmosphere. It's good practice touching yourself slowly and not immediately reveal one's genitals. It's like a performance to get others in the mood. When the mood is finally set, others joined, and the area is very sexualized and you know others are aroused and don't think it would be an issue revealing ones genitals or wouldn't seem to mind, then you can masturbate openly and casually. Even after a sexualized environment, it's still good practice and polite to cover oneself as one masturbates. For guys, keep in mind what kind of penis people in society would be favorable of seeing. If it's a long, straight, hard, and girthy penis that’s shaved, then this is more favorable and pleasant to the common eye. Always be sure to keep oneself groomed and presentable. When one cums, be sure to cover, clean, and wipe any cum or fluids that are visible. Practice good hygiene and always clean up thoroughly leaving nothing behind. It's highly encouraged to disinfect the area after one finishes.

I like the idea of kitten or puppy harems. These are just another name for harems. Kitty harems is a harem where a bunch of ladies surround a guy. Puppy harem is a bunch of guys surround a lady. Overall, it’s a collection of individuals who follows a person, a set of individuals, or each other forming an intimate group or family that can involve sexuality or express similar interests. An example can be a group of three main people with many followers in the interest of sexual activity and extremely close and intimate friendship. It is not a cult as followers do not engage in ritual practices and there is no order or organization. It is a personalized commitment out of one's personal interest.

Controversially, I came up with the idea of a Lily Maiden. Lady Maidens are females who love to have sex; some goes as far as to say they are free sex property. By this I mean they are respectable individuals despite their relation to their sexual side or any time appropriate where they want or can be taken advantage of or used sexually. They want to be taken advantage of and exploited sexually in regards to sexually stimulating situations. For example, an office lady who does her job well, wants to be sexually taken advantage of whenever it's okay to do so because she truly enjoys it and asks for others to so with her.

Cat girl, succubus, or lewd princess are terms of a female who enjoys lewd things and making other horny for their own personal enjoyment. Fu*k boy, incubus, or lewd boi are terms for guys who enjoy lewd culture.

A crazy term I came up with is knox sleep. This is a therapeutic practice of being penetrated by a friend without having sex while sleeping. For example, the penis is stationed inside the vagina but not engaged in intercourse. It's inserted to endure in the feeling of having intimate connection without the desire of intercourse.

A companionist is a sex buddy, bed friend, or controversially called a big/little brother or sister. They are called big/little brother or sister from the unfortunate and controversial idea of Japan's incest fetish culture. They make fun of and play with this term as a way to demonstrate how intimate and close they are with each other. Moreover, the definition of a companionist is a single who sleeps around. They'll sleep with anyone of their sexual preferences. They respect their partners. They go on marriage dates and ask for permission to have sex with partners of married couples. They have sex on a mutual enjoyment level. They understand and abide by consent. Ultimately, they can be viewed as the single version of a swinger or a bachelor swinger.

A sexiere is also known as a sex friend or a friend with benefit, is a single that sleeps around with friends or people they trust and feel comfortable with after getting to know them after a period of time. They are a single with a trusted circle of friends with benefits. They are also an individual who understands and abides by consent, has sex on a mutual enjoyment level, and has respect for their partners. Their philosophy is sex between friends is normal and they use sex as a way to have a deeper and more intimate relationship with friends.

Small Group Lovers is a group of three or four individuals who form a love circle of close friends that are also in a shared closed relationship.

Use girl, Use boy, or Public Sexual Servant is a male or female that let's strangers use them sexually at any time. They are individuals who encourage others to use them sexually whenever they want for sexual exploitation. They regard themselves as sexual objects when taken advantage of sexually but regular human beings when not taken advantage sexually. They don’t mind when they are taken advantage of sexually and spontaneously. They like others to use their body for sexual relief. These are also individuals that others in society care for them, look after their wellbeing, and protect them. Simple said, they are individuals who enjoy being sexually taken advantage of. They enjoy being sexually taken advantage of for the purpose of others taking care of them or providing for their materialist gain.

Perhaps stated before, if I could influence culture, I would have it that everyone has sex and masturbates together without intercourse. Those who engage in sexual intercourse are more sexually risky. The whole goal is to have amazing sex and sexual experiences without the risk of unwanted pregnancy. I would have this sexual culture be mainstream allowing the encouragement for entertainment and society to see sexuality as something normal. Sex would be a natural part of society and something normal that people on average engage in. The reason for this is to bring about the intimate society. An intimate society uses sexuality to create a sense of being close to each other and caring for each other which contributes to a happier life and more fulfilling life. People can have being horny as a normal human emotion allowing for a greater understanding of human emotions and life satisfactions removing social stigmas and barriers where people get more along with each other. I also believe it opens the possibility for more intimate families to be created while also retaining family values. I think this form of sexuality can improve society. By seeing sexuality as a natural human emotion, it can give a more realistic view of what real humans are and how they should authentically behave without any social or gender stigmas or barriers allowing for a more intimate society where everyone is respected, uses consent and get along better through mutual cohesion and human understanding. I believe both males and females should actively communicate and demonstrate their sexual attraction for each other. I want to consider they should also use safe sexual practices to relieve others of their strong sexual feelings allowing them to return to a state of normalcy and civility where life can carry on without conflict brought by arousal. Ultimately, I want an improved society without barriers utilizing safe sexuality behaviors while seeing sexuality as a normal human behavior and a part of everyday culture.

I want to explore the highly controversial questions in the subjects of sexuality concerning the possible evolution of this culture. I question if safe sexuality should be the next evolution of the culture. Obviously sexuality with intercourse would lead to disaster so I would assume safe sexual practices could be the next evolutionary state of the culture if it were to be influenced without the moral parameters and values established by this culture. I question if this next evolution would have limits or not. If I were to reimagine safe sexuality and culture, if it goes on this crazy path, I question if it should be okay to engage in safe sexual behavior with family, strangers, or individuals of higher status like those in higher occupation positions. It sounds extremely taboo, but I have to question it. Pleasuring a family member, a teacher, a boss, or a stranger for example would be beyond taboo by today's standards. I would obviously be greatly against it. But I have to ask the question. I feel like the evolution of this standard might change over time where perhaps safe sexual practices could become the norm and everyone perhaps contributes to the safe sexual urges and reliefs of others despite how it seems taboo and insane right now. If people were to have intercourse, it would lead to social disorder and conflict so this would obviously lead to negative consequences. The only way this could evolve this way is if the sexual discipline were to be preserved. I think it would be up to those of the future and what they consent to and feel comfortable with. If there is a method in which they develop technologies or tools to prevent pregnancies and human-deformations with 100% accuracy or issues associated with sexual behavior then I suppose sexual practices would be completely normalized and not a human issue anymore. Although it’s a great technology, I would still be against a culture that has uncontrollable sex with everyone without ethical limits. It would essentially eliminating a problem that has been around since humanity first began I assume with sexual barbaric practices. Having this sexual culture or norm probably could be seen as normal and not strange at all through this path of sexual evolution. It’s a good reason to establish the values currently made by this culture and have values to preserve it. Furthermore, I still have to ask the question, what would a world like that be like? What would a world be like where sexuality is supposed limitless due to how normal it is or made to include in a new moral vision used by a large society. Would people be more connected together, more intimate with and towards each other despite their differences, would there be a less social barriers? Would the idea in general for safe sexuality be worth it if proving the outcomes? Would it result in a negative evolutionary effect and consequences? There is no research at the moment that I have come across that could prove what the results would be like for this new strange and crazy idea of society. Perhaps until technology gives a solution for sexuality to be completely safe and have no issues, provided it maintains ethical standards, then I believe the current sexual ethics and values should be a good method to preserve values from evolving into something negative.

I believe morality is culturally defined. It's not something we are born with. Sexuality and arousal is a natural process for reproduction that everyone is born with. I believe we should incorporate this into society and our natural lives and reinvent culture to allow for the harmonious integration of safe sexuality. When I refer to safe sexuality, I mean the safe sexual practices that are cohesive, mutual, consensual, prevents unwanted pregnancies, builds strong families (promotes strong family values), and has the potential to bring community closer together.

As stated previously, another summery for virgin sexualists is that they are highly sexual individuals that prefer to remain virgins yet also engage in sex without intercourse. These are individuals who prefer sex without intercourse. They may have their reasons to remain virgin or to wait for the perfect a most compatible life partner. These individuals may prefer outercourse or masturbation as an alternative to sexual activity. Just like sexualists, they also enjoy nudity and sexuality socially.

Part of me believes taking nudes of oneself can be valuable because you eventually lose the way your body looks over time. It's good to look back at your younger body in appreciation of what you once had. If one takes nudes of themselves, it's obviously best to keep it in a private, secret, and secure place or device nobody but yourself can access. Personally, I wouldn't mind leaking my nudes publicly until I'm at an older age. I just don't care about small things like nudes. I sure I won't be famous or anything like that so doing something like this doesn't bother me. However, if one does leak their nudes it could be used for blackmail so one should choose wisely.

I personally have my phases or behavioral patterns from being high sexual to Asexual and back again. Maybe others can identify their own patterns.

Sexually Idle is the state of being comfortable being aroused, perhaps in a sexually active environment, yet neutral without acting on arousal or being sexually active. A non-formal definition can be the state of being horny, behaving casually and normal, and behaving casually around a sexually activity environment or around sexual elements.

It's my personal belief that friends should reserve the idea to masturbate with each other; especially if they are of the opposite gender. If they want to have sex then that's okay as well as long as it's consensual and with protection; however, I would prioritize the idea of just masturbating. I believe this is what bring friends more close to each other and adds an enormous depth and value to a very close and friends-for-life friendship style.

A Koop is a very close group of friends. A group of friends that spend a lot of time with each other on a daily basis. This could also be considered a ménage. However, it’s a group of friends that allow for each other to share a lot of personal details with each other; a group of friends that act as a family; a group of friends that surpass average friendship barriers, such as allowing for the casual exposure of nudity, intimate relationships, and sexual exploration of each other. The ethics of a koop allows each other to treat each other in a way that resolves problems, overcomes obstacles, and work towards collective solutions for the betterment of the group. A group that is with each other, even if there isn't a reason to doing so.

In this culture we want people to feel encouraged to see sexuality as something nearly unrestricted. It's considered appropriate to be naked with friends or watch your friend naked and become aroused perhaps wanting to masturbate. You can tell them their body turns you on and that you would like to escape for a bit to masturbate. It should be seen as socially acceptable to dismiss yourself to masturbate. To have others tag along to masturbate with you or to tag along to engage in sexual activity is also seen as socially acceptable. Overall, sexual activity is socially acceptable and a valid excuse to dismiss oneself from around others.

Sex beaches are beaches that allow for nudity, sexual activity, and adult entertainment. Sex fountains are places with water where nudity, sexual activity, and adult entertainment is allowed. Sex tourism are tourist destinations and locations that allow for nudity, sexual activity, swinging, sexual education, and adult entertainment.

Sexy time is a time in which you pause from the real world to do intimate things with friends and loved ones. It's also the idea that there is a life style balance. A time when sexy time is okay and appropriate and a time when you need to be focused or centered in reality. There is also the principle of consent, a mutual respect for each other, and agreeing on what explicit activities can be agreed upon. For example, if partners wants to just masturbate then that should be the agreement; unless they feel comfortable doing something else.

In this culture there are no such things as whores. It’s an offensive term that will lead one to be ignored for not being polite.

It's seen as acceptable for individual to casually engage in sexual activity as a common activity. The culture wants to make it so casual that sexualist can even discuss other subjects while masturbating together or engaged in intercourse. For example, two friends or acquaintances talking about work, events, past relationships, and other activities while also masturbating and having intercourse with each other. Overall, this is a culture that sees masturbation, sexual activity, nudity, and sexual interests as a normal and casual way of life. It's considered a normal lifestyle.

The culture prizes organic looks. They don’t recommend plastic surgery. The culture believes that people should prize their organic looks.

Sexualist females learn to love each other. They accept each other faults, imperfections, emotional ups and downs, and grow a love in their community. They help each other out and listen to each other on a deep level. They condition themselves out of the competition-world view for looking the most beautiful, to get the most attention, from being jealous, and having a self-centered perspective of life. Instead, they focus on personal happiness, fulfillment, being around others they love and enjoy, and focus on personal improvement and emotional intelligence and discipline. Because the sexualist culture is the way it is, they will always know there are members that will love them, give them attention, and fill the desires they desire. There will be partners that can fulfill their sexual desires, there are members that can fulfill their emotional desires, members who can be as companions, and members who can help them achieve their goals or help them get what they want (even if it’s useless junk). Overall, The sexual culture wants everyone to have a love for each other regardless of gender where everyone can feel accepted, loved, cared for, given attention, and help fulfil each other’s needs without judgment or condemnation.

Self-improvement

Sexualist share a collective value for self-improvement. The culture emphasizes self-improvement. The purpose of the ethics is that members should master ethical values before entering the culture. The list of ethics is to have a reference in which to reflect the values in themselves so that they can critically think, reflect, and access all the angles in which they can self-improve themselves. Self-improvement in this culture is key to growing, maintaining its level of harmony, and improving the community. Members need to trust each other and build meaningful friendships with each other. Some of the culture’s values is to never stop learning, learn to be honest, learn to critically think, learn to reflecting, and improve yourself every way possible. Overtime, all the self-improvement will lead to a more skilled, mentally sharp, and a better version of oneself.

The sexualist culture expects its member to have ethics. It expects members to be mentally mature and have a great sense of personal sexual-discipline.

The sexualist culture has a philosophy where everyone should be curious to learn about the world form their own perspective. They should be able to understand something and explain I tin their own terms.

The sexualist culture wants members to gain skills, discover their talents, and become experts in their subjects of interest.

The sexualist culture wants all members to have goals and to make doable steps to achieving those goals with realistic small steps. Steps should be able to be broken down further to allow for methods in which to complete a step. Other sexualist members can then help a person achieve their goals by understanding and helping each other. I would encourage members to have agile boards with deadlines in which to achieve goals.

Sexuality and Workplace

Sexualists would like to have their work places accept the sexualist culture and seen as part of mainstream society. Below are some ideas and values I think are worth considering.

I think it would be interesting to have sexualist rooms at a job or in locations so when sexualists get a break or meet up, they can do casual sexual activities or get naked for a bit before going back to work. It would be a good area to casually talk about work related discussions while having a way to relax, relieve stress, and feel good or pleasure.

It would be great to have businesses respect when sexualists get together in an office to relieve themselves. Perhaps they can utilize a Do Not Enter sign.

A sexual idea for businesses could be an absurd idea I call pleasure-set services. These are businesses and business services that incorporate hand jobs, sexual-massages, and non-intercourse services as a casual business service.

Sex Methods

Here are a few ideas to consider when with sexual partners.

With ladies, it’s a good idea to have to make them beg for sex. Males can do this by kissing them, touching them, playing with them, joking with them, then back off for a bit. Then can wait a while then play with them kiss them again and then back off for a bit. Doing this could make an effect where they make a lady feel very wet and horny by repeating the steps and getting more creative every time. One should just be themselves and have fun. If a lady stops getting horny then it's okay. Better luck next time. If one is successful and get her to beg for sex, they'll never get tired and enjoy the steamy experience every time.

Note: Females like guys who can learn to have sex for hours and bring them into an ongoing sexual fantasy. I call this learning the language of sex or being sexually literate.

Entertainment

Culture’s version of Entertainment

Perhaps a new genre of adult films should be established. I call this new genre of entertainment spicy entertainment or spicy-story entertainment. These are movies, animations, games, videos, music, art and expression that feature full adult content but with high quality storytelling and value. Perhaps an example can be movies that may also include the topics of nudism and topics surrounding sexual development and exploration. These are mediums of entertainment that not only allow for uncensored adult entertainment, it also allows for high quality storytelling, art, visuals, and values.

Sexualism is the allowing of casual adult culture into mainstream lifestyle and entertainment. It's where individuals can watch full adult content and casually accept it as part of a social norm. They can also socially have sex or perform sexual acts and sexualist individuals see it as the new normal and a casual activity. Ultimately it's incorporating casual sexuality into mainstream culture and perhaps society. It's a community that accepts nudity and sexuality as a casual and normal part of average daily life and culture. Sexualists also are experts at handling and tolerating sexual behaviors rationally, professionally, and respectfully. They understand how to behave when around stimulating situations. They value the importance of arousal, enjoy the casual feeling of being aroused, and how to be aroused and have sexual discipline.

When it comes to pornography, the culture recognizes not all pornographic material is pornography. An example can be for nudity for scientific purposes or meant to document a journalistic narrative. The culture also recognizes nudist material shouldn’t be seen as pornographic. In this culture what is considered pornographic is any adult material in which purpose is to directly sexually arouse. Not all nudity in videos constitutes as pornography.

Porn addiction

I believe porn needs to have a more strict age gate and should have more labels and warnings. I believe porn should not be banned. I believe it’s part of adult culture. If it's banned then it more-then-likely will go underground; like prohibition in the 1900s, and becomes a large underground industry. I believe underage individuals should not have access to this material until a certain age. I believe all adult sites and content should continue to have age-gates. Perhaps sites should require pictures of physical IDs. I believe after an age-gate, adult sites should have another labels talking about how all adult content can be harmful to children. It should tell the audience that adult content is fantasy, it's forbidden for minors, it's not a usual method for making money because you can lose oportunities du to this profession, and the adult material is only intended for individuals of intended ages and mental maturity. I also think there should be addiction warnings and a help number if a person is addicted or has questions to ask. Warning or notices/ads should address or promote life balance, self-discipline, personal responsibility, making positive life decisions, and if they are addicted they should admit and confront their addiction and explore the reason for their addiction (whether it's family, insecurities, trauma, or desire for endorphins due to boredom). In conclusion, I believe porn is nothing but fantasy and entertainment. I think it’s okay to watch once in a while as long as people are responsible for their lives and stay in touch with real people and real relationships.

I believe people addicted to sex and porn need more balance, self-discipline, need to be responsible for their lives, need to improve their lives by making better decisions, and understand that porn is a fantasy and is not real. It is not a good choice to make money as it prevents many oportunities.

Society

Type of community

A lot of this is a summary of previous information with a few minor details. There are two types of sexualists: conservative and hedonistic. Conservative can be more focused on the nonsexual side of culture where hedonist is open to the various forms of sexual interests. Both types can coexist with each other. Members can change between the two depending on their behaviors. The sexualist society is a swinger-friendly society. It’s a nudist friendly society. It's nudist-friendly depending on establishment or location. Nudism has a formal appeal and expectation where nude-enthusiasts utilize towels, extreme hygiene, and grooming body hair. Grooming is essential as it makes one's body more socially appealing and socially acceptable. There is a cultural value that if you are horny, you should masturbate and return to normal. If you're with a partner, with their consent, it's okay to have them sexually relieve you if you're horny. You are also expected in this community to have the personal values to clean up after yourself. If you ejaculate in the bathroom and miss the toilet, you are expected to clean up after yourself. Jobs and other locations might have unisex bathrooms. Genderism is not relevant in this society. Everyone is seen as a human person with similarities and respected differences. Jobs may have sex rooms for sexualists. It's believed to use these sex rooms at work to help others relieve their horniness and get back to work. Sex rooms are as relevant as gyms at work. Jobs can have sex-parties and swinger-partys for sexualists after work. These events are non-mandatory and are targeted for sexualist individuals. Nonswingers can dress up in lingerie if they want and watch. Many sexualist formal parties have sex party's afterwards. There is always respect for relationships and family. Young individuals cannot stay for sex-parties unless of consenting age. Young teenagers surrounding a selective age can have their own sex parties where they can explore, learn, and develop good sexual habits. It’s mainly a poly-sexual culture but when a family is established, it's encouraged to become monogamous due to family responsibilities. There is a culture of mutual respect and appreciation. There is a respect for all forms of sexuality, preferences, interests, and bdsm roles. Everyone are self-curious and asks about the sexuality style of others. Everyone respects each other's sexual preferences or if they want to be virginist and celibate. Naturally this culture think individuals are sexual until you tell others you are celibate. Then they should apologize and show an alternate form of respect where touching and intimate behavior is reserved or restricted. Within the sexualist culture, the population follows cultural sexual values like safe sexuality to prevent pregnancies. The values are very important to follow and it's believed that if followed correctly there won't be any undesired pregnancies. Continuing, this society allows for curiosity and to want to naturally know more about others perhaps on a deeper level. It's also a society that accepts, tolerates, respects femboys, traps, tomboy, trans, pans, androgynous individuals, and other kinds of personal preferences. Even if you're not into the same gender, you’re still open to accepting and embracing these individuals. In addition, being intimately close, light touching, hugs, and cuddling is a normal cultural value. There is the expectation that anyone can walk up to you and sit in your lap or wrap their arms around you if the mood feels right and you don't look too intimidating or are too intimidated. In this intimate society, environment mood is important and observing body language and expressions to get a feel of another's reaction and emotions are important. It’s a very reactionary, behavior observing, and mood-reading society. If people feel something is not right with you then they won't mess with you. The vision of people in this society is never to judge first. Everyone is expected to be intelligent, critical thinking, and having personal goals. If a large flamboyant femboy or man-child sits in your lap, your first reaction is to not act with hostility or judge the person and instead to learn more about this person through simple conversation. People are expected to be harmless (unless if there is a situation that demands a person to be confrontive but even then it would be about strategy and outcome). If by chance a person is very angry and someone wraps their arm around them or sits in their lap, there is no instant violent reaction or lashing out in hostility. Instead, due to an expected personalized sense of ethical values (personal obligation to maintain harmony in society), the person will politely unwrap themselves and walk away or tell another they are angry then excuse themselves. The same reaction would be for both genders. If a guy were to lay his head on a random lady's lap, she wouldn't just rudely walk away or act with hostility. She would instead talk with them. If a lady did that with a guy, the guy should start talking with them or ignore them. The culture should have a culture or expectation of the public trust and expectation to maintain social harmony. Continuing, reading body language, micro-expressions, emotional or verbal hints, and overall behavior and mood is widely observed in this community. Society expects everyone to share the common value to preserve the harmony in the community and to not react out of violence or hostility. If violence happens, people don't associate with the ones who don't meet social expectation until they learn the community’s value. Everyone looks out for each other, respects each other, respects their interests, and treats each other well; even in sexual activities. Society is also accepting of public bdsm and other seemingly degenerate behaviors. People want each other to feel happy and satisfied. It's a community that believes everything has a resolution, solution, can find a way to make a deal, or meet-in-the-middle. On more extreme circumstances, the community uses a code-word that is like calling for help. It's a code-word that acts like a social emergency call and breaks any role or bdsm values. People take this word extremely seriously so it's only used for emergencies. If anyone hears it in society, they will run immediately to help. Moving on, out of respect people kiss on the cheek. Kissing on the lips are also okay if it's consensual but is aimed more at relationships in this culture. Furthermore, mentally ill, creepy people, stalkers, and psychotic or sociopathic perverts or individuals are excluded from the community because they are a large security risk from this form of society. It might also be a challenge for a person who has difficulty reading body language and expression to integrate into this form of intimate society. Nevertheless, people are expected to use sexuality as a way to unite the community and keep the community intimate. It wants a community and society where everyone can be trusted and have the expectation to do the right thing. People are expected to be smart, logical, critical thinking, respectful to each other (unless by bdsm roles), preserves the harmony in society, be honest, be truthful, have sexual discipline, and utilize a personal sense of ethics that demonstrates a personal desire for goodwill and cooperation with others. These are some ideas on the values of the sexualist society.

In my own culture, sexuality would have its own place in society. Perhaps a place of its own in a city, like a red light district. It would be a special place in a city where individuals under a sexual lifestyle can live the way they want and form their own intimate communities. If children were to be brought up in these communities, they would have no choice but to endure and accept the adult nature of this lifestyle if it’s ever displayed in public. It's unfortunate but there should also be unique moral values that can be taught in such an adult environment. Children would have to be taught that their behaviors are what happens when adults play with each other or when in their not-normal mode. Children can be told this isn't a place for children and it's for adults. It different from normal society. Children would most likely be conditioned to accept this reality so their morals I would assume would be different from the non-adult or sexualist lifestyle. As long as they know about this and learn to accept both realities of the adult world and the considerable average world, I believe they shouldn't have a problem transitioning from both realities. Nevertheless, I believe children shouldn't see this adult version of society and should be brought up with the highest moral values in society if possible. If they are brought up in adult-centered areas, then they should be given narratives to help them understand the nature of the adult world and how it’s not for children and it’s something to be ignored. When I was in Brazil, I grew up exposed to adult culture and saw it as something only certain adults did. Everyone kept telling me it’s something I wouldn’t understand until I was older so I went through life making fun of it and ignoring it. Perhaps this can be the same view used for children raised in this environment.

A different idea I came up with is the idea of a poly-society or poly-social society which is a society that has sex with everyone when they feel horny. As stated many times previously, there is conservative and hedonist. Conservative is commonly individuals nude and masturbating together. Everyone is polyamorous in the matter that they do it with everyone. If they are married, their partner must agree for one to be a swinger to participate in this form of society. Poly individuals are free to be married to more than one person but this could causes drama and confusion. Poly relationships require a new behavioral and marital dynamic if they were to be successful. Nevertheless, it’s a sexually free society and marriage style. Spouses enjoy hearing a person's sexual stories throughout the day with others. Sex is of little relevance to importance as so much the more value is placed on happiness. Individuals of this society enjoy sharing partners and see sex as a casual and normal part of life. People help each other as if it's a courtesy to get rid of their horniness. It's good to ask a person if they are conservative which limits to no intercourse but instead outercourse which is seen equally pleasing as it brings another happiness.

I think both males and females in society should desire sex and the emotional value behind sex. The current reality of the culture of sex today is different than what I would perhaps desire or fantasize it to be. If it was my way, both males and females would be balanced at getting the values they want out of a sexually discipline society, All individuals would enjoy the arousal and the performance of outercourse and safe consensual sexual playful behavior; or intercourse if society would desire a more sexually active model. Then there would be the intimate bond as individuals desire to be close friends, where a shared social value of love and intimacy is shared among a society, or dedicated lovers. Perhaps in my crazy fantasy idea, everyone should have arousing fun and befriend and unite with each other in ways unseen and unimaged in today world. Ultimately, I want a community or society that caters to everyone's ethical and consensual sexual fantasies while also balancing the emotional needs of being intimate and friends so that individuals can transform society to become a deeply intimate, loving, and greatly united community or society.

The Sexualist Community respects all values of everyone. They accept religion but controversially with the acception of sexuality or the sexual sins of the body. It's a belief that sexuality is meant to be included in the average human everyday experience. It is not a Marxist-tribalist tribe and it is not a political-driven ideology. It desires an authentic community. It also wishes to be a respected community with its own set of traditions, culture, philosophies, behaviors, and values.

Preservation

To prevent a future Sodom and Gomorrah, I believe there should be static unchangeable sexual principles. I also believe all members should be greatly educated and have a self-desire for ethics and to be role models for others when part of a sexual culture. It's important that they can critically think and understand the reasons for sexual principles. If they cannot uphold sexual principles then they should not be part of this culture.

Adult culture should seek, be on the lookout, or remove sociopathic and psychopathic individuals from adult culture because it's these individuals who are believed to tie or evolve sexuality into extremely demoralizing, questionably ethical, and violent and disturbing narratives. These individuals are likely to have, develop, or find arousal to violent and disturbing behaviors which could lead to self-harm or the harm of others. I believe sexuality should be a culture of safety, confidence, and without fear.

I feel like sociopaths and psychopaths have a link between nudity, sexuality, and violence, gore, and extreme depravity. I heavily disagree with this any unethical behaviors and actions that harm others and greatly harms oneself. If members express or develop anything strange relating to sociopathic and psychopathic behaviors then they should leave the community.

I believe nudity and sexuality should have an innocent or raw human feel. I believe there should be a raw-human appreciation. I believe nudity and sexuality should be used to unite people, make people authentic, make society and communities more intimate, and overall make society more free and liberating.

Substance and drug abuse is considered a risk to the culture. Sexualism doesn’t mind drinking and partying. However, the sexualist culture encourages members to stay away from addictive and harmful substances. Dependency on harmful or addictive drugs causes people to behave irrationally and lead to negative outcomes. This is not part of the sexualist culture.

