Before I begin discussing the article, I would like to apologize
in advance because I wrote this in a way that may seem very disorganized.
I believe family is the most important foundation one should
have in their life. I believe the role of the father and mother are necessary
for one to be complete psychologically. When a child is born it requires the
love and attention of both parents. The father and mother are both important
because I believe the offspring gains an example of what a functional
relationship is like and obtains the needs for a healthy and balanced development. Of course
in order for the child to have a good representation of a relationship, the
parents need to find stability within their marriage. I would think in single parent
households, or if an individual is being raised by grandparents (in a western
society), it may be that the raised individual’s life feels incomplete or
adapts a role in which can be unproductive to society or to their development
into adulthood. Therefore, I stress the importance and magnitude of being a
parent and having children.
Controversially, I have seen families that don’t care a lot
of their young, mothers giving birth for personal gain and parents with lustful
intent bring an unexpected children into the world. This saddens me. It saddens
me even more to have the thought that some parents consider their children a
nuisance or nothing more than a pet. I consider a child to be of upmost
importance and should be well taken care of because they are the future of a
society. I don’t think it’s right to commit acts that could lead to bearing
children if one is not willing or prepared to raise and take care of then. If
such an event is undesired, one should take proper measures to avoid
unnecessary births. I believe it would be with good intention to sustain
albescence or engage in protective sexual acts.
In addition, I personally do not believe abortion is right. I agree it
is a females right; however, through the possibility of potentially creating another
human being, I believe the idea that one can bring life into the world is and
should always be considered sacred and rightfully respected. If a life is unexpectedly created, it should be cared for by another that can take proper
care of that individual until they mature into adulthood. I do rather have a
controversial suggestion idea that all undesired children should maybe be
adapted into military culture and used to serve; however, this idea is highly
debatable. Moreover, I’m sure the underlining reason for abortion is that some
individuals want to engage in lustful acts or use their body in ways that maybe
disregards the use of protection. Although it is their right to use their body
any way they want, I believe they should do so in a more respectable manner to
respect the potential giving of life. For those who look at this from an
economic perspective, it is possible to have a functional society and possible
for a female to use her body the way she wants and still maintain economic and
population growth stability. I believe it’s possible to implement such a system
that makes use of children put into adoption or find ways to encourage
individuals from over populating. Nonetheless, by this time I’m sure there will
be such technologies to sustain over growth of population if not the
reanimation of mars or even possible space colonization.
Going back to discussing children, I believe it’s proper to
have the essential needs and proper mindset necessary to bring a child into the
world and be well equipped and informed when raising the life of that child. I
believe a child that is given birth out of ignorance is to be a parent’s greatest
sin.
There’s a saying that if one takes care of their children
their children will one day take care of them. I believe this is to be true. It
may be hard for a parent to raise their child, especially if their children, teenager, or young adult can be hard to tolerate. However, out of love and upheaval of
family- culture tradition, one should take care of their offspring until their
offspring feels prepared to go out into the world. In addition, if one’s
offspring has great ambition that one can physically see, they should be helped,
tolerated, and cared for until they are able to be in the position to go out
and help themselves. However, if one’s off spring does not feel the need to
leave, they should be reminded, encouraged, and perhaps pushed in positive ways
to move out onto their own. If all rationality has failed, I believe it is
necessary for them to be cast out into the world with the help of the entire
family. It’s with great hope that they realize the good intention of their parents
to do what is right for their offspring. Furthermore, having a stable
foundation, I also believe it is important for one’s off spring to have the
foundation to fall back on if they are in desperate need of help, would like to find ways to get ahead in life or to start
their life over again. Thus, if I may quickly add, I think it’s out of tremendous respect
and love of one’s family to respect one’s elders; be kind, compassionate, and
caring; and take care of them until their time in this world is finished.
I believe it’s a parent’s duty to teach, explain, and guide
their offspring. I think it’s with good intention that a parent teaches a child
things that they themselves already know; such as things that might help them in life, how
things work, what is right and wrong, and suggestions on what one should do in
certain situations. In essence one is passing down one’s knowledge. Often I see
parents force instructions onto their children in a very unnecessary way. For
example, when I was at a restaurant, I observes a lady talk down to their kids in
a very negative and rude way. I’m sure she was annoyed, however part of being a
parent is knowing how to deal with your child in certain given situations. I believe there
was a better way the lady could have dealt with her children then to treat them the way she did. It's most unfortunate children will be children and do what is in their nature. It’s with proper instruction and
action that will help their children to behave and act accordingly. I think it's a good idea that such instructions should be researched if not asked by those with proper experience. In
addition, I think there is a difference between forcing or pushing one to obey and
instructing one properly to obey. In discipline, I think the use of force can be justifiable in the most extreme circumstances; however, I believe there are alternatives to disciplining a child. I think the best solution for children is to punish them and have
them understand the reason why they are being punished. Or, instead of ordering
instructions, have them understand why they should follow one's instructions. I also
agree with the idea that if one’s child continues to disregard instruction (depending
on the severity of the situation), they should be allowed to do as
they please so that they can learn about the consequences for themselves. I think it is important to teach the power of decisions and consequences. A
rather crazy idea would be to stage events that will allow a child to see the
logic and guidance of their parent’s decisions. Moreover, if a child is continuously disobedient, it’s most
common that the problem resides in the parents. On such a case, a parent should
reexamine their actions and behaviors to find a more logical, rational, and
compassionate approach to dealing with their children and with their partner. It’s also a good idea to
note that children learn by representation, they will mimic the traits of their
parents; for this it’s wise for parents to set a positive example. In addition, regarding parents, I would think
there would have to be much self-discipline to understand that a child will
make mistakes, act irrationally, and will not see things logically until they
obtain a more matured frame of conscious. As stated before, it’s a parent who sets
the example role for the future child family. What a child learns in the family
will more than likely carry on with family of their own; therefore it’s best to set the
best example possible.
An interesting idea I came up with is when raising a family,
I believe it’s a great idea to have family traditions or unique family
experiences that allows an individual to reminisce and reflect on past family
events and allow for the possibility for one to have future family traditions,
memories, and experiences to share with families of their own.
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