Lie Games

I feel the desire to write about cheaters. It's my opinion that no one deserves to be cheated on, regardless how insane or undesirable one's partner can be. I believe cheating happens as soon as someone, who is in a relationship, starts to flirt with another person who's not their partner. It's my belief that if one cheats, they are likely to continue to cheat. The reason cheating is bad is not because of immorality or unfaithfulness to commit to a partner, it is because it hurts others and brings sadness and conflict upon one's family. It effects the psychological well-being of those close in relation. In a cheating relationship between a male and female, it is wrong for both partners to consent to such indecent action. I believe it's selfish to commit to an action without considering the reaction of others. I also believe it is not the female's fault if she were to approach the male; it is the male's fault for accepting her and to proceed with the indecent activity. From a male's perspective, I believe it's the male's responsibility to have self discipline and obtain distance from the other individual in order to prevent indirect emotional distress from other loved ones.

Advice for those with cheating parents:
I'm sure there could be more than one feeling that could be present in one's thoughts. I believe composure, self discipline and civility is key to keeping sane. Even though there is pain and anger. One should understand it is the decision of their parent to consent to such action. I believe by looking past the pain one shows love towards one parent, however in such case it's best to keep distance so that one does not play into mind games in which could lead to further pain when one's parent decides to cheat again. If in such a case, where it is causing tremendous problems, it is best for one to leave such an uncomfortable environment. If leaving is a terrible idea, then perhaps it's best to become a retreatist or focus on yourself or the needs of other family members.

Advise for cheating partners:
It is understandable if one desires to leave or to desire a divorce. However, it is proper to do what is in favor of one's children. If one finds forgiveness, it's understandable that the level of trust and relationship could have the possibility to no longer exist as it once did. Nonetheless, it's best to prevent cheating before it happens by catering to the duties of a relationship. It's important to keep things new, fresh, find ways to make up, obtain workable solutions and makes each other happy.