Friendships

Friendships are different in this culture compared to outside the culture. In this culture members do a lot of things together. As stated previously, members are collective with each other and individualistic when alone. Members doing things together are always considerate of each other. Members believe being together builds value and a deeper relationship. They also like to be in large groups as if a small classroom of individuals. New or unfamiliar members are always individuals of interest because members always want to learn everything about each other. One can consider friendships are comparable to classrooms because of the kinds of collective friendship interactions that form. When members of this culture becomes friends, they desire to be friends for life. If they don’t see someone for a long time, this is okay. They never forget anyone and pick right back up when they reunite. This culture wants to build friendships that are mixed in gender and where individuals are open to be themselves and not judged. It’s a culture where it’s okay to not be perfect and it’s okay to make mistakes. Everyone enjoys the various characteristics of having a diverse group of friends with various unique interests. Friends in this culture care for each other, maintain the harmony and peace, and can express themselves authentically and honestly. If something goes wrong, they don’t take things seriously and always look for a positive solution. Everyone recognizes that nobody is perfect and everyone wants to have a level of respect.

When you meet someone for the first time, the etiquettes that should be shown is to be polite and kind and as you get used to each other, you can behave authentically as you would if you were to behave as your authentic self in your room. Everyone learns to adopt to the personality of others. The culture desires everyone to be themselves and develop and display their authentic personality. Individuals in this culture have thick skin so they aren’t so sensitive which allows everyone to be honest and to be playful with each other. Everyone does their part to make light of serious situations and find strategies to unite others and keep them together as a unit. The culture like the idea that members are always surrounded by other friends. The culture thinks having members together builds bonds and life-long memories. There might be times where members desire to have their privacy and this is respected.

Sexualist friendships use friendships for members to find other who they can express interest in. The philosophy is that having others as friends, you discover how people truly and authentically are before you can seek dating interest in them. Members encourage other to date each other and have fun times with each other, even sexually.

Friendships in this culture are okay with being naked around each other, pleasuring each other, and exploring sexuality with each other. Sexuality and adult culture is a normal value in this culture.

Friendships in this culture are not perfect, but they do their best to keep the peace. If there is conflict, they leave the area to think and reflect. The rule is to leave for ten minutes before coming back with a more calm conscious. The culture does it’s best to not yell at each other and instead, encouraged to express ones anger and frustration through silence and ignoring others. Members are okay with sharing the same space while being angry with others. This silent anger is called passive aggression and if another member is not talking or interacting with someone, they could be angry to which another should sit down and talk with them in a sincere manner, be honest, and come up with solutions. Individuals should always self-reflect on their own mistakes and behaviors and find areas where they can discover or expose truths about themselves and find ways to practice to improve themselves. If one finds it hard to express themselves they can also write letters to express how they feel to others. The culture believes being honest and interacting with others and learning ways to adapt, understand, and get-used-to others and different personality types allows for ways members can improve relationships with other members.

In this culture friends want to be the closest, trust worthy, and most warm individuals in one’s life. Friends can be considered an extension of oneself. Once a sexualist friendship bond is established, mentioning a friendship becomes muted. Sexualist friendship are expected to be something that doesn’t need to be mentioned. People stay around each other, visit each other, and share the same space, even if there’s no reason. Sexualists are not bothered when other come over, stop by, or appear randomly. They can even stop by while one is having steamy activities and one wouldn’t mind or care. There’s no need for privacy around other sexualists; every member accepts each other as being human and behaving in ways that suits the human desires. A person shouldn’t be afraid to be human with human desires or to be themselves and indulge in things they like or develop a passion for. Furthermore, once a friend, always a friend. One is expected to get used to having others around and get used to and adopt to each other’s behaviors. Again, individuals who are considered creepy, very toxic, not trustworthy, or unpleasant to have around do not fit the culture’s characteristics as everyone is expected to use ethics to produce the kind of values, friendly interactions, harmonious environments, and liberating culture the sexualist culture desires. Once one is a friend, they hang around each other out of cultural value, personal value, and a sense of collective or undefined shared deeper values. Deeper values that can be such as everyone contributes to making value and good memories in each other’s lives. Perhaps undefined shared deeper values such as contributing to one’s necessity to share life with others or fulfill ones material desires. People don’t need a reason or narrative to not hang around another, they should be welcomed to show up whenever they want. A sexualists home is like a home for everyone else. Everyone is expected to be trust worthy, take care of themselves, help each other out, and overall behave as if everyone were family. This trust worthy and family like bond is what it means to be a ménage. The bond where everyone understands and knows each other on a deep level where they learn to get along with them and share life with each other. They share life with each other, even if one has a family. They become an extension of one’s family due to their level of trust and closeness. They will also respect if one desires to have distance. Nevertheless, friendships are a big part of the sexualist culture and a way to keep members happy and united.

I came up with the acronym BFFB which means best friends forever with benefits. I think everyone in this culture should be great friends. I think they should form closer circles of people that are best friends for eternity.

Overall, having deep and intimate friends in sexualist culture should mean one has intimate friends for life and can share life with a group of individuals that can help provide value and meaning in one’s life.

Relationships

Relationships are interesting in this culture. They are not the same as outside the culture. The philosophy of this culture is to have members becomes deep and sexual friends where everyone learns about each other and knows each other on an extremely deep and authentic level where members recognize who they can see themselves living with for the rest of their lives. Having the ability to learn everyone authentic behaviors as friends allows individuals to truly know a person. One can learn about one’s interests, goals, and even sexual interests. One might be polyamorous which could result in wanting to engage in a relationship with multiple partners. This is also okay and widely accepted.

Sexualists take their time to get to know each other. It might be six months or a year or two before they choose a partner or a new partner for dating. When a sexualist asks to date someone, it commonly means one sees themselves being compatible, sharing interests, and having many desired requirements or satisfactions for one to spend the rest of their life with. It means they have observed every side to them and authentically enjoy being with that partner. It’s not a status of happiness to make others jealous, it’s not a status of showing off. It’s a deep decision that is well thought out and critically planned. Commonly after dating members get married and it’s encouraged to have children. After one is married members of the culture can give some space for families. The culture greatly encourages family values and growth. If a family are swingers or desires to continue be deeply involved with other sexualists, this is also encouraged. Sexualists can be an extension of one’s family into an even greater family or collective.

In sexualism all members have the ability to make friends, find dating partner and the ability to create a family. Even the undesired males can make friends and form dates. They can be part of a monogamous or polyamorous relationship. This culture supports a method in which members that would otherwise be unattractive or ignored by average society can find life-long partners and fulfill relationships goals that can make them happy and bring fulfillment in their lives. They can even choose to be pets or slaves in a relationship if they enjoy BDSM culture. Every unattractive and undesirable member has a place in this culture where they can find way to fulfill their any need whether sexual, emotional, a desire to be noticed, a desire for attention, or a desire to find a partner and create a family.

Now that I’ve addressed how the culture envisions relationships utilizing its sexualist cultural method, I will list bellow other ideas, values, information, and references, associated with sexualist relationships bellow.

Swingers are a normal part of this culture. These are couples in a relationship that agree to have an open relationship where they can have as much sex with anyone anytime they want yet remain a level of loyalty to their married partner. Before a person becomes a couple, they need to tell other members in the community that this is their sexual interest. In this community, being a swinger is perfectly acceptable. The community encourages that swinger members should be with other swinger members. Before anyone goes into dating they should know the sexual interest or possibilities of interest of the person they are interested in. Not doing this can ruin a relationship. One should be honest when it comes to one’s sexual interest. Swingers might not be compatible with monogamous individuals or limited polyamorous individuals (limited polyamorous are relationships with typically three or four individuals). Therefore members should keep in mind to learn of the sexual interests of others before entering a relationship.

As the saying goes, if a person cheats, and there is evidence, the relationship automatically allows for a swinger relationship. It is a result of a partner not being honest about themselves and their sexual interests. Monogamists and limited polyamorists are not compatible with individuals who are open or desire swinging.

Through the culture’s sexual culture, the community already behaves in an intimate relationship as members already are like boyfriends and girlfriends. Sexual and intimate behaviors are the casual norms in this culture. Any member can sit in another’s lap, rest their head on another’s lap, or rest alongside each other. These are examples of the intimate behaviors in this culture where members are unafraid of violent backlash, other becoming immediately angry, or being immediately disgusted. This is a usual reaction. Gay and straight individuals can hold on to each other, hug, and think nothing of intimate touching and clinging of others.

Here’s an interesting question. Could it be that every interaction or relationship with a guy and girl has a gender barrier where every action they do has their barrier or conflicting idea in the back of their mind? Could it be that it’s not until something sexual happens that both open up getting rid of this barrier? Perhaps as if sex equalizes them or destroys the level of privacy or grows the level of intimacy around them? I feel like doing something sexual or intimate dissolves and gets rid of this barrier and strengthens relationships. I personally believe intercourse is not always right. I feel as if one gets naked, skinny dips, shower, or masturbates with their friend of the opposite gender, they can tear down this barrier and be open to very long lasting intimate interaction behaviors and possibilities as very open and close friends.

It’s important that married couples in this culture needs to agree to be swingers. If they are swingers, they can have as much sex as they want with other swingers or hedonist individuals or bachelor swingers. The common custom of the culture is for couples to have sex around other sexualists. People can watch as they make love. Sex is a common thing in this culture. There is no partner swap unless it has been thought and discussed about for a long time and agreed by all parties of a relationship.

When it comes to nudity, sexualists thinks it’s important that another sees another naked as a matter to retain sexual interest in a potential dating partner. This is important because a person could end up seeing the same body for the rest of their life as a life-partner. It’s also important to see if another is sexually compatible so it’s not a surprise if one is a monogamous, polyamorous, or a swinger.

Here are a few types of relationships:

Monogamous - a single relationship with a single significant other (also called a traditional relationship). Polyamorous - a relationship with multiple people (Open Polyamorous relationship means there can be many members or a dynamic of members coming and going).
Limited Polyamorous - A relationship with three or four members.
polyamorous - A multi-person relationsip.
Swinger - a person who swaps partners (Also called swinger couples). A person who might be in a relationship or married but is allowed to have open and free sex.
Bachelor or bachelorette swinger – An individual who is single who has sex with everyone or other swingers. They can also be called Hedonist bachelors or bachelorettes, lewdies, sluts, or slooths.
Tri-poly MMF is: male + male + female relationships. Tri-poly MFF is: male + female + female relationships. These relationships typically involve three or four individuals. One of the individuals is bi-sexual with a girlfriend or a boyfriend extension. Any trans individuals can be trans M or trans F or considered by their biological gender. These are also named Tri-polygamist, Tri-polyamory, or limited polyamorous relationships.

Couples and Sexualism

Married couples and relationship couples are widely respected in this sexual culture. When one choses to engage in dating is when others in this culture should create some distance to members to give some space to let others know they respect their relationship. Depending on the relationship type will allow if others should engage in sexual activities with that person. Once a person starts dating, they should be considered off limits in respect to their dating partners.

As stated previously about relationships, people should introduce their interests when they meet potential partners for the first time. They should let them know if they're monogamous, polyamorous, limited polyamorous, are swingers, or allow for swinging. They should be honest and should be with the person or people they are compatible with who have similar interests. If they want swinging, they need to find a person who is okay with swinging before the relationship starts. Once a person starts dating or becomes a couple, they should know everything about their partner.

Any sexualist party or festivity should have a warning or preawareness of any sexual activity that could happen or might go on. If they go to a party and there is to be sexual activity or adult elements, they have to understand what is it they are they comfortable with and what are their agreed hard limits before they go. If sexual elements are to occur, no children are allowed. Couples have to discuss and agree to adult things, elements, consensual activities and limits. In sexual events in parties it's common to see couples engage in intercourse with each other surrounded by others. By this I mean couples and married partners typically have sex with their partner rather than having sexual activities with others. They enjoy having sex surrounding the presence of other individuals having sex around them. The culture encourages couples and married couples to remain loyal to each other. It also encourages to enjoy watching others around them have sex to help stimulate their sexual activities. Moreover, in a sexual party, monogamists should only participate in sexual activities with their partners unless they agree on other circumstances. If they are poly they should only do it with their polyamorous partners unless they agree otherwise. Only if they are swingers and it's been thoroughly discussed and agreed upon with their partner is when they should allow swinging in their relationship. Couples deciding to try swinging should have massive caution because this can ruin or severely impact a relationship. New swingers should take it step by step to ensure for the first time if their partner is comfortable, mentally prepared, and okay with doing things with their partner's consent. They should ask their partner if they should continue on to do penetrative activities and intercourse. The reason for all these consensual rules and agreements is to protect one's relationship and overall future family values. Sexualism greatly desires a preservation and protection of families and family values. Furthermore, if everything is conducted right and with caution then it mitigates conflicts, dramas, and potential relationship disasters. If done right, people can have sexy time with their partners in the company of friends, other couples, and sexualist members and have a steamy and great time. This can also be done with or without sharing partners, depending on what's agreed upon and what is comfortable within one's relationship. This is a culture that desires long lasting marriages and relationships where families can grow in a positive direction.

This culture primarily surrounds traditional marriages, but also accepts polygamy and same sex marriages. It encourages the traditional marriage and traditional family structure.

Family

Protection of Family Values

In this culture there is a huge emphasis on family values and positive family development. It’s a couple’s choice to remain involved with the sexual culture. If they choose to remain active and participate in the culture, then members in the culture want to add value to the family of others by helping others and playing a positive role in one’s family.

The culture does it’s best to keep children away from sexual activities or spaces and events that allow for sexual activities. They do this so that children do not replicate the actions of adults. Children would not understand why adults participate in this behavior until they grow older. Teenagers are also to keep sexual activities away from children. The culture’s values is that children should always be protected and their innocence protected.

Controversially, step families or families that adopt siblings are allowed to engage in sexual activities when they reach consensual adult age. Teenagers who are not blood related are also allowed to engage in sexual activities with each other. If they get pregnant, then culture’s customs have it that they should be married to each other. It’s important that sexually active teenagers get checked and utilize the practices by the culture to prevent pregnancies.

Controversially and further iterating on the values already mentioned, sexualists don't care if their teenagers are having sex openly around the house or in plain sight. It matters as long they are not having sex in front of children. They should be asked to have sex in private. As already mentioned, sex and nudity is a normal way of life to sexualists. As long as individuals in this culture have ethics, know their boundaries, and that if a person gets pregnant, they will be married to that partner and married for life. If it's with multiple partners, they will be married to the child where the majority of the genes come from. If there are mixed children from multiple partners then it will be a polyamorous marriage. Same-sex partners doesn’t matter. All sexualists respect sexual preferences and interests of others, including their teenagers. Having teenagers understand that if they get an individual pregnant, they are to be married. These risks is the main condition for allowing them to be this way around the house. Parents let their teens know they are responsible for their actions and ask for their teens to choose sexual partners wisely otherwise they could end up marrying them for life at a young age. Parents should not get involved in a teens relationship unless to give advice and also should hint at encouraging them to wait to have sex until they are of adult age. Controversially, if a family member gets turned on by their teens, they are allowed to fantasize and relieve themselves to get back to normal. They should be self-disciplined, ethical, and mature enough to know it is fantasy meant for stimulation and should never become a reality. If a teenager gets attracted to an adult, an adult should appreciate the interest but always decline. It is forbidden for mature adults to have sex with teenagers. Adults should be appreciative of their interest to not demean their self-esteem and self-image. Adults should encourage teenagers to have their fantasies but ensure they know it’s a relationship that is strictly forbidden; and for a good reason. It is forbidden because teenagers are not fully mature. Their minds, bodies, and hormones are still in development. They are still like a child and still have a sense of innocence and room to grow and develop themselves as an individual with individual interests. Their mind will go through changes and when they mature, they will have a greater understanding of themselves and what they want in life and in a life-partner. Moreover, it is extremely forbidden to have sex with family members. Family and sex do not mix. Children and sex do not mix. Again, sex should never be around children. Children are considered children until they are the age of puberty. In the culture, once they reach puberty age, they are considered teenagers (or preteenagers before reaching full teenagers). Teenagers going through a hormonal phase are allowed to engage sexually with other teenagers. As stated before, if they get pregnant, they are to be married. They are considered immature adults until they reach the rational mental maturity age of 25. Note that I mentioned rational mental maturity because at the age of 25 both genders should be rationally capable comprehending logic and reason as this part of their brain should be fully developed. After they reach rational mental maturity, they are considered mature adults. After the age of 18 is when they are allowed to engage in sexual behaviors with consenting adults (10 years older or 10 years younger rule). They can engage with sexual activities with adults except for with other family members because it is forbidden due to birth defects and genetic problems. Foster and step families are allowed to engage in sexual behaviors within the family because they are not blood related; however, it still depends on the agreement of one’s married partner because this would qualify as swinging. Controversially, the earliest and original idea was as soon as a person developed puberty is when they are old enough for sexual relations but to protect teens and their innocents and to make functional families, it's not this way. The premise of this controversial idea is that if one is old enough to have a hormonal phase, they are old enough for intercourse, but because of strong family values and a desire to promote functional families with mature adults, it’s changed to this new vision. It’s my belief that teenagers are more likely to not make the mature and improved family structure I think this culture would like to see and encourage. Moreover family sex is strictly forbidden unless it's step families. Anyone who has family sex is no longer a sexualist and part of sexualism. Incest culture especially involving intercourse is strictly forbidden. As stated previously this leads to genetic problems. In this culture, sensual grinding for pleasure is considered masturbation. If a family masturbates another it is also forbidden but not as dire and extreme as intercourse. Both should be forbidden because masturbation can evolve into intercourse which is extremely forbidden. A sexualist who breaks this sacred rule is called an exiled-sexualist or incesters and can no longer interact sexually with other sexualists or be invited to sexualist events.

This sexual culture desires the preservation, protection, positive growth, and security of families and family values. It also advocates the protection and preservation of innocence for children. Children are to be protected and their innocence should also be valued and protected. As stated earlier, there are values in sexualism where family and children do not mix with sexuality. Step families that are non-blood related are questionable. Nudity in family depends on one's own family culture. Age of consent is heavily emphasized. Also, commonly the ten year rule surrounding one's age in regards to dating is encouraged. If one does not want to use the 10 years rule then it’s acceptable because the culture accepts a culture of sugar mamas and sugar daddys desiring older or younger individuals to have as life-companions or trophy companionships.

A strange and absurd idea I came up with is Sexualist Marriage Contracts- this is a marriage contract for polyamorous sexualists individuals that lasts 10 to 20 years. This allows sexualists to keep looking for new partners and to have as many children as they want. Their children can come visit their contract partners whenever they want. Personal assets belong to their original owners so nobody gets assets that already have claims. Any assets shared are debated to who gets to keep them so when partners buy something, they have to decide who it belongs to. Children are shared with their parental partners. It can also be a child’s choice to meet and stay with any other unrelated parents.

Teens

Teenagers are unique topic to the sexualist culture. Sexualist families allow teenagers to practice sexuality openly as long as it’s not around children. Teens are encouraged to explore themselves sexually around others their age. If they get pregnant then the culture declares them to be married couples. Teenagers are responsible for their actions and are encouraged to improve themselves, obtain life skills, become balanced, and learn as much as they can about how the real-world works.

Sexualists want to instill values that will allow their offsprings to be successful in life. The can teach the ethical values they have learned in life and have teenagers learn and utilize them. Sexualsists want their teenagers to be critical thinkers and to challenge their parents intellectually. Having teenagers ask questions allows parents to also learn more while helping teenagers learn more.

Sexualists want their teenagers to be financially intelligent and encourage to explore the world of entrepreneurship. They might give teens challenges where they give them money and try to find ways to multiply it. They might give them temporary positions in their businesses so that they can get real-world skills. Sexualist encourage teenagers to be curious, ask questions, and to always keep learning and obtaining new skills and discovering talents.

Teenagers cannot participate in the culture until they are 18. Until then they are told how to have safe sex and the ethics of protecting their sexual partners. At the age of puberty they are explained their body is going through changes and that they will soon develop interests and sexual urges. This is when they are taught about sexual-discipline and the sexual rules of respect, consent, and consideration. They are also told that it’s a critical age of their life and that they are now responsible young adults and are expected to make greater decisions in life. Sexualists should then explain the culture their parents are a part of and the values it has. This is when one’s teenager is presented with a critical question. Do they want to be part of sexualism or do they want to be part of the regular world. If they choose to be part of the regular world then they won’t be part of the events and cultures belonging to sexualism. If they agree to be a part of the sexualist culture then they should welcome them to taking their first steps into adulthood and then explain to them about sexual decisions they can make. If they find themselves interest in a friend and they are aroused them, they can invite them home and have sex anywhere and anytime they want as part of the culture as long as it’s away from children. Although they can have sex in plain sight, they should also be encouraged to have sex in private so they aren’t too much of a disturbance. They also don’t have to wear clothes if they don’t want to and partake in the freedoms sexualism offers, like skinny dipping, looking at mature online materials, and casually masturbating without a need for privacy. Nevertheless, while living under a parent, one still abides by household rules and orders out of respect. The use and learning of ethics and personal improvements are also other values that are taught and encouraged. Furthermore, this culture comes at a risk. If they have sex and their partner becomes pregnant, they have to marry that partner. The parents will explain and show them how to protect themselves, how to have safe sex, and how to protect their partner form unwanted pregnancies. It’s up to them to use what they have learned and apply it. If they do not want to participate in the sexualist culture, then this is fine as well; however, if they made someone pregnant they will still provide for the needs of the child of the person they made pregnant. If they get nobody pregnant and are not part of the sexualist culture, they are free to stay as family but won’t continue to be part of the culture until they change their mind. If they are part of the culture, if they don’t have sex or don’t pursue any sexual interests, or don’t get anyone pregnant then they can wait until they are older where they can explore the world of sexualism, the full extent of sexualist culture, and explore the values of the sexualist community.

Child Development

Sexual development

Children are the most protected individual in relation to this culture. They are to be protected from witnessing or being involved in any matter around sexuality. Children should have normal lives where parents provide the needs so that they can grow and become fully developed adults.

Because for cultural reasons, children should not see adults engaged in sexual activity. If they were to see adults to be engaged in sexual activity, they can be told they are having adult playtime and that adults like to play rough with each other. They can be told that adults have a sexual side that makes them not adults at that moment. They can be told that adults play with each other in a way that children won’t understand until they grow older. They can be told not all adults are the same and some are interested in different things and that some adults like to experience a certain kind of playtime that not all adults are interested in and playtime that is not meant for children to see. If more older kids were to see adults engaged in sexual activity, they would probably know what the adults are doing (from an immature mindset not knowing the full cognitive extent due to the limited cognitive experience of premature developmental mental cognitive abilities) and they should be told it's something only adults do, certain adults do who are interested in that kind of stuff, and something they should not pay attention to it. They should also be told it's something they will understand later when they grow older. They should be encouraged to make light of the situation or make fun of it. I think they can also look at it as a violation of privacy and tell them to get a room. They should acknowledge what's going on, respect it, and ignore it. They shouldn’t take it too personally.

When kids become young adults, they should be taught about how sexuality works and how they are responsible for their actions and the consequences of their decisions. They should be told to respect sexuality and that they will also go through changes where a certain emotion and hormonal feeling could be hard to avoid. They might even want to experiment and try new things and should be taught of the consequences of sexual activity. They should also learn about consent, how genders are different, and how to protect themselves sexually. In my opinion guys should make as many female friends as they can and females should make as many male friends as they can and if things get sexually arousing, they should have a culture where they masturbate with each other first before considering moving on to engaging in sexual activity involving intercourse. I believe there should be a progression (or an agreeable progression) where things build up to be mutually agreed and to evolve into safe intercourse. All sexual partners should have concern for the safety, protection, and consequence of their partner. I would also encourage intercourse to be saved for marriages so that it can be special and where sex can be a binding marriage experience. However, it should be up the individuals to decide if they want to have intercourse or not; nevertheless, the culture of incremental process for sexuality (mutual agreement for sexuality) I believe is essential. I believe perhaps then we can build a moral cultural foundation where if one wants to have sexual fun, they can engage in sexual activity without intercourse which I believe strengthens life-long friendships, understanding of gender differences, positive sexual development and personal self-image development.

I believe minors should not interact sexually with adults. I think it's not right and is illegal. I had one major controversial thought cross my mind although. Should underage ladies be allowed to grind? Grinding is when they slide themselves or grind sensitive regions of their body for sexual stimulation. It seems these could be usual behaviors when puberty is reached and the developmental stages of stimulation, sexual curiosity, and experimentation appears in young female individuals. What if grinding was a way to help them develop positive sexual habits? Habits such as body imaging, dissociation with sexuality and shame, self-acceptance, and respect for their bodies and their ability to have children (or being the most important part of life as gatekeeper of the human species). Could grinding help them not be shy and to develop positive self-esteem? What if society developed a tolerance for sexuality to the point it didn't mean anything where they taught ever member positive sexual development, positive sexual habits, sexual-discipline, respect, and tolerance, especially with a changing hormonal growth and maturation. What if grinding was a way to teach ladies to accept themselves, accept their body, respect sexuality, and embrace the human nature of sexuality and procreation? Could grinding be a way to develop positive sexual behaviors? Perhaps this topic is far too extreme or controversial, but I keep wondering if this idea could lead to positive outcomes. Perhaps it could lead to positive methods to help individuals or lead to positive sexual development without resulting in extreme sexual behaviors or consequences. I wonder if this could be a positive way to develop positive sexual habits while not having any dramatic psychological effects. I think it’s a highly controversial topic. Perhaps it’s not worth considering. There is also the chance it could lead to more undesired behaviors and outcomes so I'll just raise this controversial and absurd issue and move on.

I think children should understand in this culture adults have two sides. A normal side and a horny side. Like how a person turns into a werewolf in a story. People don't have too much control of their horny side at first so they have to learn to control themselves.

When I was living in Brazil I grew up with adult culture and thought nothing of it. In my mind sexual stuff was something some adults enjoyed. I often made fun of it and didn’t think anything of it. Perhaps mainstream culture hiding this from children doesn’t really impact them when they are brought up with digestible realities of the world and how people really are.

I like the idea from Japan where when a child is 5, they are sent on a journey to learn personal responsibility and how to use applied knowledge to perform a task. If a child goes on this journey, others in the community can keep an eye on the child to make sure they stay safe and complete the task. I think the completion of this task opens a child’s mind to a world where they can start having thoughts about doing this for themselves and building a sense of independence.

Abortions

Sexualists culture is against abortion. It desires members to be responsible for their actions. Both male and female members should have checkups and be responsible and accountable for their health. Females should always be testing themselves for pregnancies and should participate in practices that protect themselves from pregnancies. If they ever get pregnant, they have four to six weeks to remove the embryo before it gains a heartbeat. If a person gets an embryo with a heartbeat then it’s unfortunately too late to remove the embryo. It’s at this point the culture encourages the individuals to have the baby, get married, or provide for the child. If they do not want the baby they are encouraged to put the baby up for adoption. The culture is about preventing a pregnancy before it gains a heartbeat. Nevertheless, abortion of the child should not be considered an option.

The culture talks about the effects of pregnancies such as postpartum depression and harmful side effects to the host’s body. However, if it’s a desire for a female to be pregnant then this is acceptable. The community encourages members to help and support pregnant members and their children. They also talk about the regrets that might happen if they abort a child. The culture encourages life and not death.

Pedophilia

Pedophilia immediately is a controversial topic that this culture heavily disapproves of anyone who demonstrates interest in young individuals are not and should not be part of this culture. This culture emphasizes ethics and goodwill for each other. The culture cannot build family values and maintain harmony and trust among its members if there are pedophiles because everyone trust each other to conduct themselves ethically. Any behaviors or evidences of pedophilia immediately gets a member removed from this culture and labeled a pedophile. This culture does not want to be associated with pedophilia or any related narratives. It desires to protect children, protect their innocence, and shield them from sexual behaviors found in the nature of this culture.

I personally believe pedophilia is wrong. I believe child exploration is wrong. I believe child porn is wrong. I don't understand why people would want to seek sexual interest in children when they are not intelligent as an adult, their body is still in development, and their child development phase will play a huge role to help develop a child’s behaviors and mental development into adulthood. I believe those who seek sexual interest in children are under the behaviors of an individual who preys upon the weak. It's understandable that males can develop a sexual interest and arousal for a variety of illogical things that arouse them. This can be from absurd 2d art to possibly even vehicles or fantasies. It’s the reason we have ethics in this culture and sexual-discipline. It's understandable that younger individuals might go through a phase where they have a temporary interest in materials that are strictly forbidden. With maturation, it's believed these individuals will grow out of these phases, and for the better due to legal consequences. Those who do not grow out of it put themselves at great legal risk. Those who produce indecent content containing children should suffer the consequences. Children need to be protected. Their innocence need to be protected. In the event a child is indecently exploited, I believe this exploit will exist forever online or in the minds of others and therefore I feel the producer should provide payment or reparations throughout the child's life or for a long extent of the child’s life. I think nudity alone is not enough to warrant exploit because of nudist or tribal lifestyles. I want to respect these cultures and their lifestyles. Therefore, the content must be of explicit adult nature used to arouse or be for the sole purpose of intentional exploiting for irrational or monetary purposes. If this is found to be true then I think the producer should go through the legal consequences and provide payment for the duration of a child's life or to a court appointed date, perhaps until a child reaches late adulthood. These are my thoughts on this child related issue. Any further sexual activities with children should forever be strictly forbidden and individuals should be trialed to the full extent of the law. Once again children need to be protected. Their innocence need to be protected. Their development into adulthood should not be untainted by adult culture.

I came across disgusting articles of child grooming. According to a study, and something that unsettlingly stuck with me, is a pedophilic related study that says children can be desensitized to sexual activity and groomed to see sexual practices correlating with playtime. I found it very disturbing and I highly disagree with it. I was trying to do research on the effects of sexuality on various groups, such as tribes, nomadic, and indigenous cultures when this article disturbingly stood out to me. Therefore, I should say the sexualist culture does not allow for child grooming and should preserve the innocence of children, protect them from adult-culture, protect them from political narratives, and protect them from all potential harms and threats.

Children are the most important members in society because they are the future. They need to be raised right; taught ethics; encouraged to be curious and to question everything to become critical thinkers; they need to learn as much as possible about the world; they need to be kept healthy; and they should have support of both parents to grow in a balanced environment; they need to be raised in an environment that is nonviolent where people get along well together and rationally settle each other’s differences and clear each other’s misunderstandings.

The Future

I want the future of sexualism to either stay as a community or grow into a mainstream culture. If it dies out then that is okay. If it dies out then it means it did not stand the test of time and there was no desire for this kind of culture to get enough public interest. If this culture is truly great then it should grow with members who have the same interests and who desire the same lifestyle. As for me, the belief in this culture is something I cherish as a fundamental personal philosophy in my life. It’s my culture and my philosophy for life and nobody can take it away from me. It’s something I am not ashamed of and something I can forever stand for.

I want to question if this culture will produce cultural changes. The world would more-than-likely find this philosophy disturbing and immoral according to Judeo-Christian based values. I wonder if in the future nudity will become more accepting. I wonder if sexuality has a place in society where it can be accepted. Perhaps being clothes while showing nudity could be a new norm. Perhaps the transition to that kind of reality could be that people can walk around publicly fully nude with the use of pasties or wearable stickers to hide their genitals. Perhaps sexuality could be a casual and normal way of life where people simply don’t mind of any public sexual activity. A world like this to me makes more sense as we learn to be more human, more honest, and to decide on greater personal beliefs.

Conclusion

These are all my ideas, beliefs, thoughts, and values I believe in when creating my own sexual culture. I think the use of these beliefs and ideas can help improve a part of humanity that is too taboo or that goes widely ignored or unexplored. I think the use of my sexual culture could help bring a new vision of ethics and morality to allow for more freedoms, liberties, and ultimately an entirely new methods to help make people happy. I think this culture could bring value, personal improvement, and fulfillment in people’s lives. I believe the sexualist community is a good methods to bringing about such change in humanity. Perhaps one day this way of life could change the world and bring humanity to a new intellectual, liberating, and social renascence.







Terms

Ménage - are all members of the sexualist community. This means family and act as a family similar to brothers and sisters. Surins are individual members of the sexualist community. "I am a surin who's part of a ménage (family) in my community."

Monogamous - a single relationship with a single significant other (also called a traditional relationship). Polyamorous - a relationship with multiple people (Open Polyamorous relationship means there can be many members or a dynamic of members coming and going).

Limited Polyamorous - A relationship with three or four members.

Polyamory - a relationship with multiple partners.

Swinger - a person who swaps partners (Also called swinger couples). A person part of a marriage that allows for sexual activity with other partners.

Bachelor swinger – An individual male that like to enjoy unlimited free sex.

Bachelorette swinger- An individual female that likes to enjoy unlimited free sex.

Hedonist Bachelor - A person who is single who enjoys sex (also called a lewdy, slut, or slooth).

Linkinis - lingerie bikinis and one pieces. Lin-wear - regular clothes mixed with lingerie. Sex-friendly products - average products with built in sex-toy devices. Bloomies - panties that are meant to be worn standalone. These are panties that people can wear publicly. It's also a trend where ladies can wear simply panties in public and it's considered a street fashion trend. Sex-toy briefs - underwear with build in sex toy devices. Sex-toy brassieres - bras that have vibrating and pulsating devices. Pleasure-set services - businesses and business services that incorporate hand jobs, sexual-massages, and non-intercourse services as a casual business service.

Surin (soo-rin)- Surin is a term in this culture that means "improved-human". It means a human who utilizes ethics, the culture's sexual philosophy/lifestyle, gender-cohesion, and improved behaviors to be a new example for society.

Ipsihg-group - interpersonal poly singles intimate hedonist group. A group of singles that form a bond who gather together to do activities or hang out. A sexualist replacement family of intimate friends. These are individuals who you get to know, who prove themselves to the group by being friendly and demonstrating unique integral qualities/values, who follow a series of ethical principle, and help form a strong group bond. It's a polyamorous hedonist sexual group where sex and nudity is casual where everyone shares each other when they feel like. Everyone understand that each member of the group is a free-spirited individual that does what they like with whomever they want. There is a balance of group activities and sexual circumstances. The group also accepts a time for orgies and voyeurs to watch others have fun. It's a group about consent and respect. It's also about balance. There's a time for everything. The group’s goals is to allow people to do activities in groups, relax and cohabitate as a group, and create a family structure that is intimate and carefree. A common tradition of the group is using rubber wrist bands to show what people want to do or feel, such as: cuddle, horny, rest, become active(do something fun), chill, or go solo.

Sexual Dispersion – (also known as horniness dispersion) This is when you get super horny in a situation that turns you on dramatically. It’s when you masturbate for a brief period, about one to five minutes, to get the hormonal horny chemical out of the way. You don’t masturbate to ejaculate, you just do it so that you level feeling of being horny stabilizes/ evens out with you own casual behavior. This allows you to be semi-horny, have sexual control, and allows the feeling of being casually naked to be comfortable and carefree. This is a good strategy when you get naked around friends of the opposite gender. This allows you to be comfortable while controlling yourself from being overly horny.

Prosexual- Individuals or a group who indulge mindlessly in consensual sexual activity.

Prosexual parties- a party where consensual sex, orgies, and many other sexual activities are casually and openly enjoyed.

Horny vibe - also known as Ero-charged Social, is a sexually charged environment where individuals use a sexual discipline to be and stay horny for a long period of time. The goal is to have fun being in the state of horniness and arousal. The idea is that being aroused is where every individual is equal. It's where they should tease and play with each other with the challenge of not engaging in intercourse. The goal is to test and tease one's sexual discipline, and have fun and delight oneself in a sexually charged way. If one reaches a limit in being sexually aroused, they should masturbate and provoke others. The goal is to make others horny anyway possible while also not resulting in intercourse. In addition, perhaps the more society is conditioned with arousal, the greater the step to reaching a sense of social intimacy which can help with social unity (as long as people retain sexual discipline and ethics through a sexual discipline). The goal is to stay horny, enjoy it, and keep the environment sexually charged for others to enjoy.

Intercourse dances - A dance or set of movements revolving the female and male conducting intercourse and penetrating their genitals with music. The music follows their sexual movements and positions as a form of entertainment while the main focus is the movement of their genitals penetrating and going with a beat. Sex toys can also be an addition to the dance. Ultimately, it's a form of sexual entertainment while watching a couple have sex. Another form of intercourse dance is an actual dance with genitals exposed and dancing while at the same time briefly penetrating with the music. The challenge is for the male to stay hard as they dance so he can penetrate his partner. The goal of the partner is to keep them hard.

Nude olympics- a series of sports and challenges, often mixed by gender while in the nude.

Sexual olympics- a variety of challenges or sports while engaging in intercourse or sexual activities.

Horny shivers - shivers that are brought by arousal.

Sexual discipline- the ability to be extremely aroused and to still behave rationally and logically. It's the ability to respect, tolerate, overcome, and still behave professionally when around highly stimulated situations. It's an understanding of one's limits that when extremely stimulated with the inability to focus, then masturbation is used to relieve the urge of sexual impulses to get ones brain activity back to normal and thinking logically without the influence of sexual stimulation.

BFFB - best friends forever with benefits.

Lily maiden - females who like to have sex; some goes as far as to say they are free sex property. By this I mean they are respectable individuals except in relation to their sexual side or any time appropriate where they want or can to be taken advantage of or used sexually. They want to be taken advantage of and exploited sexually in regards to sexually stimulating situations. For example, an office lady who does her job well, wants to be sexually taken advantage of whenever it's okay to do so because she truly enjoys it and asks for others to so with her

Cat girl, succubus, or lewd princess are terms of a female who enjoys lewd things and making other horny for their own personal enjoyment. Fu*k boy, incubus, or lewd boi are terms for guys who enjoy lewd culture.

Knox sleep- a therapeutic practice of being penetrated by a friend without having sex while sleeping. For example, the penis is stationed inside the vagina but not engaged in intercourse. It's inserted to endure in the feeling of having intimate connection without the desire of intercourse.

A companionist - also known as a sex buddy, bed friend, or controversially called a big/little brother or sister. They are called big/little brother or sister from the unfortunate and controversial idea of Japan's incest culture. They make fun of and play with this term as a way to demonstrate how intimate and close they are with each other. Moreover, the definition of a companionist is a single who sleeps around. They'll sleep with anyone of their sexual preferences. They respect their partners. They go on marriage dates and ask for permission to have sex with partners of a married couple. They have sex on a mutual enjoyment level. They understand and abide by consent. Ultimately, they can be viewed as the single version of a swinger.

A sexiere - Also known as a sex friend or a friend with benefit, is a single that sleeps around with friends or people they trust and feel comfortable with after getting to know them after a period of time. They are a single with a trusted circle of friends with benefits. They are also an individual who understands and abides by consent, has sex on a mutual enjoyment level, and has respect for their partners. Their philosophy is sex between friends is normal and they use sex as a way to have a deeper and more intimate relationship with friends.

Edge-party - a group masturbation that involves no intercourse which includes both genders casually masturbating together. Members can "edge" with their clothes on or off. They can also "edge" hiding themselves using a towel. It's where a group enjoys adult entertainment together or enjoys watching others masturbate. It's a mutual group activity that brings members closer together.

Small group lovers - a group of three or four individuals who form a love circle of close friends that are also in a shared closed relationship.

Use girl or Use boy (or public sexual servant) is a male or female that let's strangers use them sexually at any time. They are individuals who encourage others to use them whenever they want for sexual exploitation. They regard themselves as sexual objects when taken advantage of sexually but regular human beings when not taken advantage sexually. These are also individuals that others in society care for them and look after their wellbeing.

Virgin sexualists- highly sexual individuals that prefer to remain virgins yet also engage in sex. These are individuals who prefer sex without intercourse. They may have their reasons to remain virgin or to wait for the perfect a most compatible life partner. These individuals may prefer outercourse or masturbation as an alternative to sexual activity. Just like sexualists, they also enjoy nudity and sexuality socially.

Sexually Idle - the state of being comfortable being aroused, perhaps in a sexually active environment, yet neutral without acting on arousal. A non-formal definition can be the state of being horny, behaving casually and normal, and behaving casually around a sexually activity environment or around sexual elements.

Koop - A very close group of friends. A group of friend that spend a lot of time with each other on a daily basis. A group of friends that allow for each other to share a lot of personal details with each other. A group of friends that act as a family. A group of friends that surpass average friendship barriers, such as allowing for the casual exposure of nudity, intimate relationships, and sexual exploration of each other. The ethics of a koop allows each other to treat each other in a way that resolves problems, overcomes obstacles, and work towards collective solutions for the betterment of the group. A group that is with each other, even if there isn't a reason to doing so.

Sex beaches - Beaches that allow for nudity, sexual activity, and adult entertainment. Sex fountains - places with water where nudity, sexual activity, and adult entertainment is allowed. Sex tourism - Tourist destinations and locations that allow for nudity, sexual activity, swinging, sexual education, and adult entertainment.

Sexy time - a time in which you pause from the real world to do intimate things with friends and loved ones. It's also the idea that there is a life style balance. A time when sexy time is okay and appropriate and a time when you need to be focused or centered in reality. There is also the principle of consent, a mutual respect for each other, and agreeing on what explicit activities can be agreed upon. For example, if partners wants to just masturbate then that should be the agreement; unless they feel comfortable doing something else.








Absurd Ideas Considered

Members are called different things. New members or guests to the community are called initiants or anits. These are people who do not know the behaviors, ethics, or culture of sexualism and are learning and getting familiar with it for the first time and learning about the community. Then you have ménages. Ménages are members of the community. Ménages means family and act as a family similar to brothers and sisters. Children in the community are called mins. Mins are to be protected away from sexual culture. They are to be aware but innocent of the culture the adults engage in. Teenagers are called Sersians. Teenagers are supposed to seek friendships and relationships with other Sersians. Sersian sexuality is only with other sersians. There are two type of teenage sersians: consersians and prosertians. Consersians are virgin teenagers and prosersian are non-virgin teenagers. Teenagers choose if they want to have intercourse or not. If they make a person pregnant then that is their partner for life. Prosersian teens are allowed to have sex and intercourse all they want, but at their own risk. They are asked to keep in mind the person they have sex with is the person they might be married to. They can only have sex with individuals around their age group. Once they reach the age of content (17/18 depending on country) they become Surins. Surins are your average sexualists who engage in the sexualist culture. There are two kinds of surins: convidia and providia. Convidia are your conservative community members and providia are your hedonistic community members. Convidia are considered conservative members because they are more for nudism and limited sexuality. Providia are for hedonistic members who enjoy sex for fun. Seniors in the culture are called Ménagaries (ages 65+).

There is a traditional gathering called Moon Gatherings. A Moon Gathering is made for those who do not have partners around the age of 30 to find partner in one night. If a person is desperate for anyone for marriage, they can go to this event. This event has a sexual portion in which sexual activity and safe intercourse is performed. People have as much safe intercourse as they want and until they get pregnant they keep having sex. If a person gets pregnant, they get married to that partner. It’s as if letting fate decide potential parents. There is also Lotus Moon Gatherings for virgins who want to lose their virginity with other virgins.

Perhaps there's four kinds of sexuality styles: male fantasy sexuality style and female sexuality fantasy style to start. Then there is hybrid or switched sexuality style where it's mixed or switched during sexual activities. Finally there is androgynous sexuality style where the sexual style is not of anyone's fantasy but made unique between individuals or made unique on the account of blurring, washing, or conforming gender roles and norms.

Adult homestay idea. People can stay with a person at their home for a limited time. It’s $800 a month, $200 a week, $30 a day for up to 4 people. Some people can get a discount of $500 a month, $100 a week, or $15 a day for four people. Public nudity and sexuality is allowed at the homestay. Renters will be given their own room, bed, wifi, and shower is accessible. There is no access to transportation so transportation is self-supplied. Food is supplied in the house for consumption, there are no cooks. You might have a tenant to share the house with. He will be hospitable, kind, trust worthy, and honest. If they like you they can cook for you or supply you with transportation if they have the time. They will always be able to help you if you need anything around the house. They may even be available as a sleeping companions if you need a companion to sleep with or talk to (nonsexually). Their profile will be available online to view for convenience. Sexual interactions are by mutual consent only. Please respect if they are not interested; without consent or not being proactive, they will leave you alone. The nature of this homestay space is very open, secure, safe, and comfortable. Nudity, sex, masturbation, and pornography is casual and carefree in the house. It’s not a family safe environment. If you are okay with the norms of the house then, please proceed. You are free to use any amenities, eat what you like, stock the fridge, and pretend the house is yours for the time being. It’s forbidden to host large parties, please clean up after yourselves, don’t break anything, be sure to be conscious about using electricity, and be sure to leave the house the exact way you found it. If you are okay with the nature and policies of the adult homestay, please feel free to book reservations for a day, a week, or even a few months.

Adult theatre – also known as a horny theatre. These are adult theatres that cater to sexually active couples. It is an 18 + theatre where individuals and couples can come to see a movie and indulge themselves in sexual activity. They sell condoms, lubricants, and disinfectant wipes at the concession stands. There are no cameras or phones allowed. It’s like AMC theatres where they have leather couch or bed-like seats. You can ask for blankets from staff. The blankets are used for if people want to have sex while hiding their activities or if they feel cold after having sex. All seats have built in headphones in case you want to watch the movies while not hearing others have sex. The theatre allows the audience to walk around completely or partially naked. Adults must prove they’re 18 with state IDs. Surfaces are easy to wipe for staff. An issue is if one wants to watch a movie while others are having sex in front of them it might obscure their view. Because of this, we supply Bluetooth in case the audience wants to bring digital devices or rent our digital tablets. There are complimentary bio-bags for customers. Staff use gloves and tongs to pick up condoms and to wipe and disinfect surfaces. The theatre also allows for adult toys. If it’s possible, the theatre rents out seat covers that vibrate.

End of My Sexual Culture
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Bellow are my older sexual ideas I have discarded from oldest to newest:



लोमड़ी मोहब्बत सूत्र

Lomri Mohabbat Sutra

The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra comes from the Indian phrase meaning fox-love formula. The word lomri means fox which is the symbol of our culture; mohabbat meaning love which means the love trying to be obtained through the use of our culture’s formula; and sutra meaning rules, formula, or instructions. The existence of this formula is to imitate the set of values used in the Indian Kama Sutra or sexual set of instructions. Despite having an Indian name, the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra was invented in America and not in India. The founders are known for unique sexual philosophies regarding the balancing of sexuality and ethics for a more cohesive and united society.

Mission: The mission of the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra is to establish a philosophy and community that creates interpersonal collectivism and practices casual ethical sexuality.

Summary:

The reason for the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra is for a desire to establish a community with a new humanitarian and sexual philosophy with a vision that introduces ethics, unity, a harmonious intimate sexual culture, and a vision for gender cohesion. The goal is to one day make a culture whose sexual philosophy and community can be a functional part of contemporary society.

Much like a nudist colony, the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra aims to create a unique culture with a supportive community to which allows for nudity and ethical sexual practices to deepen the relationship of its members.

This culture and community is not for everyone as it contains practices which can be overly sexual and radically different compared to the modern western dating culture and current culture of sexual practices of modern times.

Despite the sexual side of this culture, this culture aims to teach a new way of life utilizing harmonious teachings and practices from primarily Asian cultures, such as Neo-Confucianism, Buddhism, which is mixed with western values to create a way of life that creates a family-like environment which forms a liberating quality of life for all its participants.

The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra is traditional in terms of sexuality types. Its values surround primarily a hetero sexual culture. Much of the existing members that practice this culture come from Asexual, and hetero-Asexual sexual backgrounds. The culture also shares a heavy influence of lesbianism and the promotion of lesbian culture. Despite the sexuality types of this culture, the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra accepts everyone who are willing to accept its philosophy, values, ethics, and cultural norms. Although the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra is suited for this community, it also desires to be a sexual liberal yet conservative philosophy for members outside this community. Despite the nature of its formula, this community is primarily focused on close-interpersonal friendships, relationships, and collective-bondings. It also desires to influence a new culture for individuals to prize their virginity and to keep themselves virgin until marriage. This culture also takes the best qualities of eastern and western ethics and values and blends them together to create a unique, integral, and cohesive community.

In the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra there is a desire that its unique sexual culture brings members together from various walks of life and to look beyond the visible human features and to understand and bring fourth the person that is from within. This culture’s belief is that everyone has an inner personality that seeks acknowledgment, recognition, and has a huge desire to be accepted. The community believes one’s inner personality is what should be used to form extremely close relationships. This culture also believes that by bringing out this inner personality, a person can help improve their life with the use of ethics which can overall improve the lives of others. The culture overlooks any imperfections in another due to its desire of goodwill for others. Overall, the community desires that everyone is to help create a quality of culture in which allows people to bring out the best in themselves, allows for ways to unite its members, promotes ethics, and promote a better quality of lifestyle in which allows members to be who they are and who they want to be.

Lastly, the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra is interested in the idea to bring both the male and female gender to behave as one. Although it understands the differences between genders, it wants both genders to come together as it overlooks and overcomes the differences between the genders to create a collective and family-like bond. We believe this to be a core principle in unifying members of our philosophy and community.

Now that we’ve covered the basics of The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra, let’s dive into the requirements and formula (rules and constitution).

This culture has a list of requirements for its members. The requirements are to ensure that the culture can have members who promote the kind of culture the community was intended to have and desires to create.


Requirements:

-An individual is forbidden to be part of this culture if there is a potential dangerous sexual or mental problem. We desire all members to understand how to control themselves sexually and behave ethically for oneself and others. This requires that an individual has a growing level of intellectuality and that they can conduct themselves in a manner that retains comfort and harmony.

-This culture relies heavily on ethics and desires that every member can have a level of accountability and trust. Members are trusted to respect property, be considerate of others, be acknowledgeable of others and their interests, and to be accountable for their own actions. Members are trusted that they conduct themselves in a manner which shows they have a high degree of ethics, goodwill towards others, and have a desire to promote strong unity and friendships were members act extremely close and interpersonal with each other (the kind of child-like friendship where one can place their arm around anyone or hug anyone with the greatest admiration; and overall act in a collective). The culture desires a place where people are free to be themselves and even be as awkward, silly, or weird as they want. We want a culture that doesn’t judge each other, even if something is against one’s own beliefs. We want a vision for this community that is expressive and lively in nature. There is also a desire to create a place that is safe, secure, and allows a person to feel carefree of any dangers. We also want a place that values the importants of ethical expression, openness, and comfort. If there are circumstances of sensitivity, there is also a desire to give people space where it’s needed and to not create a confrontive environment but an environment of healing through silence, time, and distance. The culture also doesn’t want anyone to feel isolated or left out for a long while, therefore members will invite others to do things as a group and ask questions as a device to help bring others out of their shell. We respect honesty despite how controversial. If one wants to be alone, members will accept and respect their desire for space. There is an importance to have a respect for personal space and a respect that every member is an individual with their own life to live. The greatest goal of this culture is to create a place for members to be open, a family, and are extremely close. We want members to be so close that it’s almost to the point that it feels smothering due to such extremely intimate and heartfelt relationships. Overall, this sense of close relationships, use of ethics, and intimate behavior and interaction is what this culture desires to be known for and what keeps members together.

- An example of the use of ethics within our culture can be by being polite, courteous, kind, and helpful upon initial encounter while learning about others. We desire the use of ethics first before any more less formal interaction. We do this to show that we have good will for others. Later on when one learns and becomes comfortable with another, they can feel free to open themselves up and be who they want. We want this to develop the foundation for trust. Nevertheless, if complications arise, it’s a good etiquette that one can revert to returning to be polite and using ethics to ensure a sense of maintaining a desire of goodwill for others while gaining a sense of distance for the purpose of emotional healing.

-This culture is intended for adults ages 18 and up. Minors are allowed to be present and in the nude (as part of this culture’s nudist culture), however minors should not be around during any couples engaged in intercourse or individuals engaged in intimate self-pleasure. We want to set a good example for minors and ensure they understand the importants of what intercourse and marriage means within our culture. We also want minors to be extremely respected and should be preserved for their innocence.

-This community is mostly made up of Millennial and Generation Z members. Therefore, it prefers individuals who share a common age range. Nevertheless, all who are willing to share the same philosophy, ethics, and culture are welcome.

-This culture is intended for those who can treat nudity and sexuality casually and who can maintain casual interaction and behavior while aroused or in the proximity of sexual activity. The use of this culture prefers nudity and sexuality to be innocent, respected, and casual as much as possible. The community also allows for the use of nudity can be spontaneous and whenever one feels aroused or feels it’s suitable. The community believes everyone should feel open to show their body and have it freely observed by others. Furthermore, this community believes innocence is important because it allows individuals to maintain a fresh ongoing love-giving and heartfelt personality untouched by any problematic relationships, and perhaps preserve a sense of purity and youth. Sexually, the community believes it keeps sexuality new and exciting and allowing sensations and ideas to never get old or grow stale. With the prizing of virginity, it also allows for a sense of deviance where one can come up with original or unique sexual ideas to help arouse others. Deviant activates that excite oneself and others are a normal part of this culture. This culture desires that arousal is a balanced and casual part of this culture’s collective experience.

-We want safety when members are around or pleasuring themselves in the company of others. It’s important that the use of ethics provides an environment that creates a sense of confidence, harmony, comfort, pleasantry, and respect. We want an environment where members can experiment, have fun, let loose, be themselves, and never pressured into anything.

-Porn, hentai, adult entertainment, adult livestreaming, and any medium involving nudity and sexuality is socially accepted and may be casually displayed (unless there are children around). Because of the culture’s use of ethics, it encourages members to tell others they are to be on video or if anything were to be shared online, because this culture understands the world’s mainstream view of sexuality, the maintenance of conservative moral values, and the possible harm it could create for one’s personal career or public image.

-This community respects and prizes virginity. It believes virginity is the representation of purity and innocence. It believes one’s virginity should be prized and kept until marriage. It believes anyone who performs intercourse with a partner should marry their partner. It desires that this community finds those who have a desire to keep their virginity and to encourage those who are virgin to keep their virginity and to find the right person for an honest, heartfelt, and long-lasting and close relationship for the purpose of marriage. It’s a community that believes real gentleman do not perform intercourse with a partner as a way to show their personal integrity for the community. It’s also a way to show one has self-discipline, self-respect, and to show a respect and love for others. Our community also accepts and invites those who are not virgin and that also share the same philosophy and ethics of our culture.

-First time members are encouraged to engage in masturbation. If they feel uncomfortable or shy, they can masturbate by hiding their sexual activities underneath a towel, blanket, or clothes. If a first time member is a couple, they can also hide their activity using a blanket. Once a member feels comfortable to openly display themselves and their sexual acts, they are encouraged to continue displaying it casually and without fear of judgment or harm.

-When others are performing sexual acts, compliment the bodies of others and share the positives aspects of their sexual behaviors. It’s important that everyone should feel comfortable. If they feel embarrassed when they finish, our recommendation is that they should be encouraged to put their clothes back on. This culture desires that sexuality is to be an exciting, fun, human, comfortable, and pleasant experience. Another great practice is to compliment and show an appreciation for others for the experience and be reciprocal for the next time another is aroused and demonstrating sexual behavior.

-The community also has the nature of being submissive with each other. We hope that by being submissive to each other the community can open up an environment where we serve each other and have a loyalty to be in unity and harmony with each other at all times. It’s important that there is an emphasis that the group serves each other and helps each other wherever it can.

-There is a transition process for those who practice this culture. If they are new to the group they should be made aware of these transitions. When one becomes aroused, they should give a behavior or slight behavior that they are aroused or politely tell others that they are aroused and wish to engage in an act of pleasure. When they see others are okay with this, they can proceed with their engagement. It’s important for sexual behavior to be in an appropriate time and considerate for surrounding members. When performing sexual behavior, it’s important that one’s sexual space is kept clean. It’s common for members to use a towel to sit on incase bodily fluids were to secrete. We understand the nature of the female human sexual organ and its ability to squirt bodily fluids, and although the range of such action can be dramatic, we desire that the member or group of members help clean their sexual space immediately if such a case were to occur. Furthermore, after one ejaculates, some supposedly describes that it affects their ability to think clearly. We call this mental fog. We found the best practice to start thinking clearly again is to give pleasuring oneself some time off, to participate in a task that is productive, or to communicate with others in an effort to get one’s mind up to speed and sharpness again.

-Expected list of behavior: members are expected to be polite, maintain harmony, maintain rationality, have high consideration for others; accept everyone for who they are; have tolerance for others when acting irrational or does something one does not like; have a sense of kindness to all; be grounded in community, unity, and friendship; have a desire for goodwill for others; have complete gender cohesion (gender neutrality or gender integration); disregard gender differences and see each other in a way which resembles an intimate close bond or family; have strong sexual self-discipline; be courteous and reciprocal; be hygienic, clean, and help others clean; perhaps help others with roleplay or initial roleplay (playing along to help others have fun, become arouse, or to stimulate another’s fantasies); and have integrity to keep the culture long-lasting, united, and growing. The community would also like these values to create a narrative that mean something personal for all its participants. The community values and desires the idea to create unforgettable friendship experiences and memories.

-We understand many may not always understand our culture or the reason for the ethics; however, the community has come to accept the nature of our culture. It has come to accept that this is the way it’s participants are and how they think. It has an understanding for the reason of ethics to create the culture it wants to establish.

The following is the main formula, set of rules, and constitution for the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra. These set of rules are what defines the core of the community and creates the kind of environment it would like to establish.




Rules, formula, and Constitution:

1. All sexual practices should first be initiated by a setting of a stimulating sexual mood felt in the environment with the introduction of a light sexual initial behavior or introduction to show others one is aroused and will soon engage in sexual practice.

2. Females are free to be in the nude anytime and anywhere they want. Female nudity is the hallmark of the culture. Being topless and bottomless is encouraged. Wearing lingerie, exposed undergarments, or clothes that display casual nudity is regularly encouraged.

3. Casual female public masturbation is encouraged. Females can masturbate at anyplace and anytime. Females are to maintain a hygienic, considerate, and clean pleasuring environment.

4. Females are part of a sisterhood. Female participants are encouraged to engage in casual sexual activities with each other at anyplace and anytime. All sexual engagements are by consent.

5. As a masturbation culture, participants are encouraged to casually engage in masturbation and fellatio among friends and acquaintances. Mutual masturbation, oral pleasure, and outercourse(abstinent sex) is highly encouraged. Shy and dry masturbation methods are also encouraged for those who wish to keep their pleasure activities known yet hidden. All multi-party activities are permitted by mutual consent only. The community also believes it’s important to have respect, politeness, consideration, hygiene, harmony, and balance in sexuality.

6. There are two types of The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra environments: a “nudist-free” environment and a “traditional” environment. If permitted to be a nudist-free environment, all participants are free to be in the nude. This allows males to participate in public nudity and public masturbation. Otherwise, if in a traditional environment (also known as a conservative Lomri Mohabbat Sutra environment), all males are prohibited from public nudity and public masturbation unless in an appropriate environment. Males are also encouraged to relieve themselves in private when highly aroused. In both types, males are highly encouraged to be well groomed with minimal or no body hair. Males are to have full respect for female participants while they are aroused or when a female is aroused.

7. As a virgin culture, most participants are restricted to masturbation. This is one of the vital cores of our philosophy. However, sexual intercourse involving penetration of the genitals is encouraged by married couples only. The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra forbids swinger culture; however, sexuality among married couples is allowed by multiple partners only if it’s oral, anal, using toys, and by mutual consent by each married partner. Again, sexual intercourse is forbidden unless married and done with one’s own married partner (a married couple should only have their spouse allowed to be their partner for intercourse). Spouse loyalty is greatly prized in this culture. The reason the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra abstains from sexual intercourse if not married is because it respect the creation of human life; respects an individual's journey to find a fulfilling life partner and meaningful relationship for the purpose of marriage and companionship; respects the purpose of having a wholesome family; and ultimately to have a respect for gender where men respect woman and woman respect man and both help each other satisfy sexual or emotional needs and wants in a intimate, fulfilling, non-risk, and mutually appreciative way.

8. As a gender cohesive or gender neutral culture, all participants are encouraged to participate in a gender neutral environment. A gender neutral environment means that both genders see each other as equals and act parallel despite the obvious gender differences (see each other as one gender even though there are differences; there is a balance between having emotions and not taking things serious). They are to participate in activities and behaviors that remove gender labels, allow members to participate in an optional privateless environment, allow members to engage in roleplay, and act in a collective that makes both genders: equal, collaborative, cordial, loving, heartfelt, friendly, amiable, altruistic, respectful, decorous, generous, accepting, and courteous. It’s a culture with a mindset that nudity is casual and seen as normal. It also encourage that all strong feeling for an individual or group of individuals be shared as a collective. If one person feels a strong feeling for a single person, the culture desires that the feeling is shared evenly throughout the group. If this feeling is persistent to a specific individual, then we hope the use of this culture unites people in a strong marriage.

9. The community desires a global family hood. If anyone anywhere around the world were to reveal that they are part or follow the philosophies of the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra, it’s desired that there should be a universal family hood and an instant bond among participants and follwers. It believes all participants in the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra should form a cultural bond and share similar ethics. It desires that these bonds allow strangers to accept and form an instant community with each other with the expected ethics and values associated with the use of this culture. It expects other members to act as if other members are an extension of themselves. It also expects all to treat each other as if they are part of their own close family and to treat others as how they would want to be treated.

10. Participants are to maintain the integral nature of this culture and prevent it from becoming progressive and subject to an extreme irrational behavior. The culture wants to preserve the culture so that it can continue to pass its values on. Overall, it wants to prevent the culture from becoming an intercourse based culture where the use of swinging becomes the new norm.




The culture has many expectations which are common desired behaviors the culture desires to have.

Expectations:

The culture expects: casual nudity; casual masturbation; casual intimate touching; roleplay; gender swapping; having photos taken and to be filmed; females encouraged to act cute as possible; overly warm and intimate female or male relationships; people to speak freely about their opinions and any questionable subject using ways to stay polite and ethical; individuals to be as strange, awkward, and playful as they want as long as they demonstrate they have good will towards others; overly or smothering-close friendships, silent-distant yet maintain friendships when not in an active friendship; instant friendships with strangers as if a close family; expect little to no privacy due to the culture’s mindset; see what others are alright with or consent with; casual hugs, kisses (first cheeks then mouth with consent), and interpersonal-intimate interaction; people to be accepted for who they are no matter how clumsy, illogical, or crazy they seem to be; to participate in a variety of unusual activities and activities that are intended for a specific gender; to learn things, have an open mind, have others help one grow intellectually, teach useful skills others have acquired, expand ones imagination, develop critical thinking skills, and to get members to think on a higher than average level with those with great academic achievements; to learn and develop a personal sense of ethics and develop a harmonious mindsets in which one can improve and contribute to happiness in the quality of life for themselves and the lives of others.

This community is very touchy-feely. They expect to eventually form a skinship-like bonding in which it embraces and shares emotional value through touch. Existing members of the community have various behaviors they exhibit and want to see more of to create a more warm experience. These behaviors should be by consent. These behaviors are: hugging; kissing each other on the cheek or mouth; holding each other; ruffling each other’s hair; surprise hugs; nose boops; head cuddles; head pats; hand and arm holding; body cuddling; laying on top of each other; leaning on each other; head resting; laying on lap; giving spontaneous massages; sitting between legs; hanging arms around each other; and also simply staying with each other, even if there’s nothing interesting happening or for no reason at all (the community call this passive moments).

The community desires a culture that’s around each other all the time, even if one is an introvert or not use to having others around. The expected level of interaction is once every two weeks or twice a month. If one does not desire to be part or interact with the culture, this is also respected. To prevent isolation, members will invite others to join their group activities.

In formal partys there are three etiquettes the community follows. The first etiquette is that the use of nudity in formal fashion is encouraged and highly appreciated as it shows off our culture’s philosophy. The second etiquette is all sexual behaviors are for after the main event. The third etiquette is unity and that everyone should feel the same, should be accepted, and feel free to be completely honest and create a sense of real friendship and nothing artificial. We want the community to be authentic, show a real human side, and be organic and loving by nature.

We have two common greetings: Our first greeting is: “Virtue in pleasure”. खुशी में पुण्य।(khushee mein puny); which sounds like: kushi min punyo. The meaning behind this expression is, “harmony, goodwill, and unity given through or by the culture of pleasure”. Our second greeting is: “We are same”. हम एक जैसे हैं (ham ek jaise hain); this sounds like, “ha-e-jese hen”. The meaning behind this expression is complete unity with males and female members behaving as one. This is to remind the community about th desire for unity and gender cohesion and integration. These expression aren’t important to know, it’s just something fun for those who want to use it.

The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra has a shower and bottomless tradition. The tradition is after taking a shower or bath, you relax, hang out, or talk in the nude until feeling the warmth from the bath has fully gone away. It's also tradition when after you feel the warmth had gone away to wear a shirt and remain bottomless. Being bottomless when it gets chilly is a common activity rather than being completely nude. Nevertheless, after the warmth from the bath or shower has gone it becomes optional as an individual can put their clothes on, wear a towel, or put on a robe.

Common group activities:

Common group activities include: sexual activities; showering together; massages; sleeping nonsexually together (even if you don’t know someone; everyone is essentially a body pillow); hanging around each other for no reason, even just to keep company; cooking together; festivities; swimming; camping; traveling; grocery shopping; clothes shopping; clubbing; trying out restaurants; going to the movies; attending meetups; church services; biking; jogging; dressing each other (even for the day); cleaning together; doing yard work together; house repair; hanging out in a boat; tea ceremonies; bird watching; hiking; nude beach gatherings; sun bathing; flying in a plane; traditional dancing; shooting at a gun range; four wheeling; fishing; golfing; karaoke; gaming; cosplaying, attending conventions; wine tasting; archery; and visiting others frequently, even for no reason.

The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra and world humanitarianism:

The culture the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra wants to establish can be seen as beneficial for underdeveloped and poor areas of the world. With the spread of its philosophy, underdeveloped cultures can learn to create a united community which unites genders and creates harmony by the use of ethics and intimate relationships by removing sexual-based problems that are part of society. With the use of its rules it could remove the complication of undesired children, illegal prostitution, poor hygiene, and sexually transmitted diseases. It can promote marriage, gender cohesion, and unity within society.

The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra and family:

The culture around families with children functions like a normal nudist culture. All members of a family can be in the nude together. However, all sexual behaviors by adults are kept in private or away from underage members. This culture desires the preservation of innocence. Our culture has a strong stand against adult sexual or inappropriate interaction with minors (minors individuals under the age of 17). It also wants to teach minors values to have respect for life, importants of sexual discipline, respect for others, and to build unity. Underage individuals who meet an age of hormonal discovery are allowed to engage in ethical sexual behavior. All sexual behaviors by underage individuals with other partners should be around their age groups. All underage individuals should also strictly understand that this culture forbids sexual intercourse due to: a respect for life, personal sexual discipline (such as to wait until marriage and have control of their sexual appetites. Our culture encourages any sexual penetration should be done with toys.), and for the reason of gender cohesion, respecting others as individuals, to value social harmony, and the integrity of allowing sexuality to be a way to unite people, help create a collective culture, create deep interpersonal friendships, have long lasting marriages, and make extremely close communities setting all human boundaries aside.

The main sport of the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra

The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra community’s main sport is traditional freestyle wrestling; specifically, wrestling among the different genders. We call this “gender wars”. It’s where males and females can compete for strength and dominance titles. Wearing wrestling attire or competing in the nude is optional in this sport. Our version of wrestling primarily consists of briefs or boxing shorts only for both genders. We also give special names to popular wrestlers in our community. Wrestlers could compete on a large mat with a person of similar weight or perceived equal distribution comparing the genders. The goal is to get the opponent to tap out by pinning them. If there is a desire to use tournament rules, one has to try to get their opponent to compete on a 9 meter diameter mat; the opponents have to touch both shoulders on the ground, pinning them with a move in which they tap out, hurling them to the ground with a take-down, and trying to get their opponent out of the ring, and all within a period of three to five minutes. All moves in tournament rules have points and are calculated at the end of the match. The person with ten points is the winner. Our community prefers to play by its own rules, however.

The Idea for Community Relations

The relationship members both males and females have with each other in this culture are very unique. It combines both the values of western and eastern cultures. All members disregard age (to an extent), gender, race, and any other difference that might separate them. Everyone should see themselves as the same. They should think of themselves as a collective. A collective meaning they are always together, doing things together, even if they are doing nothing. Because of this we emphasize using the term brother and sister towards each other. If they are older or bigger, we use big brother or sister. If they are younger or shorter, we use little brother or sister. We also intend to choose a word in which we can all call each other; a word that means family, a collective, or everyone as a whole. Moreover, all members has a balance between being feminine and masculine. The culture disregards any strange behaviors and ideas and desires all members to act how they want while maintaining the harmony, family, and free-spirit atmosphere of the group. Having the freedom to experiment and be strange while knowing we are safe and can trust each other is the idea we desire. We want sexuality to be casual, normal, and free and to use it as a tool to strengthen our community. We want the ability to be completely honest, even if it's disturbing, controversial, or embarrassing. We are a community that celebrates the ugly with the good in a full understanding of what makes us human. The personality of our community we’re looking for is that of not taking anything serious and that everything is worth a try; of course without jeopardizing the innocence and integrity of the community’s culture and constitution. The community prizes itself for serving each other. If one wants to be aroused, others can help. The community encourages role play (members can choose to be any gender) and playing with each other’s interests. Reciprocity is also important as when the community gives, it’s great to give back. Politeness and manners also play a key role in the integrity of this community because we desire an ethical community that values each participating member and appreciates their efforts.




Conclusion:

The culture wants to show there is no shame in nudity, sexuality, and sexual behaviors and interests. The community desires females and males to be near equals disregarding gender differences. It perhaps desires members to see each other as if it were themselves and to respect and treat others as if it were themselves. An analogy is to have a unity that is compared to if we were to go into battle together, play as a team in sports together, or being members in an elaborate project together. Hopefully the culture creates a sense to look at each other as a member of a united and cohesive family than that of how the world sees genders being separated because of their differences. A goal for this culture is to inspire a new way of thinking and behavior about how society sees genders, unity, and sexuality. It also wants to inspire a culture in which sexuality, innocence, and ethics is in harmony and balanced creating a collective with unique bond.

In conclusion, this culture accept all who share its philosophy and encourages members to join and enjoy being part of unique community and philosophy.
































The list bellow are recent additions to the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra:

-There should be a polite social masturbating etiquette which is to cover yourself while masturbating if watching strangers perform sexual activities in public. This is to be in consideration of others.

-One should feel free and comfortable to show off their sexual side. They should also embracing the sexuality of others.

-With the permission of one's married partner, it should be okay and perhaps normal to still give BJs to strangers after married.

-It’s normal for people to cuddle and sleep together in groups non-sexually and genderlessly. Perhaps we can call this group-sleepovers which is a common activity among friends and strangers.

-The colors for the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra are: light yellow, light blue/cyan, light pink, light green, and white.

-There is a tradition of the time after showering we called nudi-time. This is a time where you relax in the nude, partial nude, or in a towel by oneself or with others and simply hangout and chill. Perhaps tea or coffee can be served at this time.

-In the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra age differences are largely ignored. We would like a culture where everyone befriends everyone. It seems reasonable that everyone should expect ethics and respect for each other also. We want the principles of the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra to be rooted deeply in its culture as a fundamental social principle to the point it feels religious. Again, it is conscious of indecent behavior to minors and does not allow for such behaviors.

-In this culture, if guys dress like females, it should be done convincingly. Perhaps this should be followed by a feminine charm and charisma.

-Members of the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra are so close they can lean, hang off, hug, put your arm around them, snuggle, and cuddle each other anytime and anywhere regardless of age, gender, status, or affiliation. You can feel as if you’ve know the other person for all your life. Members are expected to embrace or tolerate this form of intimate interaction. We want this to be the norm. If a person is angry or not having a good day, they should let others know in a rational way. //We find it entertaining to be in public around strangers and to try to make others jealous of our deeply heartfelt and intimate member interaction.

-Females should be encouraged to be as open as they want to talk about their sexuality, sexual experiences, and sexual interests. No negative labels are carried into this culture and all are respected.

-Members of the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra allow for family role play. Anyone can pretend to be whoevers family member. We also encourage this for people who grew up without the love of their parents or who were missing family members.

-Although very controversial and I’m not sure how I feel about the idea (I feel like I want to oppose the idea but something about it seems okay), I do believe family members perhaps should be allowed to interact sexually with each other; and of course by sexually I mean ethically sexually as instructed in the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra. I believe sexuality should be forbidden with one’s parents but allowed with one’s siblings. I call this idea ethical sibling sexuality. Furthermore, I believe siblings should feel free to bath and sleep with each other.

-In the Mohabbat Lomri Sutra: sentimental awkward pauses are prized; like a moment of zen, realized satisfaction, or moment of feeling inner peace. In conversations, we would like to consider these polite pauses.

-In this culture, although we encourage mutual approaches of guys approaching females and females approaching males, we want it to be more common for females to approach the guys.

-In public we believe it’s polite for males to cover their genitals while masturbating. We believe this shows consideration for others who are not aroused. Females are of course allowed to masturbate openly.

-It is a good practice to take a shower then sleep and cuddle in the nude (sleepovers with friends in a group is also highly encouraged).

-I want to think Intercourse is one of the ultimate demonstrations of ethics and a proof of goodwill for oneself and others. It is a true personal discipline to save oneself for marriage where one can make a family. Perhaps it’s a person’s greatest test and demonstration of proving to be a person who is good inside and wants good and happiness for others. Moreover, I want to believe the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra is suitable for those who are ethical and have a desire of goodwill for oneself and others. Looking at the potential wrongs of intercourse, if a person is not married and desires intercourse, it’s up to the other individual to stop them from continuing. If they don’t, they are both at fault; if the other person does nothing and let themselves be used, they are giving consent. Of course if they don’t give consent then the practice is illegal as it should be considered rape and should be brought as a serious case to the law. Although they are under the influence of arousal, the using of another’s body is not a demonstration of goodwill as it is being used to satisfy their own momentary irrational sexual appetites and selfish desires; even if it can be used to pleasure another in the moment. The results of such actions have the possibility to create life, create a variety of unforeseen consequences, and disrupt one’s marriage life. That is why the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra has its sexual instructions and that is why intercourse should be respected. To not perform intercourse shows a respect for others and an appreciation of life as one shares in the discipline and ability to create it.

-I think the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra is perfect for Asian cultures that have Confician and Buddhist roots; however, it was created for a western audience in mind and it would be great to see it prove functional if ever used in real life society.

-Formal parties with members of the Lomri Mohhabat Sutra are unique compared to regular formal parties. The formal parties are fairly standard with invitations, food and dancing, but there are many things unique. It’s common to see female nudity through formal attire. After dancing is when there is something called a Couples and Virgin Orgy also known as a Diamond Gathering. This is when people take off their clothes and make love or experiment with each other. Prior to the sexual event, children are taken home and non-members are asked to leave if they don’t belong to the culture. Often a game or performance is done to get people into the mood. During a Diamond Gathering, couples take off all their clothes and have sex with each other while virgin members of age also get naked and play with each other on the matted dance floor. Condoms are passed around and are meant for males to ejaculate in. It’s common to find couples and virgins playing together (intercourses with virgins are forbidden). The event is intended for all members to sexually engage with each other, meet each other, and learn more about each other. All sexual practices utilize practices of the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra. Anyone who goes outside this practice is immediately thrown out and is immediately kicked out of the group (there are no reentries aside from only to get your stuff, get dressed, and leave). Ethics and consent is a huge deal. Anyone who goes out onto the matter floor naked are expected to be touched, fondled, and pleasures. We respect members who sit out and watch the event or continue dancing. If you have an interests in another person, go meet them and ask if they want to be part of the event with you; respect if they deny your request because it might take time for them to get in the mood. Married couples are expected to wear wedding rings. Everyone helps each other and is expected to be polite and respectful. If someone makes a mess, they are expected to disinfect and clean up after themselves. After most members are finished with the experience, other sexual games could be played where people win prizes. After the Diamond Gathering and sexual games, the formal event is over. Sometimes there is a request of a change of clothes and a sleepover. Portable showers are provided by the event; there are also midnight snacks; and the sleepover lasts until tomorrow of the next day. During the sleepover, the lights are dim, doors locked, condoms are still supplied, children are allowed, and futons, blankets, and pillows are supplied to every member. We expect members and parents to look out for others that are virgins to not perform intercourse. In the morning members pass around their information and thank others for the amazing night and experiences. We expect the event to further the group’s involvement and create unforgettable friendships with each other.

-Loyalty to the group is greatly prized. One can show their loyalty and virtue to the group by remaining a virgin until marriage.

-(maybe) If the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra becomes big, well known, and accepted by society (which would be extremely surprising) and if individuals were to keep maintain its core ethical values and show integrity, it would be fun to have a large event in which is like a sexual festival where people can celebrate ethical sexuality. It could be like the Kanamara Matsuri penis festival in Japan. An event and place of festivities, dancing, shrine dancing, and even pleasure. There could be a pleasure area where individuals can pleasure each other using the values of the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra. It’s my belief sex and sexuality can be used to strongly unite people. It would be interesting to make a collective and close-relationship society through sexuality. Although it would be a sexual event, I agree that people still need to show ethics and respect for each other by cleaning up after themselves and to use condoms.

-The culture encourages an individual's preference of body ordaments. Although it prefurs purity and what's natural in terms of human beauty, one can also use pirecings and tatoos.

-The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra desires to see nudity and sexuality casually. The idea I want to state is as if a doctor being professional around other individuals in the nude.

-The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra tries to merge the genders to make one collective where both male and female almost behave as one. They want both males and females to overlook or embrace their differences and allow each other to behave in a close friendly and united manner. This means females have an emotional tolerance towards males and an understand the way they think. This mean males have more consideration for the behaviors of females which allows for the desired outcome for both males and females to bond as a collective. The overall achievement is like a single organism collective where all are brothers and sisters under a code of harmony and ethics to which allows them to exhibit a highly integral and united social philosophy and behavior. Imagine a female or male that is like yourself and is easy to get along with and you could do anything together without having to lay the ground works for a relationship or friendship. Each are expected to behave a certain way which allows for easy, close, interpersonal, and friendly interaction. By tis I suggest my idea of behaving initially with respect, humility, and politeness before being open to be yourself after familiarizing yourself with others while also having an instant bond with others. It’s important to retract the labels and stereotypes of the genders and to place a new set of values which allow both genders to know of each other’s differences but still have a behavior in which both expect are the same. Females understand the nature of male behavior and males understand female behavior and therefore find a cultural behavior or connected behavior in which both genders get along easily, without barriers, and remain united as a collective.

-The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra recognizes there’s a time and place for everything. For example, a time to get naked and a time to masturbate. It’s a culture of sexual balance and discipline.

-If there was a preference for a time to be sexual, it’s less common after one wakes up in the morning and more common around midday to late afternoon. It’s the strongest at night before one goes to bed. It would be a great after a long hard day at work, where everyone takes a shower, and have sex almost every night before falling asleep. By sex I mean regarding the rules of the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra where sex is without intercourse unless you are married and when you are married you have to abide by the agreements made with one’s partner. As stated previously it’s very common for members to sleep together; sometime on a single bed.

-I want to add a controversial future idea. The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra is a culture that sex and nudity is a normal part of life and is shared by almost everyone. It’s a culture that is casual, open, and used to seeing sexual activity. Every member abides by the rule of consent. Everyone sleeps together and makes love together as a normal part of life. The younger ages are separate when it comes to love making. The younger ages are not included because they need to develop their hormones and body. Once they reach an age of horniness, maybe then they are allowed to join. The activity of sex, sex meaning through the values of the culture, is intended for adults and young adults. Although I feel as if I should not mention such young ages, it seems reasonable to start around age 14 in females and 16 in males because of teenage hormones and puberty. Even though sex is open for all the mentioned ages, there is a preference to stay within an age group so we don’t have pedos and cougars. If members uphold to the values taught in the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra, there shouldn’t be any undesired pregnancies, especially under proper supervision. The parents can act as a guide for the younger members. They can instruct them of the disciplines and ethics involved in this culture (keep ones virginity until marriage, partner consent..ect.). Family and friends can get together for sexual celebrations and experiences. Partys and events could have sexual gatherings before they end. It’s important to establish the sexual mood first before allowing for sexual gatherings. Sexual experiences and events grant the opportunity for a community to become something more than a regular community. It allows social stigmas to fade away and have neighbors delight in every honest facet of their existence. It allows communities to have deeper and more interpersonal bonds. If sex becomes casual and normal, it could also be used as a good equalizer by making all members with different personalities to have a sense of unity. Members would have to trust each other and prove they are loyal to the culture’s values. The notion of honesty and loyalty would have to be greatly upheld while cheating, disloyalty by breaking partner’s consent wuld have to be shunned. Teen would have to prove their loyalty to the values of the culture as well. Parents can choose if a teen can participate in sexual activities. Parents can also approve or disapprove of partners and friends their teens can have sex with. Therefore, it would be considered normal for parents to question and ask another and their families to trust with sexual activities, intimacies, and behaviors.

-Bromances are as common as sistermances and any other kind of friendship. A bromance meaning a guys who are deeply involved with another guy. Guys in bromances should not be afraid or shy to show just as much affection as females would have for their intimate relationships. Bromances doesn’t have to deal with anything sexual, unless given by consent. Guys are encouraged to have bromances. They are encouraged to show deep signs of affection, intimacy, and closeness. Examples of this are guys who sleep together, cuddle, and do things as if a couple.

-Just like in Japanese culture, this culture also permits a sempai and kohai relationship system.

-It's a culture in which is common for friends, colleagues, family, peers, co-workers, acquaintances, and others people trust can stay at each others houses. It's common for unexpected visits to stay one or two days before going elsewhere or back to their home. It's considered polite to cook; take baths and wash the guests back; if one has an arousal and the guess consents, one can have sex and pleasure their guest (sex is casual and according to the lomri mohabbat sutra; consent is everything). When one wakes up, it's common to act as if their guest has always been welcome and living in their house. In this culture those who sleep together should wake up together. Morning sex or intimate touch is also encouraged to wake up others. It's polite for the host to make it easy for the guest to wake up, get ready, perhaps make breakfast, and continue their day. It's also common for the host to make breakfast and sit down with their guest or guests and have morning gathering and engagements. Coffee, juice, or tea is a common morning beverage in this culture. If a host or guest doesn't want to partake in traditional hospitality, they can also have the "mi casa es su casa" mentality in which you can break traditional host-guest values. Much like consent, not using traditional hospitality values depends on the host and their consent.

-In this culture, we encourage the casual use or utilization of nudity. For those who aren’t nude all the time, the body changes temperatures; therefore we want to encourage all fully nude individuals to not only bring a towel (to prevent secretion of bodily fluids) but to also bring a shirt or top. Therefore, when a person gets chilly or feels like the want a change in feeling or temperature, they can put their shirt back on. I think this idea will encourage being bottomless. Which leads me to an idea I want to add for this culture. I believe there should be a bottomless side to this culture where we can also not only be known for being fully nude, but also known for being bottomless. I want to add that while bottomless, we can tie our shirts with rubber bands, scrunchys, or elastics to get a nice unloose casual look while being bottomless. After seeing side tied, front tied, and back tied shirts, I believe this is a great aesthetic for males and females; therefore, I want to encourage this look to be an exceptional part of this culture.

-There is a day called Gale day. This is a day where a person agrees to be made into a temporary icon to be celebrated. It is a day where we focus and appreciate a person and learn everything about them. They can even ask people to role play in a pretend world they always wanted for themselves (like being a yakuza boss and having everyone dress up as body guards or a princess with a breath taking dress…etc.) This day of appreciation can be from a simple dinner out to an elaborate set with role play. Every years someone different is chosen. The crowd and the person chosen has to agree on how they want the chosen person to be celebrated.

-The lomri mohabbat sutra encourages ethics, upholds education, desires its member to improve and learn new trades. It wants to make each member to be valuable by encouraging them to improve, teaching them new skills, and ultimately create value for themselves. It wants to encourage others to develop leadership skills and to help and serve others in the group. It’s a group that wants to encourage high IQ and to motivate others to work on their own personal projects. Collaboration and teamwork in the group is very important. The culture wants to promote cohesive collectivism and to do things together. I want to think it’s good that the group can find ways to be goal oriented. From programming and technology to art and crafts. I think working on projects can be a good way to bring people together and grow in unique relationship and the experience of the group. The vision I got was members nude and non-nude working on projects together regardless of age, gender, or any visible boundary. For team a team model, the lomri mohabbat sutra uses the Bruce Tuckman’s model (forming, storming, norming, and performing). The culture also promotes leadership and understands everyone has their unique way of being a leader. We want leaders to strengthen the weaknesses of those in their team. We also want to talk about and acknowledge our differences in what kind of leader we are and what traits we think go into being a leader. We also want to focus on what makes an affective team. We also want to focus on the negatives just as much as the positives. By that I’m referring to feedback from all members and brainstorming on what can go wrong just as much as making a clear and achievable plan.

-The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra is not only a culture, it’s a lifestyle. I would love to see it as an integrated or adaptive subculture within society that remains secret or hidden until it create a large enough movement capable of becoming socially acceptable.

-There is an idea worth considering that if the community grows, it can help out in humanitarian projects around one’s city. I believe that although our culture might not be seen as acceptable by others, we can use our culture for a force for good and change the lives of others. We can do this by building homes; helping the homeless and homeless shelters; maybe helping the church even if it conflicts with religious dogma. I believe if we do enough good, others outside our culture can respect our culture, lifestyle, and philosophy.

-It would be great to instruct the different ways people can have sex; such as: touching, cuddling, oral, teasing, bathing, and being creative…etc. Females can be a great help in providing males understand of what can help them feel more pleasure.

-Sexual tolerance is also being able to think clearly, tolerate, overlook, ignore, or disregard when others are in the nude or pleasuring themselves or each other.

-Often in today’s culture we see females don’t express their sexual ideas or interests. This culture encourages females to feel free and open to talk about sexuality, feel open to state they are horny or would like to do sexual activities with other. It’s okay for them to be the counterpart of acting or expressing their honryness just as males do. The community welcomes a horny and sexually active audience. In this culture being horny, expressing one’s arousal, and participating in intimate sexual activities builds a bond of unity, closeness, and interpersonal friendship and family.

-It’s a culture that believes to respect all ages and to engage as if everyone is of a similar age. If an environment with members doesn’t not feel in a way which they feel the value isn’t present or isn’t valued, then it’s okay to be with members around a similar age or mindset. If an individual wants to be with another age group, then that’s also fine. Because of the mindset of current western culture, adult males should not be with females too young when participating in the culture’s sexual culture. It’s okay to hang and be around them, however. The reason young individual are not part of the culture’s sexual culture is because they are too young to fully understand the meaning of consent. It’s mandatory that young members need to hit puberty and obtain sexual arousal to participate in the culture’s sexual culture. Moreover, all members are responsible (even under intoxication) at all times for their actions and understand that all members should be respected.

-There’s a huge emphasis in respecting others and using ethics but also a balance being yourself. Our belief is ethics first then be yourself.

-In this culture married couples are encouraged to continue to share their naked and sexual pleasure experiences with other members of the culture. If they feel at risk for cheating they should limit to those they trust. It is also their decision to pull away from the culture’s sexual practices. The members they are naked with and sexually pleasure should always respect their marriage and marriage partners. Anyone who pushes for sexual intercourse is not part of the culture. All members should extremely and radically respect that only the married partner can perform intercourse. They extremely and radically believe there should only be one person who penetrates and deflowers an individual who is blessed with the bindings of marriage. For a married person and member of this culture to respect and uplift this value shows one is a person of goodwill, respect, and discipline; they can be trusted. A female should forbid intercourse by a member and a member should forbid intercourse from any member, especially a married couple as it disrespect their family and future children and breaks the sacred binding of marriage. In the unfortunate event that there is cheating, the activity would have been consented by both parties making both responsible for the effect of the activity on their marriage. Anal penetration is allowed but depends on an individual’s consent. The penetration of one’s genitals using toys is greatly encouraged. Nevertheless, married couples and other members of this culture are free to be naked around each other, masturbate and pleasure each other openly; perhaps by oral pleasure, their hands and body, with toys, touch, taste, sound, and other sensations all of which do not involve intercourse. It is also common for couples to invite and share their room and bed with other individuals and to sleep naked with them. Depending on the couple’s preference, taking showers and baths with guests, to wash them or scrub their backs, is common depending on consent. Couples may even entertain guests with sex games and erotic entertainment when the mood is set and everyone feels aroused enough. For the purpose of courtesy of one’s marriage, married couples let their partners know who is coming over and what they will be doing, especially sexually. It’s a culture of respect, dedication and loyalty to one’s marriage, consent, and sexual discipline. I also think the process of not knowing other members but knowing that being a member in this culture which expects member to follow the culture’s ethics and practices can make others excited to see new bodies, personalities, and experiences. If all goes as intended, I believe this could make members more close. It’s a goal for the culture to make a collective in which homestays and sleepovers are normal and common; even if individuals don’t speak the same language. It’s also the culture’s interest to make everyone have a close friendship even if they are married (this allows people to be married and stay close with other lovers; our culture only encourages two to be married and not more). Overall, the culture believes in happy marriages and large families.

-Regarding teenagers, I want to say it’s up to the parents to decide what they want for their children when participating in this culture. If parents want their teens to be in a nudist-only state than that’s fine. If they want them to mingle and pleasure others their age, then that’s also up to them. If I could, I would like to make it part of the culture that if they conduct intercourse or have a baby than the teens who had intercourse or had the baby should be married if they were to stay in the culture. If there is more than one partner involved in performing intercourse, one will be chosen to be married and the other will pay a fine or whatever the parents think is right and just. They will pay for their damages or have to remove themselves from the culture. If a teen has a babies from multiple partners, than there is a choice of who will be married and who will pay for their child or pay child support. They will also have to negotiate the legalities from behalf of their actions. It’s extremely important that teens understand the importance of sexual discipline and not to have intercourse unless they are going to be married.

-When it comes to children and teens, sexual activities by adults are to be kept private away from child and teen access unless they grow mature enough to understand.

-It should be discussed before marriage if a couple wants to continue the sexual culture or if they want to keep their marriage between themselves.

-I would like the culture to utilize the charter of ethics. Perhaps centering the ethics of this culture around this charter, whichis for the purpose of improving oneself or the many aspects of oneself, could create the ethical culture that’s been intended.

-There is a fashion culture and a focus on the use of fashion when in public. When not in public, nudity, casual and comfort clothing are worn. This culture encourages everyone to share clothes and even mix clothes with the oposite gender if it presents a style that is appealing.

-If a person gets naked or shows off their body the average person in modern culture could get aroused and have a desire to get intimate for the purpose to have intercourse. In our culture, when we see someone get naked or show their body, our imediate reaction is to compliment their body and let them enjoy themselves being naked. It's not until after a long period of time when the room feels open to sexuality is when sexual intentions are allowed to be asked. It's out of sexual discipline and respect where if a person asks if another can pleasure them and they get rejected, they both remain polite and understanding.

-Male masturbation and ejaculation isnt a big deal to feamles. Guys are expected to masturbate in private when they get too aroused. For guys, having to excuse oneself to go the bathroom to masturbate should be seen as a casual, normal, or positive, occurence.

-The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra is a collective culture of ethical nudity and sexuaity utilizing goodwill and personal integrity at its core.

-Males groom themselves by keeping their appearence in the nude appealing to members. This might mean guys to trim or shave their unecissary body hair; perhaps maintain a sense of fitness; wear deoderant; and maybe even have female members help them take on a appealing naked appearence that they think will make them more attractive.

-For females in the group, there’s a level of emotional discipline that is necessary to be part of the culture. If you’re heavily invested, interested, or in love with another member, you should also consider their emotions and interests. If a person finds the person they are invested in or in love with does not feel the same way, then with emotional discipline one should remain polite, friendly, thank them for being honest, appreciate the time spent with them, and continue being friends. In this culture, even if a person is married, members can still be intimate with the people they are invested in or have emotions with. In this culture, if a person is married and a member has strong feelings for someone who’s married, the culture encourages them to be a continuous part of the life of the person they’re interested in. Although they cannot conduct intercourse because the person they are interested in is married, they can still be a part in their life and one’s sexual life because although it only allows intercourse by married partners, married partners can still have sex that does not utilize intercourse as a casual and normal experience as part of this culture. Moreover, this culture prizes friendships before relationships where it encourages friendships first to understand how and what a person is truly like by allowing others to see their authentic personalities. In addition, the culture desires that the love of one person is shared for the culture and a love of all members in this community. It's the culture's desire that each member is loved, respected, and charished equally.

-Although already stated above, there are benefits to this culture. These benefits are: No need to feel ashamed or embarrassed about your body. No shame in the exposure of your body. Gender cohesion where guys and girls get along in great unity and trust. It’s a close and interpersonal community. Nudity and sexuality stops becoming taboo and instead becomes a casual and functional part of everyday society. It makes it easier and better to find extremely compatible soul partners. A collective friendship, family, or bond is established. Members can participate in a clear and easy-to-understand culture. One has the ability to behave in an open, free, liberating, and authentic way.

-The culture has a playful optional culture like puppies playing with each other. Members can act cute and perhaps childish with each other. We call this our cute or playful culture. Perhaps another example of this cute culture is like cats sleeping on top of each other or foxes playfully running around. Perhaps another idea could be as if a clan of adorable and tiny game characters grouping up and forming a playfully collective group.

-When not with members, treat sexuality and nudity respectfully and politely. The culture suggests to only participate with members inside the culture, but if it’s with an individual or a group outside the culture, it’s suggested to participlate with others who accept, respect, and understand your sexual culture and are willing to embrace or accept the values of the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra culture.

-Perhaps there could be a saying of “Love, harmony, and pleasure.” For goodbeys.

-For shy members, other members of the group should make them feel comfortable, safe, and trust worthy and grab their hands and condition them to touch the bodies of others.

-The community understands the nature of the human body. If a person is very polite and carries themselves with elegance and high status and they let out a roaring burp, belch, or fart, the community wouldn’t take the occurrence personally and would make lite of the situation. It’s a community that understands and embraces the nature of the human body.

-We pleasure ourselves and each other for the purpose of feeling good, trust, and strengthening the community's unity/relationship.

-I'm debating if the community should allow sexual favors to be part of business. I personally don't think it's a good a idea.

-After ejaculation or the sexual activity, there's the mindset of disscussing or think about how good was the sexual experience and how strong the feeling was. We also thank our partners for giving such an experience and look forward to the next time we are aroused. It's common to just be around one's partner or partners after the sexual experience and just sit, hangout, talk, nap, or shower together.

-For those who think it's a stange culture in practice, it's good to let their partners know it's a culture of seeking pleasure, friendship, and community.

-How does one have outercourse (virgin sex)? The following is a list of how outercourse can be done: by touching and intimate sensations; oral pleasure; anal; mutual masturbation; scissoring or genital grinding masturbation ; upper buttocks masturbation; feet masturbation; leg and underarm masturbation; breast masturbation; using toys; using foreplay; reverse hand masturbation (hand techniques); 69 position; upside down/reverse 69 position; doing full body massages; masturbating with fabric and silk; rolling around and feeling silk and soft fabrics; cuddling; reach around or from behind masturbation; cloth-swap or dress up masturbation; sharing and watching porn masturbation; chase or rough housing; wrestling masturbation; oil play; bdsm; hobby/recreational masturbation (such as masturbation while cooking, studying, swimming/skinny dipping, tanning ..ect); shower masturbation; roleplay; and DIY while masturbating; Outercourse mostly revolves around many forms of masturbation, recreational activities, oral, anal, use of toys, and mutual masturbation.

-In parties you might see a players-list. This is a list of names of people who want to play sexually. Some parties might make you mingle and talk to others to find other to play with. Often you’ll find these people or groups of people in rooms offering, waiting, or participating in sexual activity. There might be some occasions where individuals will wear a rose or cherry blossom to show they have an openness or desire to participate in sexual activity.

-Members in this group are casually nude on video chat. They also ask for permission to display their bodies or to masturbate. Often this is done by setting the right mood first. It’s common for other members to help others masturbate or masturbate with them. After they finish, they appreciate and give their thanks for the great experience.

This culture allows for strangers to get together even if they don’t care to know each other or just want the company of others but have no desire to talk to them. The community also allows for people to make up their own reality and be something they wish they were, perhaps making up a fake backstory. If members want to reenact anime characters or Japanese popculture realities, they are free to do so. Despite how creepy or cringy, we want everyone to be happy or to experiment on what might make them happy.

Why should people join the Mohabbas Lomri Sutra?
-For individual who want a sexual yet more sexually-innocent culture (a culture with more Asian origins). For example, the romantic notion to keep one’s virginity and to only give it to the person they want to spend the rest of their life with.
-Want to be part of a community that is very intimate, loving, trusting and has similar values.
-Want a family-like environment where others can be accepted for who they are, what they like, and feel free to be their authentic selves.
-A community that is kind, polite, ethical, and sticks religiously to it’s cultural values.
-To be part of a community that allows you to grow into it learning it’s ways and culture.
-Want to be part of a brother and sisterhood which appreciates each other and overlooks gender differences.
-Share the ideology that females and males should be the same ideologically despite their physical, mental, and biological differences.
-Love nudity and sexuality and want to be part of a community who shares the experience.
-Wants to be part of a community that helps improve oneself and offer emotional support.
-Wants to be surrounded by people who have resources who can help one expand their business and agenda.
-Want to be part of a culture which has a desire to insert positive influence and help a person feel good and happy.
-Be part of a community that roleplays, allows for the absurd, and always wants to have fun.
-To be part of a community that can help caters to you needs and fantasies.
-To find like-minded individuals with the same interests, to collaborate, or make new close friends.
-To find someone or group of people you can grow fond of and build an open and close relationship with.
-To have the social platform to finds someone honest to build a meaningful, trusting, and heartfelt relationship.
-To be part of a community that does things together. A community that hangs out with each other even if they are strangers and don’t have a desire to mingle with others.
-A community in which allows a person if they want to portray something they are not, an alter ego, or to roleplay in their own fictional reality.
-To have a cultural platform in which you can identify with and have a level of trust which allows you to be with strangers and feel safe and comfortable.

-A common shared idea is to have one week for sexuality and the next week to be abstinent. This allows the mind to regain clarity and discipline.

-It's up to females to tell the guys what they can and cannot do as well as the guys to tell the females what they can and cannot do.

-It's up to females to tell the guys what they can and cannot do, when to do something, and how to do it. It’s also up to the guys to tell the females what they can and cannot do, when to do something, and how to do it. Sex is about reading each other’s body language and emotions; it’s a dance for both members to be sexually satisfied. The Lomri Mohabbat Sutra is also about being polite and nonforcful during sex. Both members give and take to make each other happy.

-In games, erps, cuddling, lewding collectively is a normal thing.













Making some changes and adding new ideas:

-Change name to GNSH (gender, nudism, and sexual harmony) The goal is gender(behavior and expression), nudity, and sexual freedom. Two kinds of this culture: virginist and non-virginist. (huge maybe)I want to look into the idea of poligomy for this culture (or polyamory). Perhaps it could be common in the non-virginist side of this culture where friends make love to other friends and anyone they want. It's common to have circles of partners. Sexual relationships can operate in a polygomy within a circle but are also free to explore an individualistic side to a member and have sexual interactions with others outside the circle and to bring them into their circle. Families consists of circles or groups of frinds in a changng dynamic. Children are around these circles but ultimately is the responsibility of their native mother.

-Proposed Idea: Families of the Lomri Mohabbat Sutra are different from most traditional families because they encourage their teens to have sex with others and to explore their sexual nature. They do this by the use of contracts/agreements. Anything that is used with contracts is valid and legal that speaks for the culture. When a person comes of age where their hormones start to develop, they will let their teens seek others of their same Lomri Mohabbat Sutra culture and let their teens be with them engaging in all the sexual activities the grow comfortable with. Of course the root is that they cannot have intercourse (genital penetration) with another because they are meant to be married a virgin. The use of contracts by families within a culture is the binding agreement that they can maintain the culture’s integrity. Legally for the culture, the culture is sealed by a binding cultural agreement/contract between members after they join this culture. The agreement is the root of the sexual freedom within the culture. The downside to the culture is that they can have as much sex as they want whenever, with whoever they want (within reason), and with as many members as they want, but cannot have intercourse until they are married. That is why it’s called virgin sex or safe sex. The only exception is they have intercourse then marry. They may let their teenagers also invite others outside the culture for sexual activity as long as they abide by the agreement/contract. If they are discovered that they have had intercourse, they owe the family a massive amount of money for damages, go through negotiation to be married, and how they are going to provide for a family. If the outside person gives a person an STD, they can also undergo charges for damage. Legally, the sexual active member has to tell others they are part of this culture and they have to sign an agreement of consent. The agreement only lasts until marriage; after that, they can form any type of sexual behavior or format they desire. Any member who destroys the contract/agreement cannot participate in sexual activities in the culture and with other members. They are purposely separated from sexual activity in events and some of the culture. They can still attend events nonetheless. It’s a no contract, no sex culture. I think it’s a good idea to have it to where the sexual agreements can just be fill-in post cards which links to a resource in which links to the contract. With a signature, the sexual partners are allowed to participate in virgin and safe sexual activities.

([NSFW] Ero-Libertism - A New Erotic Ideology and Lifestyle) Youtube notes: What is ero-libertism? Ero libertism is a lifestyle ideology or philosophy that incorporates nudity, ethical sexuality, and values to live an imporved, intimate, and more liberating lifestyle. Simplyput, it's an ideology for individuals who enjoy lewd and casual nsfw adult culture. The ideology of ero-libertism has five pillars each with their own meaning of values. These pillars are nudism, social behavior, sexuality, gender cohesion, and community and lifestyle. So what are each pillars of Ero-libertism? Let me address each one in detail. The first pilar is nudism. Nudism is an imortant part of this lifestyle ideology. Those who beleive in this ideology believe that nudity should be a normal and casual part of life. Individuals who also beleive in this culture beleive nudity can allow for more, honest, and intimate relationships. The next pillar describes unique social behaviors that are another important part of this lifestyle. Individuals who practice this idology behave in a way that demonstrates ethics. An example is that they want others to feel comfortable, safe, and welcome. Beleivers in this ideology desire to be a new beacon of love, understanding, and warmth in the world. The ideology is never of force or hostility. There is also a desire to imporve the world by imporveing oneself first. Ero-libertists have a strong belief in self-imporvment and creating value for themsevles and for society. It's also encouraged that theys trive to be high acheivers and use acheivment as a way to feel good about themsleves an to push themsvles father. Ero-libertists are also selfless, authentic, and problem solvers. They practice being intellectual, critical thinking, and strategies to get the best outcome in any situation. They also have a desire to always learn as much as possible through their own curiosity, and try to imorve themsevles anyway possible by always doing the right thing and making the best decisions. They also want to treat others with kindness, respect, consideration, and dhow goodwill towards everyone they meet. There is a desired reputation to be truth worthy because individuals of this ideology are expected to be ethical and to do their best to walways do the right thing. They also practice reciprocity and negotiation so that everyone gets an oportunityt oget ahead. It's a stong belief that understanding and supporting each other allows each other to get ahead in life because life is short. There is also perhaps a desire that ero-libertists want to make intimate, longlasting, and genuine-heartfelt friendships with others and will develop themselves to be extremely friendly or develop leadership skills to help themsevles and others acheive success and their goals. There is also a desire to develop leadership and mentor roles so that invividuals can integrally develop themsevles as an individual and be a source for good despite the nature of their ideology. overall, Ero-libertists want to imporve themselves, increase their intellectual capabilities, and help inlfuence and create a better world for themselves and others. Ero-libertists embrace an ideology that sexuality is seen as a normal and casual activity. Sex and adult culture is something seen as a norml part of life despite how lewd or degernerate it seems. They practice nudity and sexuality in consideration of others and according if others are comfortable with it. They practice nudity and sexuality creating a comfortable mood and atmosphere for others to express themsevles and their adult interests. The ideology suggests it's a agood practice to let others know in advanced what to expect before an adult and nsfw culture is present. Moreover, ero-libertists see sexuality as something meant to be normal because sexuality is beleived to be an instictive normal human behavior. It is an activity that is mutual where everyone is free to explore themelves sexually. They utilize sexual activities as a way to enable others to be more expressive, intimate, and a way for others to become close to each other. It's a great desire to make very close friends by getting other together to create a deep, intimate, and meaningful firendhsip bonds. Ero-libertists also beleive there are two forms of sexuality. There is traditional sexuality (I would add two kinds: cultural and hedonist) and soft sexuality (conservative). //cultural sexuality is the sexual values found in average society and hedonist is sexuality where members enjoy sex for fun. Traditional sexuality is the sexuality often seen in modern society where individuals will have intercourse. Soft sexuality is a different form of sexuality where sexuality takes on a more causla and safe activity among friends that does not invlve intercourse. It's meant to be a fun activity, or social activity, where others can enjoy sexuality in a safe, trusting, and comfortable way. It's beleived that soft sexuality is meant to be practiced casually where freidns can act as lovers and still be friends with no commitments or expectations. This allows them and others to practice sex in a way they can feel safe, comfortable, and all while having the ability to learn about each other and expermeinting with new erotic ideas and interests. Moreover, Ero-libertists might have the interest to have, engage, or experiemnt with multiple sexual partners. Individuals in this lifestytle also respect the sexual interests of others and respect if one has or desires multiple sexual partners. For those whoa re married, it should be enouraged to prediscuss the limitations of sexual activity before engaging in any open and social sexual activities. Ina ddition, it's a belief that there is respect for tothers to use sexuality as a casual social activity. Futhermore, Ero-libertists also practice sexuality with great respect towards sexuality and a respect for life where they do their best to aoid the risk of unnteltionally creating life. Lastly, despite Ero-libertists being sexually open and expressive, all sexual behaviors are dominated by three main principles; these are the principles of conent, respect, and consideration. Consent is the most important part of the Ero-libertist ideology. Consent is what will allow others to feel safe and trust others when wanting or having sex with a partner. Ero-libertists beleive all sexual behaviors must be through consent, respect, and consideration to what their partners are interested in. In conclusion, Ero-libertists love sex, love being around sex, and will practice sex openly and casually. Next pillar is that Ero-libertists can embrace the new idea of Gender Cohesion. Gender Cohesion is where genders can coexist in a way that is profoundly united where they see each other as mutuals, complete equals, and removed from cultural gender expectations and sterotypes. It's a desire that males and females can become extremely close friends to the point where they see each other with a removal of gender differences. Ero-libertists see gender cohesion where there is no distinction to how genders should see each other; how they should behave around each other; or have any need to fulfill andy sterotypical archetypes. They do this by overlooking each other's physical and biological differences and seeing each other as part of a single entity. Indiviually, they prize living a life where each person can be authentic, honest to themsleves, and honest to others. They also want to prize life where one can live without any cultural labels or expectations of how they should behave, what their interests should be, and how they should live their lives. They believe that genders can participate in activitiesthat go against gender norms and social expectations where both genders genuinely enjoy each other's company and develop a very close, imtimate, andmeaningful bond where differences are overlooked and ignored. Lastly of these pillars is that Ero-libertists beleive in a unique community and lifestyle. Ero-libertists beleive they should live in a way that makes them happy, bring fulfillment, and creates value to their life. They want to live a life that allows them to feel free, safe, andhappy to live however they desire. They want to live a life that has healthy risks, oportunity, and ways to build up their acheivments. They prize a mindset of building wealth through entrpreneurship, personal trade and value, becoming an expert in a field, or thorugh financial investments. Perhaps some Ero-libertists also want to build community where individuals who share similar interests can come together and play an intimate, valuable, and close interpersonal role in each other's lives. perhaps it should be encouraged to build a community where intividuals can be respected for theirdecisions, neer judged, accepted for who they are, and allow them to be their authenitc selves. perhaps some Ero-libertists should be encouraged that life is better when it's shared with others who have similar interests. it should be that Ero-libertists will make others aware of their ideologies in advance so that they know what to expect of them as a friend because Ero-libertists prize honesty. overall on apersonal sumemry, Ero-libertists want to live the best life possible; therefore, they maintain a life of good personal health, excersize, and productive thinking. they also maintain an apporachable appearence, practice good hygene, and always consider how others think regarding themsevles as a source for imporvment. These are the pillars of this ideology and the unique Ero-libertist way of life. Ero-libertism isn't for everyone. It's primarily a young movment that embraces a unique idology and lifestyle. Thisideology is meant for those who share the same or similar ideologies and agree with it's lifestyle. Overall, it'sbeleived this idology will give individuals more freedoms and maybe make more free and intimate community. Wrapping everthing up, I hope this video helped you learn a lot about what Ero-libertism is, their values, and their unique way of life.

-Ethical-sexual (or e-sexual): For participants who are in CGNSH lifestyle culture. Collectivism, gender, nudism, sexual harmony.

-There is a traditional gathering called a Moon Gathering. A Moon Gathering is made for those who do not have partners around the age of 30 to find partner in one night. If a person is desperate for anyone, the can go to this event. This even has a sexual portion in which sexual activity is performed. If a female lets her genital become penetrated by a guy and they perform intercourse, they are to be married.

-Maybe for hospitality members may also ask if a guest would like a sexual compliment which involves the opposite gender performing a masturbatory action for or on the guest.

-The lomri mohabbat sutra has a huge emphasis on aesthetics and looking good and being comfortable in one’s own body.

-By choice, in this culture some might want to lose their virginity to other virgins.

-*** This culture has a cut-off date for people who do not want to remain a virgin. Once they reach the age of 30, they can choose to be loyal to the culture or respectively leave the culture to have intercourse. Once they leave they are accepted to participate in any sexual practices or culture they desire that involves intercourse. For example, they are accepted if they enter a polygamous or swinger relationship with others. However, even after they choose their sexual culture after the respective age, they still are required to carry on the culture of the sexual traditions in lomri mohabbat sutra.

-If you reach the age of 30 in this culture, it is culturally acceptable to remove yourself from participating the culture’s virginist culture. This is where sex including intercourse is completely acceptable with others who are also thirty or older. It’s also seen as greatly honorable to continue the tradition of remaining a virgin. However, if one starts a family, they also have to participate in the culture and it’s virginist traditions.

-It’s perfectly normal and accepted to masturbate with clothes on.

-When a child is 5, they are sent on a journey much like Japanese traditions.

Females are more similar to males as they think and males are more similar to females as they think. In the female vagina, there is a small penis called the clitoris and on males, the laceration of the penis is a miniature vagina.

-In this culture, birthdays aren’t just one day, they last a week ending on the day the person was born. The person having their birthday celebrated gets priority role in things they want to do, places they want to go, places to eat, and people they want to visit. This tradition doesn’t start until the birthday individual is thirteen years old.

There are two types of masturbations: One which is formal and one which is informal. Formal masturbation consists of not touching another and just to masturbating to build a connection, relax, or release sexual tension. This form of masturbation is more for people who are more like a superior or seen with respect. Informal masturbation is more for friends and colleagues where you engage in sexual play, fantasies, and recreation.

Adult homestay idea. People can stay with a person at their home for a limited time. It’s $800 a month, $200 a week, $30 a day for up to 4 people. Some people can get a discount of $500 a month, $100 a week, or $15 a day for four people. Public nudity and sexuality is allowed at the homestay. Renters will be given their own room, bed, wifi, and shower is accessible. There is no access to transportation so transportation is self-supplied. Food is supplied in the house for consumption, there are no cooks. You might have a tenant to share the house with. He will be hospitable, kind, trust worthy, and honest. If they like you they can cook for you or supply you with transportation if they have the time. They will always be a able to help you if you need anything around the house. They may even be available as a sleeping companions if you need a companion to sleep with or talk to (nonsexually). Their profile will be available online to view for convenience. Sexual interactions are by mutual consent only. Please respect if they are not interested; without consent or not being proactive, they will leave you alone. The nature of this homestay space is very open, secure, safe, and comfortable. Nudity, sex, masturbation, and pornography is casual and carefree in the house. It’s not a family safe environment. If you are okay with the norms of the house then, please proceed. You are free to use any amenities, eat what you like, stock the fridge, and pretend the house is yours for the time being. It’s forbidden to host large parties, please clean up after yourselves, don’t break anything, be sure to be conscious about using electricity, and be sure to leave the house the exact way you found it. If you are okay with the nature and policies of the adult homestay, please feel free to book reservations for a day, a week, or even a few months.

Could it be that every relationship with a guy and girl has a gender barrier where every action they do has their barrier or conflicting idea in the back of their mind? Could it be that it’s not until something sexual happens that both open up getting rid of this barrier? I feel like doing something sexual or intimate dissolves and gets rid of this barrier and strengthens relationships. I personally believe intercourse is not right. I feel as if one get naked, skinny dips, shower, or masturbates with their friend of the opposite gender, they can tear down this barrier and be open to very long lasting intimate possibilities as very open and close friends.

Females need to instruct guys how they would like them to behave when they are sexually aroused, because often for guys it's only intercourse and that's it. There is a lot more to the joys of being horny and incrementally working towards greater sexual desire and turn-ons. I feel there is a mutual ground where guys and ladies being horny together can be a lot of fun and not always having to lead up to intercourse. It's fun to tease each other, touch each other while teasing (feeling genitals but not leading directly to sex), make sexual fun of each other, and overall have fun being horny and sharing the feeling mutually. For example, a lady and guy can have mutual fun as they grab their hands and allow them to rub their genitals, females allow guys to take a peek at their nipples while sitting on his erection as he holder her in his arms. I believe horniness can make people be more arouses and more friendly. I also feel it should be okay to say if they're horny (if they are being honest). It should also be okay if it doesn't lead to sex or intercourse. It should be about having fun and being close with friends. Of course as to my sexual philosophy, if one feels too horny and perhaps gets too prelubricated, it could be a good idea to ejaculate to get back to their normal mindset.

I think males can learn a lot from observing lesbian activity on how to improve sexual behavior. The key is to see how females turn other females on and useing this as a tool, you can find ways to imporve your sexual interaction with females.

The town has a respect for sexuality and voyeur as it beleive ethical sexuality is also part of life's balance.

Just as sexual narratives are found in red light districts to alure men, the town encourages females to also have their own narratives that arouse them in public. Overall, sexual narratives are not tied to just male desire but also balanced with female desires as well as various other sexual types.

Perhaps controversially, males and females are more similar then one thinks because the female clitoris also has a tiny penis inside it.

In this town the traditional and cultural narratives that females have to act lady-like is optional, both males and females are seen as the same despite physical and biological differences. The few minor difference between genders are the sexual ethics. Due to the nature of male and female sexual behavior, the CGNSH ("Collectiveism-gender, nudism, and sexual harmony" method of sexual ethics; aka "Lomri Mohabbat Sutra") has different sexual values to create a unique culture for sexual freedom and expression. //This reinforces that it’s a near-completely androgynous town/ city. Also because of the use of ethics, allowing people to have a certain level of intimacy, it could perhaps be regarded as a partial or limited polygamous center because of its sexual values, culture, and traditions.

Perhaps when asking a person out or if you like them the convention is to ask three times for a person to realize their feelings to another. When rejected then to respectfully understand their mindset cannot be changed and to move on to someone else. I think it’s important that when a person rejects another or does not give them a chance, they should understand that it may be the last time another approached them.

There are multiple types of people with sexual phiosophies. There is our culture, CGNSH, Lomri Mohabbat Sutra, or Fox Culture which has two internal versions: traditional ("conservative") or "nudist free" versions. There is Traditional Vanilla which is the most common sexual idology in modern society. Then there is Dogmatic, which are your religeous sexual beliefs. Finally, there is Alternate which would be your LGBTQ, swinger, and BDSM sexual ideologies and cultures.

Sexual Dispersion – (also known as horniness dispersion) This is when you get super horny in a situation that turns you on dramatically. It’s when you masturbate for a brief period, about one to five minutes, to get the hormonal horny chemical out of the way. You don’t masturbate to ejaculate, you just do it so that you level feeling of being horny stabilizes/ evens out with you own casual behavior. This allows you to be semi-horny, have sexual control, and allows the feeling of being casually naked to be comfortable and carefree. This is a good strategy when you get naked around friends of the opposite gender. This allows you to be comfortable while controlling yourself from being overly horny.

It's partly a masturbation culture, people are encouraged to masturbate if they feel horny. Of course they should always consider others first and only masturbate when in a place appropriate and with everyone else's consent or awareness.

The culture's sexual tradition is that after one ejaculates and orgasms after sex with their married partner or ethically pleasuing a friend, is to keep going until their friend and partner is also sexually satisfyed. It's a non-selfish culture and desires everyone to be mutually sexually satisfied.

We want to make it that we can masturbate with others and see it as a pleasurable behavior and activity or social activity and not with lustful intention towards others.

This culture is a safe, friendly, pleasuring, intimate, gender neutral, mutual, and social activity. It's a culture that keep harmony, kindness, and consent in mind. It disavows nonconsential force, intercourse without a married partner, behaviors and activities without consent, and unethical behaviors not mentioned on this document.

This culture primarily surrounds traditional marriages, but also accepts polygomy and same sex marriages. It encourages the traditional marriage and traditional family structure.

This culture allow people to pleasure each other anytime of the day, but it's common that sexual activity is mostly held in the morning when a person wakes up and at night before bed.

A scenario can be when you are doing something with a friend and she or he gets horny, you can wait someplace and let them masturbate or masturbate with them and when everyone feels their sexual urges go away, everyone resumes life as usual. If it's a person surrounding people of the same gender and the others around them aren't comfortable, they can use a towel to cover their sexual activity. An example is if a guy is surrounding other guys and a person has the urge to masturbate, they should be given a towel and cover their sexual activity. A person should always have in mind to never make a mess and to eventually get back to normal. If it's tow people having sexual desires or interest for each other, let them have their oral and touch sexual pleasure. It can be in private between the aroused or somewhere private include others who don't mind to watch. Nonetheless, wait until they are finished and get back to normal to resume life as usual. If they turn you on, tell them what you are going to do before you do it so that others know and you see if they are okay with it. Again intercourse is only for married couples. Overall, this is a culture that prizes nudity and sexuality and allows people to be close, loving, and intimate with each other collectively.

In this culture there are no such things as whores because males and females do not conduct intercourse unless they are married. They are not swingers because they do not have sexual intercourse with other except for their married partner even though others are allowed to participate in sexual activity using touch, oral, and anal sexual activity. If they do such activities that are not part of this culture then they are outside the scope of the culture and its of their doing. The culture only encourages what's within the scope of the culture using it's form of nudity and sexual ethics.

To create this kind of culture, my vision of ethics would be required. People would have to have a fundamental sense to do things from goodwill for themselves and others. It would not be right to take advantage of others, perform without consent, or to do action that are more selfish. This culture is about goodwill, harmony, and allowing everyone to be sexually active, have fun, and be happy.

I think a traditional conservative culture with no sexuality is perfectly fine. This sexual culture I created is something that i believe in. It also wouldn't be something i would ever promote to become a mass culture. If it does turn into reality, which is extremely unlikely, I would like it if both cultures could coexist harmoniously where everyone respects their own preferred lifestyles.

(term) prosexual- Individuals or a group who enduge mindlessly in consensual sexual activity.

(term) prosexual parties- a party where consensual sex, orgys, and many other sexual activities are casually and opnly enjoyed.

It's okay for females to just show the breasts and keep their bottoms covered as a reason for something only their husbands or boyfriends should see.

This is a culture that sees members of the opposite sex as equals despite physiological, psychological/emotional, and biological differences. Sex and nudity is not shameful. There’s is also no gender politics. Also the cultural ideology of females and males having to be a certain way is nonexistent. You do what makes you happy; as long as it is ethical. Ethics is what divides the sexually disciplined and rational from the ones who are mentally ill and sexually irrational. Sexuality and nudity in this culture is simply another part of life. One of the goals, aside from bring society more close together and intimate, is to make sexuality, sex, and nudity a normal and casual part of everyday society. The idea partly behind it is that we are social and sexual animals that love sexuality and to procreate why be ashamed of it; humanity should embrace every positive aspect of what makes humanity special, productive, and allow for harmony. Due to the lack of sexual discipline in average mainstream society, ethics has to exists.

(maybe)I wonder if I should make it like a fraternity. I wonder if new members should have to pass some sort of test to enter this culture. Perhaps go through a course, take a test, and perhaps (maybe )even a physical in the nude but for fun to have people work together and learn about each other and solve puzzles. Perhaps recruits to this lifestyle is twice a year. Once they are accepted, they get benefits such as the ability to stay with people anywhere around the world, the ability to have instant intimate friends/familyhood, and perhaps career opportunities. Perhaps I can make it like a fraternity but where there are no ranks. The greatest goal of this fraternity is to make members into leaders while also embracing it’s sexual culture. It’s preferred that this sexual culture is open about its sexual culture. I personally would like the world to know this culture exists and is always active. I also think maybe we should give out special cards and a database to for people to know if they are part of this open fraternal group.

If I were to include polyamory in this culture, I would only limit it to 3 parties(rarely even 4) otherwise it becomes too complicated.

There's a lot of controversy over what kind of body is ideal for this culture. Many people in wester society take offense to the sentative topic of obesity and body shame. This culture doesn't body shame others, but it does have an image it wants to uphold. Therefore, what constitutes as a worthy displayable body? A fit and atheletic body is always worthy of display. Levels of plus size is also welcome and appreciated. The levels that are more on the less desirable side tend to be when a person is obese to the point they develop a visibile "fold" over their abdominal region. This is when a body is considered less worthy of being displayed and more of a call for others to try and get you to work out without telling you about your weight problem. This tends to be a more athletic culture and collective culture, therefore when a situation where a person displays undesirable conditions, others will indirectly try to encourage and motivate you to come excersize with them.

Video I like: [NSFW] Ero-Libertism - A New Erotic Ideology and Lifestyle - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WZ58YInAmpw&t=24s

I had the idea of Czech-parties. Czech-parties are parties where a group comes together to fulfill each others' sexual desires and interests. It's to drive out the sexual desires and urges and allow individuals to feel as sexually liberated and free as possible. Males and females, depending on who approaches who first, are there to cater to the interests and sexuals interest of each other. It is a platform free of judgment and where people can indulge in all sexual desires under the principle of consent. Everyone who joins the group are mutuals. If a celebrity joins then they as equal as any other person. The only major rule is that nobody talks publicly about what goes on in these parties unless it's with consent. Members can only be invited by having contacts. They also should introduce themselves to the group. The other rules is protection from preganancies, hygene, and respect of property. There is also the rule that everyone has to be respectful, ethical, and polite. Everyone is also 18 years old and older.

Intercourse workshop - It's where people who want to have sex, some for the first time, learn about sex and come together in a full day sexual workshop. You have to sign a waver or agreement about not discriminating your partner, having everything is confidential, and allowing the coach to touch one's body in sensitive areas. Classes are made sure there are equal men and woman. Ever table has two chair's they have to have a man and and woman to a single table. Ever man and woman are assigned a partner who they sat next with. First they play a game for team building and learning about each other. Then they go to an open area with mats where they strip naked. The teacher uses two assistants to show as an example to the class. They learn about sexuality. Sexual history. How sex is different for both sexes. Then they learn about condoms and sex safety. They talk about their sexual interests. What are their fetishes are and why. Then they learn about the vagina and penis. Then they wrap up all the lecture portion of the course. When they start the workshop, they start by having their partners touch each other. Then they learn to touch, masturbate, and finger each other. They learn foreplay, outercourse,  sensation play, and stimulation. They learn to build sexual desire and to make others self lubricate. Next they learn oral pleasure. They both take turns practicing oral sex. Then their partner puts a condom on their partner and they learn how to do intercourse; starting in the missionary position. From here they learn different sex positions. They learn to take breaks for long sex duration and also learn to switch it up to keep sex fresh. After learning sex positions, they both talk to their partner while practicing and learning which position they enjoy the most. Then the males are given an assignment to make a female orgasm many times. If they cum, they are to pull out and cum in a condom then take a break and watch others. They spend a long part of the day practicing their sex techniques with their partner to get the right movements, body positions, and to improve.  Then if they want, through consent, they can practice with other partners in a group orgy if they'd like. Ever so often they can take a break and drink water. Before half time, guys are tasked to make their partner and others squirt by touching the Gspot. Then it's half time. In half time, they are to mop and disinfect the area. At this time another coach can take over. This is when the monogomistic first section of the course is finished. Next comes the culture and fetish section. Naked partners are gathered together in a group and learn about the different kinds of sexual cultures and fetishes. They learn about bdsm, toys, swingers, and other sexual science and lifestyles. They are given toys and are taught to use the toys. They are taught about the vibrators and the dildo.Then they are taught shibari. They learn to tie up partners very safely. They do this for 40 mins to an hour then move on. Lastly they are taught about anal pleasure. Females use strapons to peg males. Their goal is to reach the male Gspot. After they move through the many toys, they are left alone to their own devices and are taught about the importance of relationships, love, and intimacy for making great marriages and great date experiences. The course closes out with everyone thanking their partners, getting their numbers, and encouraged to call each other to stay in touch and have fun.

Sexuality should be openly accepted. A place needs to be declared and initialized first. By declared, I mean everyone knows its a sexual-free place or could be sexual.  By initialized, i mean a place needs to get people into the sexy mood first. This can be done by two people making out and rubbing each other's bodies. Sexual activity needs to always be consensual. If people around those individuals initializing the activity are okay with the sexual action then it turns into a sexual environment. If people don't approve and politely tell them to do it in private then they should look for a private space or those who aren't okay with it should leave. After a while when people show they are okay with it, the initialized individuals can have their sexual fun. Those who are okay with it can watch as a form of entertainment or if people are okay with it, they can pleasure themselves, find a partner to engage sexually, or maybe ask (if they are the type that's okay with it) if not get close and wait to see if one can join on their sexual activity if partners feel comfortable. Its polite to lock a door depending on the setting. If the setting is open and carefree because it's to be expected then anyone can come into the room. If the setting is more restrictive and more private then locking the door is a good idea and other would have to knock. Overall, i want to think sexuality could be a normal and fun activity. Once everyone gets past the normal or reserved mindset and into a more relaxed and more sexuly-open mindset, the environment can be more liberating which can allow for more liberating interactions and interpersonal communication.

I read an article on sexual relationships with family. For the sake of respect I will not mention the author and publisher of the article.  Nevertheless I disagree with the article but I feel I have to briefly write about the article. Its greatly due to genetic problems that I highly disagree with these forms of relationships. The article talked about sibling, offspring, and parental sexual interaction. The article describes how families can destroy all barriers and help create a fully liberating family and more free thinking and behaving society by allowing unrestricted sexual behavior. I am against this because of moral reasons despite everything that I've written about sexuality. I feel it could desensitized culture and open a persons mind and behavior to whatever they want which i believe could be decensitizing and destructive. In the hands of an irrational individual or a person with no self control or experience, this can have dangerous consequences. I think this can also have psychological effects on a person's growth development and ability to carry a marriage and trust or retain their partner. I believe a decay in marriage structure leads to an unbalanced and decline in society. The article goes through the Roman period and tribes. In my belief what happened in ancient times should not be a reason to be justifiable today. Technology has advanced but is not a reason to allow for such interactions because technology isn't always accessible to people. If parents are engaging sexually with other family members then a world of disaster with relationships, genetics, children-mentor development, and lifestyle for their future families will go through negative changes and decay. I strongly believe it would be a substancial and more than likely negative change in society and culture leading to irresponsible results and permanent genetic damage.

Poly-society (Also known as a poly-social) is a society that has sex with everyone when they feel horny. There is traditional and vanilla sex. Vanilla sex is just individuals nude and masturbating together. Everyone is polamorus in the matter that they do it with everyone but are dedicated to one person in a marriage. They are free to be married to more than one person but this causes drama and confusion. Its a sexually free society and marriage style. Spouses enjoy hearing a person's sexual stories throughout the day. Sex is of little relevance to importance as so much the more value on happiness. Indivifuals of this society enjoy sharing partners and see sex as a casual and normal part of life. People help each other as if it's a courtesy to get rid of their hornyness. It's good to ask a person if they are vanilla which limits to no intercourse but instead outtercourse which is seen equally pleasing as it brings another happiness.



Horny vibe - also known as Ero-charged Social, is a sexually charged environment where individuals use a sexual discipline to be and stay horny for a long period of time. The goal is to have fun being in the state of hornyness and arousal. The idea is that being aroused is where every individual is equal. It's where they should tease and play with each other with the challenge of not engaging in intercourse. The goal is to test and tease one's sexual discipline, and have fun and delight oneself in a sexually charged way. If one reaches a limit in being sexually aroused, they should masturbate and provoke others. The goal is to make others honry anyway possible while also not resulting in intercourse. In addition, perhaps the more society is conditioned with arousal, the greater the step to reaching a sense of social intimacy which can help with social unity (as long as people retain sexual discipline and ethics through a sexual discipline). The goal is to stay horny, enjoy it, and keep the environment sexually charged for others to enjoy.

I want to think perhaps a society where people are conditioned to enjoy arousal and conditioned to have sexual discipline without resulting in intercourse leads to a society that is intimate yet sexually discipline. Perhaps the sexual discipline to enjoy outtercourse instead of intercourse is a good idea because intercourse tends to creates social conflict. That is unless society is conditioned to integrate and adapt to full ethical sexuality where there is also a love for society where everyone shares the ideology of intercourse with each other through the idea of consent. This society would be intimate but also perhaps conflicting and controversial because of the need of family and peer roles to maintain an ethical, productive, and positive growth in an individual's life to result in a functional society.

I think both males and females in society should desire sex and the emotional value behind sex. The current reality of culture of sex today is different than what I would perhaps fantasize it to be. If it was my way, both males and females would be balanced at getting the values they want out of a sexually discipline sliving, All individuals would enjoy the arousal and the performance of outtercourse and safe consesual sexual playful behavior; or intercourse if society would desire a more sexually active model. Then there would be the intimate bond as individuals desire to be close friends, where a shared social value of love and intimacy is shared among a society, or dedicated lovers. Perhaps in my crazy fantasy idea, everyone should have arousing fun and befriend and unite with each other in ways unseen and unimaged in  today world. Ultimately, I want a society that caters to everyone's ethical and consensual sexual fantasies while also balancing the emotional needs of being intimate and friends so that individuals can transform society to become an deeply intimate, loving, and united society.

Tri-poly Lover, a person who likes multiple partners but limits themselves to three. A person who needs to marry a person who is bi and who has them as their only bf or gf and who has another gf or bf as extended lovers or pets. Partners only allow for individuals within their threeway relationship. A quad-poly lover is a person with the same relationship but with four individuals. Allowing for another person to have an additional extended lover or pet. //If I were a tri-poly lover, I would need a bi-lesbian person. I would only engage sexually with her gf when my partner allows it. However, my condition is that my partner is not allowed to have another husband or bf; just me. She is allowed to have as many gfs as she wants. My partner ultimately has say in any gf I can interact sexually with. Any gf my friend gets is who she has to be willing to allow to share with me. The reason I like this idea is because polygons relationships are too complex and has the potential to create great conflict and drama.

Tri-poly Lover, a person who likes multiple partners but limits themselves to three. A person who needs to marry a person who is bi and who has them as their only bf or gf and who has another gf or bf as extended lovers or pets. Partners only allow for individuals within their threeway relationship. A quad-poly lover is a person with the same relationship but with four individuals. Allowing for another person to have an additional extended lover or pet. //If I were a tri-poly lover, I would need a bi-lesbian person. I would only engage sexually with her gf when my partner allows it. However, my condition is that my partner is not allowed to have another husband or bf; just me. She is allowed to have as many gfs as she wants. My partner ultimately has say in any gf I can interact sexually with. Any gf my friend gets is who she has to be willing to allow to share with me.

Intercourse dances - A dance or set of movements revolving the female and male conducting intercourse and penetrating their genitals with music. The music follows their sexual movments and positions as a form of entertainment while the main focus is the movement of their genitals penetrating and going with a beat. Often a toy will be hanging out of the females genitals to add to the movement. Ultimately it's a form of sexual entertainment while watching a couple have sex.

(term) Nude olimpics- a series of sports and challenges, often mixed by gender while in the nude.

(term) Sexual olympics- a variety of challenges or sports while engaging in intercourse or sexual activities.

(term) Horny shivers - shivers that are brought by arousal.

I want sexuality to be something of decadence and have a sense of elegance. I want it as a tool to build long lasting friendships. It doesn't necessarily means individuals are in a romantic love but instead involved in a shared culture. I want people to set their own personal boundaries to what kind of sexual activities they allow and are willing to experiment with (for example: intercourse, outercourse, roleplay, forplay, or more personal self-involved intimate activities).  I want sexuality as a device to eliminate gender barriers and create a sense of humanity where we are a single human race; we are a single human species. I want sexuality to be something that unites people, unites strangers, brings them together in ways never seen before. I want sexuality to be something that makes people comfortable and friendly to each other where we are not afraid to interact with new people. I want sexuality as something that allows others to express themselves freely and authentically. It's something that allows others to want to know more about others. I want a sense of sexuality that has its own culture and is redefined. I want sexuallity to be respectful, consenting, and something that opens others to personal experimentation. I want it to be safe. I want it to build trust with others. I want sexuality to be a force that brings people together and builds community. I want it to make a whole new community of people who see sexuality different and a normal part of the human experience. I want it to build an intimate and inseparable society. I want it to be a device to make people happy and make life have more meaning.

Should outtercourse, touching, massage, and dry humping be the innocent sexual activity for friends and acquaintances in society? Should dry humping be the method used for teenagers? Should dry humping be the way to demonstrate and practice sexual activities in the classroom with a partner? Is this a good way to teach them about sexual discipline, respect, and consent?

In a pro-ethical-sexual society, I think if a person is not sure what someone is like sexually, they should be asked to dry hump them. You can see how skilled and sexually disciplined they are and how much you can trust them sexually.

In a pro-ethical-sexual society, perhaps sexual education can be taught by dry humping. Perhaps students can partner up with other students of the opposite gender and taught sexual education, training. And ethics by dry humping.

In a pro-ethical-sexual society, could dry humping and outtercourse be a polite and safe method to handle sexual interaction without cheating or engaging in practices that are sensitive to relationships? Perhaps dry-humping can be normalized and be a social condition which enables safe sexual interaction which brings people together yet relieves the sexual desire of arousal from males.

I want a culture where genders are equal and neutral despite their biological and physical differences, or sexual desires. Perhaps a stupid or crazy way to put it is to imagine after a long car travel or motorcycle ride, friends that are both guys and ladies could pull over to the side of the road and both take a leak together while standing up and not caring or thinking anything of it; as if this is completely normal. It would be great to live in a society that's made up of different views and values when it comes to genders or how genders behave. Guys can take on more feminine roles and females can take on more masquiline roles or they can keep to their masquiline or feminine behaviors. Guys and ladies behave in a way where they meet in the middle and are great companions whether or not they are in a relationship. The social normal behavior is that everyone gets along in a gender-collective way where genders exist but mean nothing as they find a behavior in which allows both genders to be mutual-comparables to each other. A culture where guys can be masquiline, logical, and yet considerate, intelligent or sensitive to female emotional behaviors and where females are feminine yet emotionally intelligent and adaptive to male logical minds or seemingly insensitive or less emotional behaviors. Overall, they adapt a culture, behavior, and mindset that understands each other and adapts to each other's behavior where they can become adaptive mutuals capable of overlooking, understanding, serving, and benefiting from each other as mutual and cohesive companions.

Tri-poly MMF is male + male + female relationships. Tri-poly MFF is male + female + female relationships. These relationships involve three individuals. One of the individuals is bi-sexual with a girlfriend or a boyfriend extention. Overall these are Tri-polygamist and Tri-polyamory relationships.

Perhaps the genre of adult films should be its own genre. These are movies that feature full adult content but with high quality storytelling. These movies may also include the topics of nudism and topics surrounding sexual development and exploration.

Maybe just like gender neutral bathrooms, they should also allow for sexualist bathrooms and unisex bathrooms. Sexualist bathrooms are restrooms with sexual areas for people to enjoy the sexual companionship of others for casual sexual fun and excitment. It's a bathroom that allows for fetishes and that offers little privacy. Unisex bathrooms are for individuals who don't mind sharing a restroom with the opposite gender. They are a bathroom with a design and culture that makes genders mutual and providing a feeling of freedom where individuals can use the restroom the way they like. For example, females are free to casually use male urinals if they choose or perhaps the use of bidets are an optional item. There can also be a mix of male urinals and female urinals. It's a restroom where individuals don't mind seeing the genitalia of the opposite gender if exposure was to happen. It's a restroom that tears down social gender barriers and a place where genders treat each other equally and respectfully.

(Rise of sexualism) Sexualism is the allowing of casual adult culture into mainstream lifestyle and entertainment. It's where individuals can watch full adult content and casually accept it as part os a social norm. They can also socially have sex or perform sexual acts and sexualist individuals see it as the new normal and a casual activity. Ultimately it's incorporating casual sexuality into mainstream culture and society. It's a society that accepts nudity and sexuality as a casual and normal part of average daily life and culture. Sexualists also are experts at handling and tolerating sexual behaviors rationally, professionally, and respectfully. They understand how to behave when around stimulating situations. They value the importance of arousal, enjoy the casual feeling of being aroused, and how to be aroused and not completely desire sexual activity.

Sexual discipline- the ability to be extremely aroused and to still behave rationally and logically. It's the ability to respect, tolerate, overcome, and still behave professionally when around highly stimulated situations. It's an understanding of one's limits that when extremely stimulated with the inability to focus, then masturbation is used to relieve the urge of sexual impulses to get ones brain activity back to normal and thinking logically without the influence of sexual stimulation.

Everyone in this sexual culture are to not take sex personal; it's for enjoyment and not to be taken seriously. Everyone part of this culture understand that they will do their part to make sure to have safe sex to prevent pregnancies, maintain hygiene, and care for their sexual partners while also taking care of themselves. There should be no worries about getting diseases or unintentional pregnancies. If a person does this, they should be isolated from everyone as they disrupted a sacred bond/ promise.

Individuals in this culture can masturbate anytime when it doesn't bother others. They should always consider others and therefore should cover themselves initially when masturbating unless others are okay with it. It might be a good idea to initially rub and touch oneself with ones clothes on. Touching yourself slowly can help set the mood. Setting the mood is important and it's called sexification, sexual ionization, sexual staging, or creating a horny atmosphere. It's good practice touching yourself slowly and not immediatly reveal one's genitals. It's like a performance to get others in the mood. When the mood is finally set, others joined, and the area is very sexualized and you know others are aroused and don't think it would be an issue revealing ones genitals or wouldn't seem to mind, then you can masturbate openly and casually. Even after a sexualized environment, it's still good practice and polite to cover oneself as one masturbates. For guys, keep in mind what kind of penis people in society would be favorable of seeing. If it's a long, straight, hard, and girthy penis, then this is more favorable and pleasant to the common eye. Always be sure to keep oneself groomed and presentable. When one cums be sure to cover, clean, and wipe any cum or fluids that is visible. Practice good hygene and always clean up thoroughly leaving nothing behind. It's highly encouraged to disinfect the area after one finishes.

These cultures helps to establish a new cultural type of individual called a sexualist or sexualism. These are individuals whose lifestyle incorporates sexuality and nudism as a normal and casual way of life. It's a community that has sexual ethics and practices sexuality socially and safely.

Kitten harem - a collection of individuals who follows a person, a set of individuals, or each other forming an intimate group or family that can involve sexuality or express similar interests. An example can be a group of three main people with many followers in the interest of sexual activity and extremely close and intimate friendship. It is not a cult as followers do not engage in ritual practices and there is no order or organization. It is a personalized commitment out of one's personal interest.

Note: Females like guys who can learn to have sex for hours and bring them into an ongoing sexual fantasy.

BFFB - best friends forever with benefits.

Lily maiden - females who like to have sex; some goes as far as to say they are free sex property. By this I mean they are respectable individuals except in relation to their sexual side or any time appropriate where they want or can to be taken advantage of or used sexually. They want to be taken advantage of and exploited sexually in regards to sexually stimulating situations. For example, an office lady who does her job well, wants to be sexually taken advantage of whenever it's okay to do so because she truly enjoys it and asks for others to so with her.

Cat girl, succubus, or lewd princess - are terms of a female who enjoys lewd things and making other horny for their own personal enjoyment.

(term) Knox sleep- a therapeutic practice of being penetrated by a friend without having sex while sleeping. For example, the penis is stationed inside the vagina but not engaged in intercourse. It's inserted to endure in the feeling of having intimate connection without the desire of intercourse.

A companionist - also known as a sex buddy, bed friend, or controversially called a big/little brother or sister. They are called big/little brother or sister from the unfortunate and controvercial idea of Japan's incest culture. They make fun of and play with this term as a way to demonstrate how intimate and close they are with each other. Moreover, the definition of a companionist is a single who sleeps around. They'll sleep with anyone of their sexual preferences. They respect their partners. They go on marriage dates and ask for permission to have sex with partners of a married couple. They have sex on a mutual enjoyment level. They understand and abide by consent. Ultimately, they can be viewed as the single version of a swinger.

A sexiere - Also known as a sex friend or a friend with benefit, is a single that sleeps around with friends or people they trust and feel comfortable with after getting to know them after a period of time. They are a single with a trusted circle of friends with benefits. They are also an individual who understands and abides by consent, has sex on a mutual enjoyment level, and has respect for their partners. Their philosophy is sex between friends is normal and they use sex as a way to have a deeper and more intimate relationship with friends.

Small group lovers - a group of three or four individuals who form a love circle of close friends that are also in a shared closed relationship.

Use girl or Use boy (or public sexual servant) is a male or female that let's strangers use them sexually at any time. They are individuals who encourage others to use them whenever they want for sexual exploitation. They regard themselves as sexual objects when taken advantage of sexually but regular human beings when not taken advantage sexually. These are also individuals that others in society care for them and look after their wellbeing.

If I could influence culture, I would have it that everyone has sex and masturbates together without intercourse. Those who engage in sexual intercourse are more sexually risky. The whole goal is to have amazing sex and sexual experiences without the risk of unwanted pregnancy. I would have this sexual culture be mainstream allowing the encouragement for entertainment and society to see sexuality as something normal. Sex would be a natural part of society and something normal that people on average engage in. The reason for this is to bring about the intimate society. An intimate society uses sexuality to create a sense of being close to each other and caring for each other which contributes to a happier life and more fulfilling life. People can have being horny as a normal human emotion allowing for a greater understanding of human emotions and life satisfactions removing social stigmas and barriers where people get get more along with each other. I also believe it opens the possibility for more intimate families to created while also retaining family values. I think this form of sexuality can improve society. By seeing sexuality as a natural human emotion, it can give a more realistic view of what real humans are and how they should authentically behave without any social or gender stigmas or barriers allowing for a more intimate society where everyone is respected, uses consent and get along better through mutual cohesion and human understanding. I believe both males and females should actively communicate and demonstrate their sexual attraction for each other. I want to consider they should also use safe sexual practices to relieve others of their strong sexual feelings allowing them to return to a state of normalcy and civility where life can carry on without conflic brought by arousal. Ultimately, I want an improved society without barriers utilizing safe sexuality behaviors while seeing sexuality as a normal human behavior and a part of everyday culture.

(Highly controvercial) I question if safe sexuality should have limits or not. If I were to reimagine safe sexuality and culture, should it be okay to engage in safe sexual behavior with family, strangers, or individuals of higher authority? It sounds taboo, but I have to question it. Pleasuring a family member, a teacher, or a stranger for example would be taboo by today's standards. I would obviously be grearly against it. But I have to ask the question. I feel like the evolution of this standard might change over time where perhaps safe sexual practices becomes the norm and everyone perhaps contributes to the safe sexual urges and reliefs of others despite how it seems taboo and insane right now. I think it would be up to those of the future and what they consent to and feel comfortable with. If there is a method in which they have technologies or tools to prevent pregnancies with 100% accuracy or issues associated with sexual behavior then I suppose sexual practices would be normal and not a human issue anymore. It would be essentially eliminating a problem that has been around since humanity first began I assume. Having this sexual culture or norm probably could be seen as normal and not strange at all. Then I ask the question what would a world like that be like? A world where sexuality feels absent due to how normal it is or included in a new moral vision overlooked by society. Would people be more connected together, more intimate with and towards each other despite their differences, or would there be a less social barriers? Would the idea in general for safe sexuality be worth it if proving the outcomes? There is no research at the moment that I have come across that could prove what the results would be like for this new strange view of society.

I believe morality is culturally defined. It's not something we are born with. Sexuality and arousal is a natural process for reproduction that everyone is born with. I believe we should incorporate this into society and our natural lives and reinvent culture to allow for the harmonious integration of safe sexuality. When I refer to safe sexuality, I mean the safe sexual practices that are cohesive, mutual, consensual, prevents unwanted pregnancies, builds strong families (promotes strong family values), and has the potential to bring community closer together.

Virgin sexualists- highly sexual individuals that prefer to remain virgins yet also engage in sex. These are individuals who prefer sex without intercourse. They may have their reasons to remain virgin or to wait for the perfect a most compatible life partner. These individuals may prefer outtercourse or masturbation as an alternative to sexual activity. Just like sexualists, they also enjoy nudity and sexuality socially.

Part of me believes taking nudes of yourself can be valuable because you eventually lose the way your body looks over time. It's good to look back at your younger body in appreciation of what you once had. If one takes nudes of themselves, it's obviously best to keep it in a secure place or device nobody but yourself can access. Personally, I wouldn't mind leaking my nudes publicly until I'm at an older age and I just don't care about small things like nudes. I sure I won't be famous or anything like that so doing something like this doesn't bother me.

I personally have my phases or behavioral patterns from being high sexual to Asexual and back again. Maybe others have their own patterns.

(term, sexual, nsfw) Sexually Idle - the state of being comfortable being aroused, perhaps in a sexually active enviornment, yet neutral without acting on arousal. A non formal definition can be the state of being horny, behaving casually and normal, and behaving casually around a sexually activity enviornment or around sexual elements.

It's my personal beleif that friends should reserve the idea to masturbate with each other; especially if they are of the opposite gender. If they want to have sex then that's okay as well as long as it's consensual and with protection; however, I would prioritize the idea of just masturbating. I beleive this is what bring friends more close to each other and adds an enormouse depth and value to a very close and friends-for-life friendship style.

I wonder if in the future nudity will become more accepting. Perhaps being clothes while showing nudity could be a new norm. Perhaps the transition to that kind of reality could be that people can walk around publicly fully nude with the use of pasties or wearable stickers to hide their genitals.

(Term; NSFW) Koop - A very close group of friends. A group of friend that spend a lot of time with each other on a daily basis. A group of friends that allow for each other to share a lot of personal details with each other. A group of friends that act as a family. A group of friends that surpass average friendship barriers, such as allowing for the casual exposure of nudity, intimate relationships, and sexual exploration of each other. The ethics of a koop allows each other to treat each other in a way that resolves problems, overcomes obstacles, and work towards collective solutions for the betterment of the group. A group that is with each other, even if there isn't a reason to doing so.

In this culture we want people to feel encouraged to see sexuality as something unrestricted. It's considered appropriate to be naked with friends or watch your friend naked and become aroused wanting to masturbate. Then you can tell them, their body turns them on and that you would like to escape for a bit to masturbate. It should be seen as socially acceptable. To have others tag along to masturbate with you or to tag along to engage in sexual activity is also seen as socially aceptable. Overall, sexual activity is socially acceptable and an excuse to dismiss oneself from others.

It's seen as acceptable for individual to casually engage is sexual activity as a common activity. It's so casual that they can even discuss other subjects while masturbating together or engaged in intercourse. For example, two friends or aquantances talking about work, events, past relationships, and other activities while also masturbating and having intercourse with each other. Overall, this is a culture that sees masturbation, sexual activity, nudity, and sexual interests as a normal and casual way of life. It's considered a normal lifestyle.

Sex beaches - Beaches that allow for nudity, sexual activity, and adult entertainment. Sex fountains - places with water where nudity, sexual activity, and adult entertainment is allowed. Sex tourism - Tourist destinations and locations that allow for nudity, sexual activity, swinging, sexual education, and adult entertainment.

Sexy time - a time in which you pause from the real world to do intimate things with friends and loved ones. It's also the idea that there is a life style balance. A time when sexy time is okay and apropriate and a time when you need to be focused or centered in reality. There is also the principle of concent, a mutual respect for each other, and agreeing on what explicit activities can be agreed upon. For example, if partners wants to just masturbate then that should be the agreement; unless they feel comfortable doing something else.

(sexual culture) Because for cultural reasons, childrens should not see adults engaged in sexual activity. If they were to see adults to be engaged in sexual activity, they should be told they are having adult play time and that adults like to play rough with each other. Every adult is different and not all adults play like this. If more older kids were to see adults engaged in sexual activity, they would probably know what the adults are doing (from an immature mindset not knowing the full cognitive extent due to the limited congnitive expeirnece of premature develomental mental cognitive abilties) and they should be told it's something only adults do, certain adults do who are interested in that kind of stuff, and that children should not pay attention to it. They should also be told it's something they will understand later when they grow older. I think they should look at it as a violation of privacy. They should acknoledge what's going on, respect it, and ignore it. When kids become young adutls, they should be tought about how sexuality works and how they are responsible for their actions and the consiquences of their decisions. They should be told to respect sexuality and that they will also go through changes where a certain emotion could be hard to avoid. They might even want to experiment and try new things and should be taught of the consiquences of sexual activity. They should also learn about consent, how genders are different, and how to protect themsevles sexually. In my opinion guys should make as many female friends as they can and females should make as many male friends as they can and if things get sexually arousing, they should have a culture where they masturbate with each other first before engaging in sexual activity involving intercourse. I believe there should be a progression (or an agreeable progression) where things build up to be mutually agreed and have safe intercourse. All sexual partners should have concern for the safety, protection, and consiquence of their partner. I would also envcourage intercourse to be saved for marriages so that it can be special and where sex can be a binding marriage experience. However, it should be up the individuals to decide if they want to have intercourse or not; nevertheless, the cutlure of incramental process for sexuality (mutual agreement for sexuality) I beleive is essential. I believe perhaps then we can build a moral cultural foundation where if one wants to have sexual fun, they can engage in sexual activity without intercourse which I believe strengthens life-long friendships, understanding of gender differences, and positive sexual development.

In my own culture, sexuality would have it's own place in society. Perhaps a place of it's own in a city, like a red light district. It would be a special place in a city where individuals under a sexual lifestyle can live the way they want and form their own intimate communities. If children were to be brought up in these communities, they would have no choice but to endure and accept the adult nature of thie lifestyle. It's unformtunate but there should also be unique moral values that can be taught in such an adult enviornment. Children can be told this isn't a place for children and it's for adults. It different from normal society. Children would most liely be conditioned to accept this reality so their morals i would assume would be different from the non-adult lifestyles. As long as they know about this and learn to accept both realities of the adult world and the considerable average world, I believe they shouldn't have a problem transitioning from both. Nevertheless, I believe children shouldn't see this adult version of society and should be brought up with the highest moral values in society.

I beleive sexualists should have their own moral values of consent, consideration, mutual respect, respect for the interest of others, saftey for their partners, and overall goodwill for friends, community, and partners. I believe there should also be a respect, acceptance, appreciation, and tolerance for nudity, and sexual activity. I believe there should also be values to improve one's behavior, maintain positive hygene, become the best version of oneself, build and uphold family values, and to always have consideration for others.

I believe the future should include nudity and sexuality and the various psychological social mindsets that are involved to make this form of reality harmonious, respectable, and socially acceptable. I beleive it should be practiced in its own respective areas away where this lifestyle can be appreciated and respected. within this lifestyle, I believe people should adopt positive practices that remove arousal when they become aroused by the bodily displays of other individuals and of their own imagination (such as mastubation becoming a normal occurance for using the restroom). I believe nudity and sexuality should also be a practice that should be celebrated openly with the respect and consideration of others. I want to call this the sexualist society. Within the sexualist society there can be pan sexualists, swingers, BDSM enthusiasts, trasnsexuals, and a variety of other smaller groups that can practice their lifestyles openly, harmoniously, respectfully, with the ability for individuals to express themsevles sexually and without discrimination.

In this culture, the universal rule for when a female dresses up showing genitalia, nipples, and a lot of skin is that guys will look and they should accept that. This is part of taking the responsibility of dressing seducively or understanding the nature of arousal. I think it should be that they encourage guys to look and admire their body. Guys in return should apreciate, respect, or tolerate any skin shown. Guys should also see any skin, genetalia, and nipples as normal and continue life as usual treating a female the same as if she were dressed respctfully. Of course in this culture if they become wildly aroused, they should releif themsevles in private. If they feel they have a connection with the female feeling like she would agree to play sexually with them, then they should ask. If she turns down the offer, then respect it and move on. It should be considered disrespectful to have more than three attemps and to have all times turned down. A female should always be respectful, strong in her position, and choose who she wants to do what with, when, and who. It's important for guys to note that after three attempts, it's considered rude and wrong.

Ipsihg-group - interpersonal poly singles intimate hedonist group. A group of singles that form a bond who gather together to do activities or hang out. A sexualist replacement family of intimate friends.These are individuals who you get to know, who prove themselves to the group by being friendly and demonstrating unique integral qualities/values, who follow a series of ethical principle, and help form a strong group bond. It's a polyamerous hedonist sexual group where sex and nudity is casual where everyone shares each other when they feel like. Everyone understand that each member of the group is a free-spirited individual that does what they like with whomever they want. There is a balance of group activities and sexual circumstances. The group also accepts a time for orgies and voyeurs to watch others have fun. It's a group about consent and respect. It's also about balance. There's a time for everything. The groups goals is to allow people to do activities in groups, relax and cohabitate as a group, and create a family stucture that is intimate and carefree. A common tradition of the group is using rubber wrist bands to show what people want to do or feel, such as: cuddle, horny, rest, become active(do something fun), chill, or go solo.

I think children should understand in this culture adults have two sides. A normal side and a horny side. Like how a person turns into a werewolf in a story. People don't have too much control of their horny side at first so they have to learn to control themselves.

People have many emotional angles. Everyone has a horny angle too. People have a cognitive side and a less cognitive side (under the influence ofnhormones side). Their horny side is on the less cognitive side. I believe everyone needs to be aware of a person's sexual side and accept them for what their sexual preferences are.

(Weird idea) Sexualist marriage contracts- this is a marriage contract for polyamerous sexualists that lasts 10 to 20 years. This allows sexualists to keep looking for new partners and to have as many children as they want. Their children can come visit their contract partners whenever they want. Assets belong to their origional partners so nobody gets anything.

Sexualist society: There are two types: conservative and hedonistic. Conservative is more focused on the nonsexual side of cuture where hedonist is open to the various forms of sexual interests. Both types can coexist with each other. The sexualist society is a swinger-friendly society. Its a nudist friendly society. It's nudist-friendly depending on establishment or location. Nudism has a formal appeal and expectation where nude-enthusiasts utilize towels, extreme hygiene, and grooming. Grooming is essential as it makes one's body more socially appealing and socially acceptable. There is a cultural value that if you are horny, you should masturbate and return to normal. If you're with a partner, it's okay to have them sexually relieve you if you're horny. You are also socially expected to have the personal values to clean up after yourself. If you cum in the bathroom and miss, you are expected to clean up after yourself. Jobs and other locations might have unisex bathrooms. Genderism is not relevant in this society. Everyone is seen as a human person with similaries and respected differences. Jobs may have sex rooms for sexualists. It's believed to use these sexrooms at work to help others relieve their hornyness and get back to work. Sex rooms are as relevant as gyms at work. Jobs can have sex-parties and swinger-partys for sexualists after work. These events are non-mandatory and are targeted for sexualist individuals. Nonswingers can dress up in lengerie if they want and watch. Many formal parties have sex party's afterwards. There is always respect for relationships and family. Young individuals cannot stay for sex-parties unless of consenting age. Young teenagers surrounding a selective age can have their own sex parties where they can explore, learn, and develop good sexual habits. Its mainly a poly-sexual culture but when a family is made, it's encouraged to become monogamous due to family responsibilities. There is a culture of mutual respect and appreciation. There is a respect for all forms of sexuality, preferences, interests, and bdsm roles. Everyone asks about the sexuality style of others. Everyone respects each other's sexual preferences or if they want to be virginist and selebate. Naturally this culture with be I tomato first until you tell others you are selebate. Then they should apologize and show an alternate form of respect where touching and intimate behavior is restricted. Within the sexualist culture, the population follows cultural sexual values or steps to prevent pregnancies. The steps are very important to follow and it's believed that if followed correctly there won't be any undesired pregnancies. Continuing, this society allows for curiosity and to want to naturally know more about others. It's also a society that accepts, tolerates, respects femboys, traps, tomboy, trans, pans, androgynous individuals, and other kinds of personal preferences. Even if you're not into the same gender, you'r still open to accepting and embracing these individuals. In addition, being intimately close, light touching, hugs, and cuddling is a normal cultural value. There is the expectation that anyone can walk up to you and sit in your lap or wrap their arms around you if the mood feels right and you don't look too intimidating or are too intimidated. In this intimate society, environment mood is important and observing body language and expressions to get a feel of another's reaction and emotions are important. Its a very reactionary, behavior observing, and mood-reading society. If people feel something is not right with you then they won't mess with you. The vision of people in this society is never to judge first. Everyone is expected to be intelligent, critical thinking, and having goals. If a large flamboyant femboy or man-child sits in your lap, your first reaction is to not act with hostility or judge the person and instead to learn more about this person through simple conversation. People are expected to be harmless(unless if there is a situation that demands it but even then it would be about strategy and outcome). If by chance a person is very angry and someone wraps their arm around them or sits in their lap, there is no instant violent reaction or lashing out in hostility. Instead, due to an expected personalized sense of ethical values (personal obligation to maintain harmony in society), the person will politely unwrap themselves and walk away or tell another they are angry then excuse themselves. The same reaction would be for both genders. If a guy were to lay his head on a random lady's lap, she wouldn't just rudely walk away, she would talk with them. If a lady did that with a guy, the guy start talking with them. It's perceived that females might get scared more easily in society due to uncertain outcomes, but in this society there shouldn't be a risk of any harm from another because if there was the consiquence you be great due to expectations of the publics trust and expectation to maintain social harmony. Continuing, reading body language, micro-expressions, emotional or verbal hints, and overall behavior and mood is widely observed in society. Society expects everyone to share the common value to preserve the harmony in society and to not react out of violence or hostility. If this happens, people don't associate with the ones who don't meet social expectation until they learn this value. Everyone looks out for each other, respects each other, respects their intersts, and treats each other well; even in sexual activities. Society is also accepting of public bdsm and other seemingly degenerate behaviors. People want each other to feel happy and satisfied. It's a society that believes everything has a resolution, solution,  can find a way to make a deal, or meet-in-the-middle. On more extreme circumstances, society has a codeword that is like calling for help. It's a codeword that acts like a social emergency call and breaks any role or bdsm values. People take this word extremely seriously so it's only used for emergencies. If anyone hears it in society, they will run mindlessly and immediately to help. Theyll still react if they hear the word help, buts it's open for the possibility that it could be a false alarm unlike if they hear the emergency keyword where everyone will swarm to help. Moving on, out of respect people kiss on the cheek. Kissing on the lips are also okay if it's consensual but is aimed more at relationships in this culture. Furthermore, metally ill, creepy people, stalkers, and psychotic or sociopathic perverts are excluded from society as a large security risk from this form of society. It might also be a challenge for a person who has difficulty reading body language and expression to integrate into this form of intimate society. Nevertheless, people are expected to use sexuality as a way to unite society and keep society intimate. It wants a society where everyone can be trusted and have the expectation to do the right thing. People are expected to be smart, logical, critical thinking, respectful to each other (unless by bdsmroles), preserves the harmony in society, be honest, be truthful, have sexual discipline, and utilize a personal sense of ethics that demonstrates a personal desire for goodwill and cooperation with others. These are some ideas on the values of the sexualist society.

I think sexualists should have adult play rooms. Rooms used for sexual activities where they can show guests the adult side of their lives. It should be reserved for individuals who are only okay with this material or who are also sexualists and this part of culture is seen as normal. They can show their collection of toys, gadgets, bdsm equipment, imagery, cloths, and other adult related assets. It's a room where other sexualists can get together and play with each other as a recreational or leisure activity. Having this room depends on your partner. I think these rooms are mostly intended for swinger and polyamerous type of individuals.

Secualist community center- a sexualist community resort for a variety of recreational activities. It's a two part resort where on one side people can be clothed and on the other, they can be nude. On the nude side, it's more of the horny side so you are free to ask for consent to play with people. On the clothed side, you can wear langeire or anything sexy or anything you want. The center is for millenials and genz. Guys are encouraged to bring lady friends. All locations can allow for people to have sex, masturbate, or get naked if they want.The location features a teaching center, a reading and study area, many pools, sports areas, computer area (porn is acceptable). There are bracelets you can buy if you want something. Then you can wear it and someone will talk to you if they can help. There are rules in this place. Respect and Consent comes first. Treat each kindly. Be honest and polite. If you're married talk about the swining life first. Here, we are all lewdies. So sex doesn't makes us ashamed or intimidates us. We highly recommend to always groom yourself. We emphasize to used towels and good hygiene. Here we are all lewders and we love sex and pleasure. We respect life and uphold responsibilities to protect ourselves from unintentional births before they happen. Everyone here is equal. We are all friends, family, and colligues. We see each other as equals. We like to use reciprocity. We like to help each other fulfill desires.

I believe sexualism is only appropriate in sexualist-safe areas. It should not be shown in public where it's not acceptable/accepted. In average society, it should be kept private in respect to society. It is a culture that is much like swinging; its not for everyone and it should be kept private for one of the reasons that the world is not open or ready for such a culture. If a location says its safe, then it's okay to engage in sexualist behaviors and activities.

In sexualism, it's encouraged that everyone can be friends or intimate friends with each other. I call this the sexual collective. Females sees guys almost like themselves and guys see females almost like themselves despite their mental, biological, and physical differences. By this I mean there is a sense of unity through androgynaity. Guys are one with lady's and lady's are one with guys where the idea of being sexual promiscuity is widely accepted by both (both can be sluts, are respected for being sluts, and nobody cares). All members want each other to feel good, feel pleasure, be happy, and sexually satisfied. Sexuality is believed to be a form of unity, bond, and friendship. It's a culture in which builds a new vision of interaction, interpersonal communication, social unity, humanism, sexuality, ways of thinking, and human cohesion.

Edge-party - a group masturbation that involves no intercourse which includes both genders casually masturbating together. Members can "edge" with their clothes on or off. They can also "edge" hiding themselves using a towel. It's where a group enjoys adult entertainment together or enjoys watching others masturbate. It's a mutual group activity that brings members closer together.

Sexualism is much more them about sexuality. It's about living a greater and more intelligent lifestyle with an intimate and trusting community. It's about intellectuality, ethics, goodwill to others and an expectation of goodwill of others towards oneself. It's about intelligence, critical thinking, questioning everything out of curiosity and greater understanding. Its about growing wealth and living well, being your authentic self, improvi g yourself to be the best you can, and living a fulfilling, free, and liberating lifestyle.

I believe minors should not interact sexually with adults. I think it's not right. I had one major controversial thought cross my mind although. Should underage ladies be allowed to grind? What if grinding was a way to help them develop positive sexual habits? Habits such as body imaging, dissociation with sexuality and shame, self-acceptence, and respect for their bodies and their ability to have children (or being the most important part of life as gatekeeper of the human species). What if society developed a tolerance for sexuality to the point it didn't mean anything where they taught ever member positive sexual development, positive sexual habits, sexual-discipline, respect, and tolerance. What if ginding was a way to teach ladies to accept themselves, accept their body, respect sexuality, and embrace the humans nature of sexuality/procreation? Could grinding be a way to develop positive sexual behaviors? Perhaps this topic is far too extreme, but I keep thinking this could be a positive way to develop positive sexual habits while not having any sexual engagment. It's a highly controversial topic. It also could lead to more dire behaviors so I'll just consider it and move on.

I like to think that females are the gate keepers to humanity. They choose who they want their partners to be and whos genes will be passed on to the future. Some people believe that's why females are not supposed to be like males and should find quality partners and be married. I believe it's up to the individual to decide how they want to live their lives. I think divers visions of lifestyle and how to live life is healthy. If a person wants to have an active sexual life then this is okay as long as they are educated, can critically think, and are capable of making good decisions.

I think a major rule in for sexualists should be no sexual behaviors around family or families.

I think two major rules for sexualists should be no sexual behaviors around family or families and no conflicts with other already in a relationship. Sexualists need to see if others are okay with open relationships by allparties first (like swinging or polyamoury).

How do you know who's a sexualist (aka lewdy)? Their open, carefree, or authentic personality, their confidence and charm, and their free-to-be horny attitude. They're not ashamed of being intimate and close with others. They like to touch the skin of others who they feel won't take offense. They like to get really close with others and test others on how intimate they can get. They often don't mind flirting and portraying their sexual energy and sexually-free behaviors. They also talk openly about their sexuality (maybe initially with caution with strangers until they get to know them or maybe seem like they wont take offense; if a person doesnt care what others think then they are free to say whatever they want but this could cause others to pull away because of their sensitivities and insecurities). When sexualists start to talk about sexuality, they are comfortable, confident, polite, and perhaps decourous. Often they will prod, temptate, and test their sexual expressions (give and take to see what level of sexual amplitude others are comfortable with) to see if another is or can get comfortable with sexual culture. Sexualists love making others comfortable to express a side of them they might reserve or have never explored before. Moreover, sexualists are polite, consentual, considerate of others, considerate of the reaction of others, respect monogomous relationships, and build sexual tention through touch, energy (mood), proximity, and talk. Sexualists are masters of body language and feeling the reaction of others. They are mental strategists of how to get closer with others. Depending on the perceived interests of a person, they can strategies methods for charm. Primarily they use proximity as a key ingredient. Proximity says a lot about a sexualist's intentions. When they meet strangers they are closer than the normal person. This shows they are an intimate, close, and confident person. When they like the other person, they are a lot more closer then usual and will often flirt and touch others. They will try to match energies when they meet others to get others to immediately like them. They are like a psychic in manupulating the energies and body language to test a reaction in others. If a sexualist is aroused and like another, they try to eminating strong sexual energy (metaphorically speaking). They try to get others to feel the same sexual energy and to see if they also feel the same way. When they match energies, it could lead to closer friendsships or steamy situations. When a sexualist meets another sexualist, it should be like meeting a life-long friend. As a group, sexualists are a lewd community where everyone is like a deep, intimate, and close friend. They are free to behave naturally and freely where nudity and sexuality doesn't matter. They are well groomed, hyper-hygenic, and very considerate of how others see them. The idea of gender norms are also thrown out the window as there is no more expectation of how genders should behave. Around others sexualsists, they don't mind being touched, spanked, or treated like an intimate sexual partner as long as you know the other person. In the sexualist culture, people who are desperate for attention, desperate for a love, egotistical, narcisistic, lack mental maturity and consent, show signs of being psychotic and dangerous, are ostracized. Everyone has expectations and values so that sexualists can behave freely without fear, harm, or danger. I think sexualists should stick together. They are like a sexy family free to be their sexy selves and nobody will judge them. They are a group that care about each other, enjoy making each other feel good, and are there for each other when needed. Members let each other be themselves, even if they are having inconsistant moods swings or a nervous breakdown. Everyone is like a girlfriend and boyfirend whenever they want someone to be. All differences are worked out with well thought decisions. Drama is something that is only for people who are still mentally maturing and have a lot to grow and learn to deal with the insecurities, honesties, and flaws within themselves.

If I could invision a culture, I would like adults to share a sexual appreciation with each other where people can be very sexual yet still have respect and overlook another's sexual side. Its something everyone has in common. An example can be respecting your co-worker if they have a sexual camming business where you can watch them participate in adult behaviors. It's a world where adult behavior is not shamed, widely accepted, and considered normal as part of a person's lifestyle and personality. It's a world where everyone knows everyone gets aroused and there is an expectation of respect and acceptance.

Perhaps there's four kinds of sexuality styles: male fantasy sexuality style and female sexuality fantasy style to start. Then there is hybrid or switched sexuality style where it's mixed or switched during sexual activities. Finally there is androgynous sexuality style where the sexual style is not of anyone's fantasy but made unique between individuals or made unique on the account of bluring, washing, or comforming gender roles and norms.

In this culture, ladys are considered "gate keepers" to civilization and humanity. The culture believes without them, there would be no humanity. That is why they are greatly respected. As sexual partners, they choose who they want to partner and have erotic play-time with. Guys have to respect their decisions. This culture is built upon consent, consideration, and respect. With the gender-cohesive ideology, guys must put themsevles in their shoes and consider how they should be treated.

Gender cohesion and gender neutrality in this culture does not mean the same thing as it does with critical race/gender theory, inclusive-woke tribal ideology, or any Marxist based ideologies. This culture is based on freedoms, liberties, and the desire to improve human and social behavior and unite people for a dramatically more intimate and liberating society. It desires a society that has sexual and bodily freedoms, socio-security and safety through ethics and expected behavior, and a new social behavior that allows humanity to thrive with less socio-limitations allowing people to be their authentic selves in public.

In this culture, ladies understand that if they reveal their body figure or intimate features, guys will look. Out of respect guys shouldn't stare. The ideology of the culture is both genders have a neutrality to them. There is a balance. When things are not steamy, guys see ladys like themselves (a sense that we are all human and although genders are different, there are similarities). Members of the culture recognize the gender differences but treat each other with respect and a sense of cohesion and gender-unity-and-androginy.

(term) Gender-unity-and-androginy - a phrase that is used to describe gender-cohesion or gender-neurtrality. This is where both males and females learn and recognize each other differences but treat each other as one ("different but similar", "one and the same"). It is a social bond where there is an androginy that guys and ladys are the same despite their differences. Therefore, females provide a mutual behavior where they treat guys as other ladys as well as being guys. At the same time, guys provide a mutual behavior to treat ladys as ladys yet as guys as the same time. It's a gender culture that learns to cooperate and behave mutually with each other forming an integrated bond by learning and recognizing their differences. This behavior is new and not native to current modern culture. In order to develop this new culture and mutual behavior, society will first have to learn in detail the differences between each gender and reinvent themsevles into a mutual behavioral state where all members can get along and be deeply united. To do this humanity requires ethics. Ethics will allow members to be honest and learn about themsevles and show ways they can constantly improve their behavior and learn about how to better behave with others without conflict. Conflicts will always occur but when everyone learns their average differences about gender specific causes, a behavior can be developed and used in a way that minimizes or removes possibility for conflict. I think these behaviors should be taught in institutions. Moreover, this behavior also includes sexual self-dicispline. As the saying should go in this culture, if one feels horny they should relieve themselves in the bathroom. If they are a sexualist then they can have their partner or another sexualist help them. Overall, this will create a new mutual gender-cohesive behavior or gender-neutral behavior that will intimately unites all members into a more raw human-based interactive socio-behavior.

(term) Surin (soo-rin)- Surin is a term in this culture that means "improved-human". It means a human who utilizes ethics, the culture's sexual philosophy/lifestyle, gender-cohesion, and improved behaviors to be a new example for society.

I feel like sociopaths and psychopaths have a link between nudity, sexuality, and violence, gore, and extreme deprivity. I heavily disagree with this. I believe nudity and sexuality should have an innocent or raw human feel. I believe there should be a raw-human appreciation. I believe nudity and sexuality should be used to unite people, make people authentic, make society and communities more intimate, and overall make society more free and liberating.

I think if society were to fall apart and collapse, this ideology, philosophy, and lifestyle could cause harm to a broken society and system. That is why I say society is not yet ready for this version of society. It requires personal principle, and loyalty to personal values and ethics to preserve such an intimate culture. If society were to collapse, I would like this culture to be so fundamentally rooted in one's personal values and ethics that members in this culture and lifestyle preserve this culture as if it was a personalized lifestyle and philosophy they cannot live without; it is part of them and an identity or group identity for all like-minded members (a culture that promotes harmony, improvment (personal imporvment), truth/objectivity, logic, intelligence, critical thinking/ intellectuality, strategy, respect, self-discipline, and so much more). Moreover, as a tool for remembering personal values, iconography might be a good idea. Personally, I think the best way to preserve this philosophy is with a durable wall that is ledgable, very durable, and too high to climb and deface and ruin. I personally think it would be interesting to make a zigarat with elevated text (perhaps an updated charter of ethics )because this version of humanity reminds me of the early time of Sumerian history and mythology (the Enuma Elish) of when Ia first created Adapa and made the first human-society. Of course the first version of humanity in the mythology was made to mine for the Gods and replace the Duranki/Agigi. These first humans experimented with the first societies. It must of been an exciting world when humanity was first developming, learning, and discovering things for the first time. Although their level of intelligence wasn't as complex as our today and their breeding and behaviors later became difficult for their rulers to control and society to manage, I believe this ideology is the turning point of the failed challenges and human-obstacles of the past. I believe with edcuation, critical thinking, self-improvment to improve ones behaviors, self-discipline, and acountability through law and ethics, I believe humanity, in the right time, can overcome the challenges and defects of their past ancestors allowing society to improve and redevelop itself into a society where sexuality and nudity is irrelavent or less importance then as people see it today and people are deeply and intimately united to come together to make a better life and world for each other and their progress, journey, and evolution into the future.

Linkinis - lingerie bikinis and one pieces. Lin-wear - regular clothes mixed with lingerie. Sex-friendly products - average products with built in sex-toy devices. Bloomies - panties that are ment to be worn standalone. These are panties that people can wear publicly. It's also a trend where lady's can wear simply.panties in public and it's considered a street fashion trend. Sex-toy briefs - underwear with build in sex toy devices. Sex-toy brassieres - bras that have vibrating and pulsating devices. Pleasure-set services - businesses and business services that incorporate handjobs, sexual-massages, and non-intercourse services as a casual business service.

I believe porn needs to have a more strict age gate and should have more labels and warnings. I believe porn should not be banned, It's part of adult culture. If it's banned then it goes underground, like prohibition in the 1900s, and becomes a large underground industry. I believe underage individuals should not have access to this material until a certain age. I believe all adult sites and content should continue to have age-gates. I believe after an age-gate, adult sites should have another labels talking about how all adult content. It should tell the audience that adult content is fanatsy, it's forbidden for minors, It's not a usual method for making money because you can lose oportunties, and the adult material is only intended for individuals of age and mental maturity. I also think there should be addiciton warnings and a help number if a person is addicted or has questions to ask. Warning or notices/ads should adress or promoat life balance, self-discipline, personal responsibility, making positive life decisions, and if they are addicted they should admit and confront their addiction and explore the reason for their addiction (whether it's family, insecurities, trauma, or desire for endorphins due to bordom). In conclusion, I believe porn is nothing but fanatsy and entertainment. I think it's okay to watch once in a while as long as people are responsible for their lives and stay in touch with real people and real relationships.

I believe part of mental maturity is being honest with yourself, questioning and being honest about ones own philosophy on sexuality, learning about sexuality, practicing self-discipline, and being responsible for oneself and owns life decisions. People should strive for imporvment and make the best life decisions possible.

I think people against sexuality know very little about sexuality and of adult culture. They know very little about BDSM, swinging-culture, sexual preferences, implied sexual social norms/rules/explicit conduct (such as: respect, consent, and consideration). I think people who are against sexuality probably have family-complex issues (issues extending to their own personal life experiences, insecurities, and family), an inability to question honestly about their sexuality and develop their own views on sexuality, have a inability to critically think and do their own research on sexual subjects, have a fear to learn about sexuality, are ignorent about what they dont know (nor care to know), and result to virtue signalling as a solution instead of letting people do what they want, find their own solutions to find happiness, and let them make their own life decisions and form their own communities. They lack respect for individual freedom and another's persuit for liberty, lifestyle, and happiness. They impose their own authoritarian views and methods of control over others. There are people who will turn to the bible for answers. They will claim sexuality is for marriage and is a sin. It's a sin ever since it became a major doctrine in the Roman Catholic Church during the Roman period of history. Prior to the creation of the church it was a law made by Hammurabi(Hammurapi) during the Bablonian/Mesopotamian era (exodus in the bible and the times of Moses; before Hammurabi's law was the laws of Ur-Namu in the third period of Ur in Sumer/Akkad); however, that was more conserning marriages, family, slaves, and not general sexuality (note humanity was also mainly under the rule of the city dieties and lords. In those times, sexuality was common and subjected to house slaves and prostitution. The Catholic Church did not invent marriage, Sumerians invented marriage so that they could keep track of decendents of kings, families, wealth, and dieties. They also made marriage as a way to control population sizes, manage society (manage resources), and that people wouldn't mate with each other uncontrolably. If using Sodum and Gomorrah as an exmaple, then I would simply state society is far more complex and sophisticated, not to mention more educated, since back then. It's understood that sexuality displeased Yahowah (Hayah Howeh Yihyeh from the Hebrew Pentateuch) due to the immorality and curruption the city had turned into. I believe if the people of those times were as educated, had self-discpline, stood up for principle, had the personal drive to be a role model by upholding logical values(values that make sense and understood the reasons), could critically think, has a set of principles, ethics, and personal values to prevent society from decaying to such immoral state, I believe things would be different and God/ Yahowah perhaps wouldn't have destroyed the city. I believe their destruction was brought about my the ignorence and incompetence of their leaders. I also would state it's each individual's fault of the city for not upholding principle values which could have prevent their city from being destroyed and the ruin of sexuality in Jewish culture which later led to Cristianity.

I believe people addicted to sex and porn need more balance, self-discpline, need to be responsible for their lives, need to improve their lives by making better decisions, and understand that porn is a fantasy and is not real. It is not a good choice to make money as it prevents many oportunties.

Regarding adult culture, I think western civilization needs to learn self-discipline, balance, mental maturity, do more research, and be responsible for their lives and make better decisions. I think if this is done then nobody would care about porn, adult culture, or adult alternative lifestyles.

Adult culture should seek, be on the lookout, or remove sociopathic and psychopathic individuals from adult culture because it's these individuals who are believed to tie or evolve sexuality into extremely demoralizing, questionably ethical, and violent and disturbing narratives. These individuals are likely to have, develop, or find arousal to violent and disturing behaviors which could lead to self-harm or the harm of others. I believe sexuality should be a culture of safety, confidence, and without fear.

To prevent a future Sodum and Gomorrah, I believe there should be static unchagable sexual principles. I also believe all members should be greatly educated and have a self-desire for ethics and to be role models for others when part of a sexual culture. It's important that they can critically think and understand the reasons for sexual principles. If they cannot uphold sexual principles then they should not be part of this culture.

I can see and understand the world is filled with virtue signalers and people who are strongly against sexuality so I believe sexualists need their own safe space. It's importantt hat sexualists are harmless, generous, and wish goodwill on everyone despite if others like them or not.

I'm strongly convinced sexual ideologies cannot exist in a world filled with virtue signalers that know nothing about sexuality and ethics. Ideologic authoritarians would prevent any meaningful discussions. Most of society today strongly believes sexuality is the most taboo and sensitive topic that could ever exist. I believe sexuality is the topic that is most misunderstood, most mysterious, and is the topic that has a lot to learn, explore, and innovate. I believe learning about sexuality can improve the quality of life, imporve marriage, and create a more intimate, opened, warm, united, and close society.

(Controversial) I'm against any content related to adult material involving children. I want to consider that I think if a child was exploited for adult-related content, they should be compensated with a payment for the rest of their life by their exploiter

With girls you have to make them beg for d*ck. You have to kiss them, touch them, play with them, joke with them, then back off for a bit. Then wait a while then play with them kiss them then back off for a bit, you have to make them feel very wet and horny by repeating the steps and getting more creative every time. Just be yourself and have fun.. If she stops getting horny then it's okay. Better luck next time. If you are successful and you get her to beg for it, they'll never get tired and enjoy the steamy experience every time.

Sexualism: after you become 18, you become a mutual. A mutual means everyone is the same. If you are a sexual-hedonist, it means you are a sexual partner or companion that is open to sexual engagements for all sexualists above the age of 18. You are part of a mutual commuminity, family, or expected friendship-hood where sex can be spontaneous and random with any partner you choose as long as you have consent and give consent. In the end everyone wants to feel good and help others feel good (or satisfied).

Sexualist sexuality doesn't always have to be about intercourse. You can simple enjoy each others presence in the nude or while foreplaying, teasing, role-playing or playing around nude with your friends. You can play with them and engage in sexual practices that don't involve penetratiom of genitals. We call this light playing, outercourse, or puppy play.

Children and family does not mix with sexuality. Step family is questionable.

(Couples and Sexualism) People should introduce their interests when they meet potential partners for the first time. They should let them know if they're monogomous, polyamorous, or allow for swinging. They should be honest and should be with the person or people they are compatable with who have similar interests. If they want swinging, they need to find a person who is okay with swinging before the realtionship starts. Any sexualist party or festivity should have a warning or preawarness of any sexual activity that could happen or might go on. If they go to a party and there is to be sexual activity or adult elements, they have to understand what are they comfortable with before they go. If sexual elements are to occure, no children are allowed. Couples have to disguss and agree to adult things, elements, consentual activites and limits. In sexual events in parties it's common to see couples engage in intercourse with each other surrounded by others. In a sexual party, monogomists should only participate in sexual activities with their partners unless they agree on other circumstances. If they are poly they should only do it with their polyamerous partners unless they agree otherwise. Only if they are swingers and it's been thoroughly discussed and agreed upon with their partner is when they should allow swinging. New swingers should take it step by step to ensure for the first time if their partner is comfortale, mentally prepared, and okay with doing things with thier partner's consent. They should ask their partner if they should continue on to do penetrative activities and intercourse. The reason for all these consentual rules and agreements is to protect one's relationship and overall family values. Sxualism desires a preservation and protection of families and family values. Furthermore, if everything is done right then it midigates conflicts, dramas, and potential relationship disasters. If done right, people can have sexy time with their partners in the company of friends and other couples and have a very great time. This can also be done with or without sharing partners, depending on what's agreed upon and what is comfortable with in one's relationship. This is a culture that desire long lasting marriages and relationships where familys can grow in a positive direction.

Beirf terms: Monogomous - a single relationship with a single significant other (also called a traditional relationship). Polyamerous - a relationship with multiple people (Open Polyamerous relationship means there can be many members or a dynamic of members coming and going). Limited Polyamerous - A relationship with three or four members. Swinger - a person who swaps partners (Also called swinger couples). Hemonist Bachelor - A person who is single who enjoys sex (also called a lewdy).

*The reason I believe in sexualism is because I believe people should embrace and have the full human experience; this includes sexual and adult cultures and experiences. It's only through ethics this can be allowed. By ethics I mean the values I explain in my Ethics Terms and Phrase Diagram or the Charter of ethics. People should choose what adult cultures and values they are comfortable with.

This sexual culture desires the preservation, protection, positive growth, and security of families and family values. It also advocates the protection and preservation of innocence for children. Children are to be protected and their innocence should also be valued and protected. There are values in sexualism where family and children do not mix with sexuality. Step families that are non-blood related are questionable. Nudity in family depends on one's own family culture. Age of consent is heavily emphasized. Also, commonly the ten year rule surrounding one's age in regards to dating is also loosely emphasized. Loosely emphasized because of sugar mamas and sugar daddys desiring older or younger individuals to have as life-companions or trophy companions.

Usual sexy ways to spend with friends: 1 Nudi-time - causal time without clothes. Be sure to have a towel. 2 Bath time - baths and showers with friends. 3 Nude or semi-nude sleepovers - sleeping over with friends with lingerie, without clothes, or partially with clothes. 4 Sexy nap time - getting naked and comfortable to take a nap together. 5 Sexy hangout, gatherings, or chilling - hanging out comfotably by dressing in lingerie, speedo, partially clothed, or nude. Be sure to bring a towel. 6 Sexy barbiques - casual nude, semi-nude, speedo, or lingerie bartbique. 7 Sexy campires - hanging outdoors nude or semi-nude with friends. 8 Nude traveling - traveling in the nude, semi-nude, in a speedo, or in casual-daytime lingerie. Be sure to bring a towel. 9 Sexy dance night - Having a night where you invite friends to play music and dance while being in the nude, semi-nude, speedo, or in lingerie. 10 Sexy LAN gaming night - gaming in the nude, semi-nude, lingerie, or speedo. If nude or semi-nude, be sure to bring a towel. 11 Tanning - being outside with friends in the nude or partially nude or with a speedo tanning. 12 Skinny dipping - swimming in the nude or partial nude. 13 Sexy game night - playing games and boardgames in the nude, semi-nude, lingerie, or speedo. Be sure to bring a towel if nude. 14 Sexy movie night - Watching a movie in the nude, semi-nude, speedo, or lingerie. Be sure to bring a towel if in the nude. 15 Sexy karaoke - karaoke with friends in the nude, semi-nude, speedo, or lingerie. If nude, bring a towel. 16 Drinking night - a night where you drink together with friends. Be sure to bring and use condoms. 17 Sexy art, crafts, and mini projects day - A day where you make art, art projects, crafts, build objects, sculpt, paint, draw, write, read, or build a project together in the nude, semi-nude, or in lingerie. 18 Sexy cooking - Cooking with friends in the nude, semi-nude, lingerie, or speedo. 19 Nude gardening - getting naked or pratially naked to work in the garden and outdoors. 20 Sexy homework time - doing homework with friends in the nude, semi-nude, in a speedo, or lingerie. Use a towel if nude. 21 Sexy car wash - wash your vehicles in the nude ro semi-nude. 22 Nude hiking or nude walk - walking a private or secluded trail naked or partially naked. 23 Nude boating - being on a boat with friends in the nude or semi-nude. Be sure to bring a towel. 24 Nude fishing - fishing in the nude or semi-nude. 25 Sexy photography - taking private photos in the nude, semi-nude, lingerie, or speedo. 26 Nude outdoor activies - outdoor games, shooting, hunting, and sports in the nude or semi-nude. 27 Sexy chores, organizing, and rearranging - Doing home chores, cleaning, organizing, dusting, vacuuming, or furniture rearranging in the nude or semi-nude. 28 Sexy time - a time you spend with one or more friends in the nude, semi-nude, lingerie, or in a speedo. Be sure to have a towel on hand. 29 Sex party or orgy - Inviting friends for a steamy sex party where they can bring their significant others and have sex with them while everyone also has sex with their partners. If they are swingers they can also swap partners and let people who are single bachelors have sex. Overall, it's a party where people get naked, can be semi-naked, wear lingerie, and wear speedos. It's good to bring condoms, lubricant, toys, equipment, and sexy photo albums. It's a great time to show sexual home videos or favorite p0rn. The sexy mood needs to be set before the sexual activities. Everyone is responsible for their hygene, health, and cleaning up after themselves. There is a respect for the home, location, or establishment. Everyone is to be considerate, be consensual, and be nice and respectful of each other. Everyone should leave the party sexually satisfied. 30 Roleplaying - friends can be gathered for roleplay scenarios where everyone comes up with ideas for a story and a host and assigns or allows member to be charcters and they enact a roleplay reality with it's own challenges, dramas, advantures, sexual experiences, and events. 31 BDSM sessions - Everyone gathers for BDSM and roleplay sessions where they get to experince the fetishes they are comfortable with. Members are also allowed to be voyeur and simply watch.

Sexual "Fluidphobe" - Some individuals might think sex is gross or that they don't like it because of the mess or bodily fluids. This is okay. Everyone should be comfortable with what they like and what they want. The term "fluidphobe" comes from a person who doesn't like the exchange of fluids. The best method for them is sex without kissing, oral sex, anal sex, or even intercourse-penetration. Instead they should have sexual fun with foreplay, massages, sexual roleplaying, or outercourse. Methods of outercourse can be dry humping, humping one's buttocks, masturbation by another, mutual masturbation, intercourse with a person's legs together...etc. Once this person get aroused they are free to masturbate and help others feel good with what they are comfortable with doing. There should be no pressure and it's okay to be nervous. Everyone is to have a great time, build friendships, and have positive experiences. It's also okay to have guilt afterwards because of cultural values, but overtime it because a casual, fun, and fulfilling experience.

Sexualist Community; respect all values of everyone. Accept religeon but with the acception of sexuality or the sexual sins of the body. It's a belief that sexuality is meant to be included in the average human everyday experience. It is not a Marxist-tribalist tribe and it is not a political-driven ideology. It desires an authentic community. It also wishes to be a respected community with it's own set of traditions, culture, philosophies, and behaviors.

(Ideas for sexualism; huge maybe, worth considering) Members are called different things. New members or guests to the community are called initiants or anits. These are people who do not know the behaviors, ethics, or culture of sexualism and are learning and getting familiar with it for the first time and learning about the community. Then you have menages. Menages are members of the community. Menages means family and act as a family similar to brothers and sisters. Children in the community are called mins. Mins are to be protected away from sexual culture. They are to be aware but innocent of the culture the adults engage in. Teeangers are called Sersians. Teenagers are supposed to seek friendships and relationships with other Sersians. Sersian sexuality is only with other sersians. There are two type of teenage sersians: consersians and prosertians. Consersians are virgin teenagers and prosersian are non-virgin teenagers. Teenagers choose if they want to have intercourse or not. If they make a person pregonant then that is their partner for life. Prosersian teens are allowed to have sex and intercourse all they want, but at their own risk. They are asked to keep in mind the person they have sex with is the person they might be married to. They can only have sex with individuals around their age group. Once they reach the age of content (17/18 depending on country) they become Surins. Surins are your average sexualists who engage in the sexualist culture. There are two kinds of surins: convidia and providia. Convidia are your conservative community members and providia are your hedonistic community members. Convidia are considered conservative members because they are more for nudism and limited sexuality. Providia are for hedonistic members who enjoy sex for fun. Seniors in the culture are called Menagaries (ages 65+).

I like the word ménage. I will keep this. Ménage are all members of the sexualist community. This means family and act as a family similar to brothers and sisters. Surins are individual members of the sexualist community. "I am a surin who's part of a ménage (family) in my community."

Learning ethics is extremely important for this sexual culture. The ethics can be found on my blog (https://stanleysphilosophyblog.blogspot.com/2022/03/my-ethics-terms-and-phrases-diagram.html)

Sexual discipline allows males to moderate, withdrawl, conserve, or ignore irrational sexual behavior and to produce a culture where they can see something that arouses them, enjoy it visually, but understand they should not interact with what arouses them out of respect and comfort for another. An example can be to imagine themelseves as the other person and to imagine their comfort. They are allowed to appreciate the form but they cannot pursue interaction based on sexual desire. They understand they should relieve themselves sexually in private if they become too aroused. Sexual discipline allows other to be tolerated or ignored if they are nude, partially nude, showing sensitive areas of the body, or occupied in sexual activities. It allows for a society that conditions itself to allow for public nudity and public sexuality as a common activity that is normalized and overlooked or ignored by common social behavior.

//Reminder that my sexual ideology is my own and something I believe in but I do not use it in daily life. It's an ideology the world isn't ready for. I wouldn't mind sharing it and making it known, but it's not to be applicable in current daily life. It's something I mostly rather keep to myself.

Sexualists are considerate. If they are in a place that allows them to be loud or in an orgy, they will moan and be loud. If it's a location that's more respectful or formal, they'll have more quiet sex out of respect.

-In nonformal place or gathering ladies can relax about having to cross their legs and act like decadent ladies. They are free to be themselves and don't have to care about anyone looking up their skirt or into opening in their clothes. They don't have to worry or feel insecure if their sensitive bits are exposed. Guys will notice but will have tolerate, ignore, overlook, or disregard it due to their sexual discipline, maturity, respect, and in consideration. The more they are exposed to it, the more they will build tolernece. If they get uncontrollably horny, then they should relieve themselves in private to get back to normal. Aroused or not, everyone should get along and get used to nudity. Nudity and the exposure of sensitive bits is casual and normal in this culture.

-It's normal for ladies to get horny and casually pull or play with their nipples or rub between their legs if they get horny. Guys will recognize she is horny but will tolerate, ignore it, overlook it, disregard it, and won't take advantage of it. A lady is free to behave as she wants, even if she shows aroused behaviors. Moreover, Guys on the other hand shouldn't feel ashamed of walking around with an election. Election are a part of life. If their penis shows itself through their shorts or a short hole, this is also fine. If a lady desires to touch it, she needs to ask for consent. Guys should tolerate, ignore, overlook, or disregard seeing another penis. In this culture nudity should mean nothing. If a homo individual wants to play with someone penis, they need to ask for consent. If a location is appropriate, and another gives consent then it's okay to masturbate another or to evolve into sexual behaviors. Others can either leave to not feel aroused or can ignore, overlook, tolerate, disregard the sexual behavior. Sexualists are okay and behave casually being in the presence of sexual activity. If another person feels horny, they can ask for consent to join. Everything is about consent, respect, and consideration.

-People will ask "how are you feeling" as a question referring to if you are feeling horny. If you reply with "feeling lewd" then a common saying can be "I also feel lewd, lets..." or "feel free to get comfortable" which means feel free to get naked or feel free to openly masturbate. Sometimes a person can say "Feel free to get comfortable. If you want to ride me, feel free to do so." This means you are free to get naked and masturbate openly and if you want to use my body to pleasure yourself, it's up to you. It can also means it's up to you to make me feel horny so we can play together or I'll mind my own business as you use or play with my body to make youself feel good. If they decline, they can tell you "feel free to get comfortable, but I dont feel horny." Which means you can get naked and openly masturbate but they are going to stay normal. A person can also tell another they feel lewd or horny and can ask another if they can get comfortable. This is asking another for consent to get naked and if they are okay to openly masturbate. If a person is naked or masturbating and other person shows up, they should warn other or ask if they are okay to be around others who are naked and masturbating. They should also warn the person who is naked or mastubating that another person has arrived.

-It would be interesting to have sexualist rooms at a job or in locations so when sexualists get a break or meet up, they can do casual sexual activities or get naked for a bit before going back to work. It would be a good area to casually talk about work related discussions while having a way to relax, relieve stress, and feel good.

If a person is naked and sees precum, it's polite to tell them they are secreting fluids. This should tell them to utilize a towel, wipe themselves, and disinfect their area of any leaked fluids. Seeing fluids should not be disturbing. It's part of human nature.

I believe p*dophilia is wrong. I believe ch!ld exploration is wrong. I believe ch!ld pron is wrong. I don't understand why people would want to seek sexual interest in ch!ldren when they are not intelligent as an adult, their body is still in development, and their child development phase will help develop their behaviors and mental development into adulthood. I believe those who seek sexual interest in ch!ldren are under the behaviors of an individual who prays upon the weak. It's understandable that males can develop a sexual phase for a variety of illogical things that arouse them. This can be from absurd 2d art to possibly even vehicles. It's understandable that younger individuals might go through a phase where they have a tempuary interest in materials that are strictly forbidden. With maturation, it's believed these individuals will grow out of these phases, and for the better due to legal consequences. Those who do not grow out of it put themselves at great legal risk. Those who produce indecent content containing ch!ldren should suffer the consequences. Ch!ldren need to be protected. Their innocence need to be protected. In the event a ch!ld is indecently exploited, I believe this exploit will exist forever online and therefore the producer should provide payment throughout the ch!ld's life. Nudity alone is not enough to warrant exploit (because of nudist or tribal lifestyles), the content must be of explicit adult nature or be for the sole purpose of exploiting a ch!ld such as intentional intent to exploit a ch!ld for irrational or monetary purposes. If this is found to be true then the I think the producer should go through the legal consiquences and provide payment for the duration of a ch!ld's life or to a court appointed date, perhaps until a ch!ld reaches late adulthood. These are my thoughts on this ch!ld related issue. Any further sexual activities with ch!lren should forever be strictly forbidden and individuals should be trialed to the full extent of the law. Once again ch!ldren need to be protected. Their innocence need to be protected. Their development into adulthood should be untainted by adult culture.

Conservatism in sexual culture allows for virginists. Virginity are people who do not want to lose their virginity. This form of sexuality is encourages to use methods of masturbation and outercourse for sex. These might be individuals who think sex is too extreme or think the exchange of bodily fluids is gross. Sexualism encourages individuals to learn about themselves, their interests, and what they want to consent to or experiment with.

controversially, sexualists don't care if their teenagers are having sex openly around the house or in plain sight. They should be encouraged to have sex in private. Sex and nudity is a normal way of life to sexualists. As long as they have ethics, know their boundaries, and that if a person gets preganent, they will be married to that partner and married for life. If it's with multiple partners, they will be married to the child where the majority of the genes come from. If there are mixed children from multiple partners then it will be a polyamerous marriage. Same-sex partners doesnt matter. That is the only condition for allowing them to be this way around the house. Parents let their teens know they are responsible for their actions and ask for their teens to choose sexual partners wisely otherwise they could end up marrying them for life. Parents should not get involved in a teens relationship unless to give advice and also should hint at encouraging them to wait to have sex until they are an adult. If a family member gets turned on, they are allowed to fantasize and relieve themselves to get back to normal. They are mature enough to know it is fantasy ment for stimulation and should never become a reality. It is extremely forbidden to have sex with family members. Family and sex do not mix. Children and sex do not mix. Sex should never be around children. For sexualists children are to be protected from sex and their innocence preserved. Children are considered children until they are the age of puberty. Once they reach puberty age, they are considered teenagers. Teenagers going through a hormonal phase are allowed to engage sexually with other teenagers. If they get pregonent, they are to be married. They are considered immature adults until they reach the rational mental maturity age of 25. After they reach rational mental maturity, they are considered mature adults. After the age of 18 is when they are allowed to engage in sexual behaviors with consenting adults (10 years old or younger) except for family because it is forbidden due to birth defects. Controvercially, the ealiest and original idea was as soon as a person developed puberty is when they are old enough for sexual relations within the ten year range but to protect teens and innocents and to make functional families, it's not this way (At the most extreme, I believe its extremely wrong for a potential 23 year old to be with a 13 year old. The premise is if one is old enough to have a hormonal phase, they are old enough for intercourse, but because of strong family values, its changed to cater to making functional families). Moreover family sex is strictly forbidden unless it's step family. Step families are questionable. Anyone who has family sex is no longer a sexualist and part of sexualism. Incest involving intercourse is strictly forbidden. Sensual grinding is considered masturbation. If a family masturbates another it is also forbidden but not as dir and extreme as intercourse. Both should be forbidden because masturbation can evolve into intercourse which is extremely forbidden. A sexualist who breaks this sacred rule is called an exhiled-sexualist or incesters and can no longer interact sexually with other sexualists or be invited to sexualist events.

Group sexy event rules:
1. Consent, respect, and consideration. Only have sex with permission. Ask only 3 times. Rejections are okay, don't take them personal. They may open up later. This is a safe sex and no pressure environment. Id your partner says stop, you stop. The only time you don't stop is if you fully and absolutly know you and your partner are in a bdsm roleplay in which case you say the safety keyword.
2 Married couples need to be absolute with what they are comfortable with, such as if they are swinging or only exclusively having sex or intercourse with their partners. Married couples, let other people know your limits. Let people know if intercourse is off limits if that's what you agreed upon with your partners. People who come to these events are aware what is going on and know they can be a part or partially part of the event. Anyone who is not in agreement with the event needs to leave immediately.
3. Establish a horny atmosphere and maybe make people wet before getting fully naked. Let people ease into nudity. After the horny atmosphere is created is when you are free to go about completely naked. When the event begins, people are encouraged to touch themselves with clothes on to help build the horny feelings.
4. Condoms and contraception. Always wear condoms. You are responsible for your own creations. Ladies, do checkups every one or two weeks to make sure nothing is developing.
5. Hygiene. if you make a mess you clean it. You'll have access to fresh towels. You should also have access to lube. Drink water after doing it a while.
6. Any drama, you resolve in private. Don't ruin the experience for others.
7. Safety word is Noko for BDSM.

I think men and woman can be different, but through sex they are the same.








































































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